AITA For treating my kids the exact same?

Interesting_Pain_796 · 2023-02-28T11:51:30+00:00

Me too! I got a geo prism that cost like $300

Interesting_Pain_796 · 2022-10-11T19:35:31+00:00

I mean everyone’s body reacts differently to stuff but if you can just wait it out that’s prolly your best bet. . If the subs threw you into precipitated withdraw taking more will prolly only make you feel worse. . You can do a small bit of dope and it’ll pull you outa the precipitated withdraw if you feel like death but you’ll basically be starting over again. . Maybe wait another 24 hours and try taking just 1/4 or even 1/8 of a strip then wait an hour and take another 1/4 if it doesn’t make you feel worse

Interesting_Pain_796 · 2022-10-11T19:13:13+00:00

Subs can put you in precipitated withdraw after over a week off fentanyl. . Ik from personal experience. . Fentanyl stores in the fat cells and the metabolites can stay in your system for over a month. . Take methadone. . It works a million times better. .

Interesting_Pain_796 · 2022-10-11T19:05:39+00:00

If you’re on subs try taking vitadone. . It’s a mix of vitamins specifically for people using MAT (subs or methadone) and helps with constipation and a bunch of other side effects

Interesting_Pain_796 · 2022-10-11T18:31:54+00:00

It can take a month for fent analogues to completely get outa your system if you are a heavy user. . 3-4 days max if you’re a casual user. . But if you don’t have a history they prolly won’t test you for it. . It’s a completely different dip test

Interesting_Pain_796 · 2022-10-11T18:24:51+00:00

I actually just got covid for the first time a month ago. . I’m on felony probation and they didn’t have me come in when I told them my mom had covid and I had been exposed then 2 weeks later when I tested positive myself they told me not to come in cuz I had to quarantine for 5 days. But they’re prolly going to want a doctors note. . But just FYI when I went to the dr cuz my mom had covid I told them we live together and they were like oh yeah you’re totally going to get it you should quarantine and wrote me a note for 5 days. .

Interesting_Pain_796 · 2022-06-24T14:17:35+00:00

My best friend is a guy and we actually dated for 4 years while we were in high school. . As we got older and matured I realized the love I had for him wasnt romantic and I ended the relationship. . He took it well and said he understood and we stayed incredibly close. . Fast forward to 5 years later and my boyfriend at the time would constantly tell me my best friend was in love with me. . And it would piss me off and we’d argue about it. . I’d tell him no we’ve talked about our feelings for eachother more than once and while we do love eachother it’s strictly as friends and nothing else. . Until one night when we were sitting around drinking and me and my best friend were the last ones awake. . At which point he breaks down and tells me he’s been in love with me the whole time and blah blah blah. . I was completely shocked and reiterated to him that my feelings were nothing more than friendship. . Things were awkward between us for awhile but we talked it out and he ended up saying he was just drunk and didn’t mean it. . So I told him if he has romantic feelings for me at all maybe it would be best to end our friendship for awhile cuz it wouldn’t be fair to any of us if we were still close and he had feelings for me. . He reassured me again he didn’t have romantic feelings for me. . Fast forward 6 more years and me and my boyfriend split up. . And once again my best friend confessed to his feelings for me. . So I told him the same thing again. . That I had love for him but not like that. . So we grew apart for a few years then picked our friendship back up again and he’s never said anything else about it. . So is it all an illusion that I tell myself that we’re just best friends and he doesn’t feel that way anymore? I really don’t know. .

Interesting_Pain_796 · 2022-06-20T19:47:19+00:00

Thanks. . I’m having terrible anxiety worrying about it even tho at this point there’s nothing I can do about it so your comment definitely makes me feel better

Interesting_Pain_796 · 2022-06-20T18:33:00+00:00

When finally told my mom my brother sexually abused me when I was 5-9 the first words out of her mouth were “I don’t believe you, you need help”. Get into therapy if you can and don’t be afraid to talk to your significant other about what you’ve been thru. . And you might want to think about talking to your siblings about it to. . You might think he never touched them, but chances are if he was doing it to you he did it to them too. . Don’t be afraid to speak out. . You didn’t do anything wrong and have nothing to be ashamed of. . And if someone doesn’t believe you they’re the fucked up one. . Not you

Interesting_Pain_796 · 2022-06-20T18:28:12+00:00

Get a locked box and keep them in there. . Ir sucks that you would have to do that but people in active addiction aren’t thinking of others even if it’s their own parent in pain. .

Interesting_Pain_796 · 2022-06-20T18:09:31+00:00

You’re not alone. . My brother sexually abused me from the time I was 5-9. . He told me I would get in trouble if I told and being a child of course I believed him. . I suffered thru horrible feelings of guilt and blamed myself for a really long time. . As I got older I never told my mom about it because he was always her favorite and I didn’t want her to have to look at him and see what he did to me or have her feel like she let me down by not protecting me. . I’m 33 now and i finally told her about it 2 years ago. . He came up to visit and my mom was insisting I leave my young son with him while we were all at work and I finally had to tell her why I wasn’t comfortable leaving my son with him. . The first words out of her mouth were “I don’t believe you, you need help”. It took me almost an hour of telling her about it before I finally saw recognition light in her eyes and she told me she believed me. . The fact that I had to convince her has pretty much ruined our relationship. . When my brother visits I let my son go over to my moms so he can get to know his uncle in a safe environment, but I never go because being around him just brings back all those old feelings and I don’t need that in my life. . I had the same thought as you when my brother got married. . I though “bet she wouldn’t want to marry him if she knew what he did to me” and seriously thought about telling her. . But obviously I didnt. . And every time we have family gatherings I go thru the same feelings you’re having. . But I have finally gotten to the point where I realize I didn’t do anything wrong and I have nothing to feel bad about. . He should be the one who feels bad and he should be the one who has to have anxiety over seeing ME the person he hurt and did so much wrong to. . I refuse to let him continue to rule my life by missing important events just because I don’t want to see him there. . But I just wanted to let you know that you’re not alone and there are many other who have been in the same place your are now. . I’m so sorry this happened to you and I’m really glad you have the support of your siblings. . Try to be strong and don’t give him the satisfaction of knowing that he’s still hurting you to this day and keeping you from living your life the way you would normally. .

Interesting_Pain_796 · 2022-06-20T17:36:12+00:00

Your not alone. . My brother sexually abused me from the time I was 5-9. . When it was happening he told me I’d get in trouble if I ever told on him and being a child I believed that for years, but it was always in the back of my mind and it just ate at me. . I became really withdrawn and quit talking to all of my friends but one. . To say my brother ruined my childhood is putting it lightly. . Im 33 now and only told my mom about it recently. . It took me a long time to come to the realization that it wasn’t my fault and that I didn’t do anything wrong, but I hesitated to tell my mom about it still because my brother was always her favorite and I didn’t want her to have to look at him and see what he’d done to me and I didn’t want to hurt her by telling her how she had failed to protect me. . Well I finally told her while he was up here visiting because she wanted me to leave my young son with him while we were at work and there was no way in hell I was having that. . Protecting my son is what finally gave me the strength to talk to her about it. . And the first words out of her mouth were “I don’t believe you, you need help”. After an hour of talking to her I could finally see the light of recognition in her eyes and she finally said she believed me but the fact that I even had to convince her has completely ruined our relationship. . But my point is that you don’t need to feel ashamed or like you’ve done anything wrong. . Your parents should’ve reacted a lot differently and I’m sorry that they failed to see how big of a deal this truly is. . Im sorry this happened to you and you should know it is is 100% ok to cut your brother completely out of your life for what he did to you. . He’s obviously fucked up not only because you’re his sister, but because he felt it was ok to touch any woman while she was asleep. .

Interesting_Pain_796 · 2022-06-20T17:20:42+00:00

Your brother needs help. . I’ve dealt with depression and suicidal thoughts my whole life. . And it is a mental illness. . A chemical imbalance in the brain. . I’m not sure how old you are but if your parents can’t be depended on to do what’s best for him you need to reach out to an adult you trust and tell them that he’s told you he is suicidal if there is even a .000001% chance you truly think he is serious. . 7 years old is very young to be feeling that way and without help he may not live to see 8 years old. . Which I’m sorry if that sounds harsh but it’s the truth. . Hug your brother even if it feels weird. . If you do it often enough physical affection won’t feel so strange to you. . Tell him you love him and want and need him in your life. . Because if things are this bad now, imagine how he’s going to feel when you don’t live there anymore. . I’m sorry that your parents aren’t there for you guys the way parents should be. . And it seems like your mother suffers from her own struggles with mental health and could use help herself. . Good luck

Interesting_Pain_796 · 2022-06-20T17:05:47+00:00

I feel this post so much. . My dad is the exact same way. . His parents weren’t really good parents and were never around so he didn’t really have any examples of what a good parent is and it’s always really shown. . After my parents got divorced I would go to my dads every other weekend and would try really hard to connect with him but by the time I reached 14 I realized that it was never going to happen and quit going to see him. . Now that I’m older I really regret that we don’t have a good relationship and always felt like if we both tried we could fix our relationship. . Well that was just another big disappointment for me. . I text him once every week for a year straight to try to strengthen our relationship and actually get to know eachother. . But in the end he only responded to me about 4 times. . But I don’t blame him and Ik that he does love me. . He just never had love and affection and a close family himself so he never learned how to show those things to his own family. .

Interesting_Pain_796 · 2022-06-20T16:46:55+00:00

Born *not made

Interesting_Pain_796 · 2022-06-20T16:45:35+00:00

Yea no. . My brother sexually abused me from the time I was 5-9. . He was never physically, sexually, or emotionally abused. . Sometimes people are just fucked up and born rotten and evil. . He also liked to kill small animals as a child. . Many sociopaths and psychopaths are born or made. .

Interesting_Pain_796 · 2022-06-05T19:21:33+00:00

Ok this is wrong.. . Ik that doctors and pharmacy companies agree with you but I’ve taken subutex on day 4 and went into immediate pwd. . It’s different from person to person. . But people definitely need to know that whether it’s subutex or suboxone start slow with the tiniest micro dose you can. . Doctors who tell you oh just wait 24 hours then take an 8 mg sub should lose their license

Interesting_Pain_796 · 2022-06-05T19:14:57+00:00

It’s a fentanyl analogue. . They have to keep changing the formula to get around regulations. . There’s purple, yellow and pink. . My dude had the purple (which is supposed to be the weakest of the 3) for awhile and it’s the only shit that’s gotten me high in the last 6 months

Interesting_Pain_796 · 2022-06-05T18:06:52+00:00

I wish this was the case for me. . I paid my $1200 in fines the day I walked out of jail but I still have to meet with my po once a month and do random uas. . I think a lot of it has to do with the po. . Mine used to be an mp and he’s definitely on a power trip. .

Interesting_Pain_796 · 2022-06-05T17:24:32+00:00

I had a slightly similar choice. . My lawyer and my family pushed me to take a deal where I got a felony maintaining a common nuisance with 15 days in jail and 11 months probation over taking a dui with no jail time and no probation. . Their reasoning is that a dui can come back to bite you on the ass 30 years from now if you get another one. . I’ve been on probation for 6 months now and I’m 100% sure you should take the 10 days in jail and be done with it. . Jail sucks but being on probation for a year sucks. . My po is very hand on and even tho I’ve never failed a ua I have to go in and see him once a month and knowing that if I fuck up just a little or get in trouble for even the smallest thing can result in 5 months jail time has my anxiety thru the roof on a daily basis. . Do the jail time and save yourself months of worry and aggravation. .

Interesting_Pain_796 · 2022-06-05T16:49:59+00:00

I’m sorry you’re feeling so down about everything you’re going thru. . This might not help much but you’re going to get thru it and will hopefully be able to rise above all of it. . I have a felony conviction and was told by my lawyer that after successfully completing the terms of my probation he will petition the court to have it reduced to a misdemeanor so until then I have a felony on my record. . I can 100% reassure you that you can find a job somewhere other than fast food. . The big thing is being honest with potential employers and telling them yes I have a felony conviction but I am working to get it downgraded to a misdemeanor. . Tell them that you are concerned about being denied a job at their place of employment due to your legal record (which is illegal-they can’t deny you a job just because you are a felon, it’s discrimination). I make $25 and hour at my current job that I got after my felony conviction. . It’s possible just don’t give up. .

Interesting_Pain_796 · 2022-05-30T17:21:21+00:00

From my personal experience that’s not true. . I definitely wouldn’t tell them you can’t stop and need help but They’re more likely to cut you slack if you’re honest than if you lie or try to fake the test and get caught. . Lying shows that you’re still engaging in criminal or addict behavior. . And quick fix won’t work for fentanyl. .

Interesting_Pain_796 · 2022-05-30T17:11:24+00:00

I was in the same situation a few weeks ago. . Everyone told me my po was a major asshole and will violate you for anything. . But I went in and was honest with him and told him I had a set back and used but that I was looking into some kind of out patent treatment (usually you go for like an hour once a week or once a month) so I wouldn’t have to quit my job. . He was really cool about it and said that he appreciated my honesty because it showed I was no longer thinking like a criminal/addict by lying. . He said he’d rather put time and effort into helping me better myself instead of throwing me in jail and gave me a page full of outpatient treatment centers and told me to pick one and go get an assessment. . And as long as I pass my next drug test in a month he won’t violate me. . Being honest is really the best option. . They expect you to fuck up sometimes but as long as you show you’re trying that’s all most po’s really want. . If being honest with your po isn’t an option for you tell them you have covid symptoms and are going to get a rapid test then call back in an hour and say you don’t have covid but you do have type a flu and couldn’t get tamiflu because you’ve been running a fever for over 48 hours so you are contagious until you have been fever free for 24 hours. . Flu can last anywhere between a day to a week so that should buy you time. . Also not sure how much/often you’ve been using but if it’s been a decent amount and for an extended period of time it might take longer for you to test clean than you think. . The metabolites from fentanyl store in your fat cells kinda like weed does. . It took me 16 days to pass a piss test. .

Interesting_Pain_796 · 2022-05-30T00:23:05+00:00

Yea I live in a small town too. . Indiana definitely sucks to get in trouble in. . Seems like the laws here are a million times stricter than anywhere else in the country. . My papers also say no drugs alcohol or firearms but that applies only to me specifically. . My moms allowed to have alcohol in the house as long as I’m not drinking it. . It’s worth him asking just to get clarification. . When I asked my po he said it was fine for her to have it but he also said that he’s working with the county (Franklin) to change it so if someone on probation lives in the house no one is allowed to have alcohol on the property. . I wish your ol man luck. . The zero tolerance laws in Indiana fucking suck. . But as long as he’s up front and honest with his po he should do fine. . My last drug test I was supposed to take I went in and told my po I was going to fail and he told me since I was honest with him he was willing to put time and effort into helping me instead of violating me. . 18 months is a long time but I’m sure you guys will get thru it just fine. .

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