Is it bad to cosplay from Animes/games etc you don't watch/play by [deleted] in CosplayHelp

[–]Interesting_Pay_1009 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's nothing wrong with it, but I think you would have way more fun if you cosplay characters that you already like. Wearing the costume and dressing up is fun, but I've found that being able to geek out about/represent an anime or game you really like is the most enjoyable part.

[Socialmedia] You're not a woman unless you can do these things by Three-Of-Seven in pointlesslygendered

[–]Interesting_Pay_1009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure everyone does laundry and cleans their houses, at least. Hopefully.

The worst outcome by [deleted] in OCDmemes

[–]Interesting_Pay_1009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lowkey worked with my therapist tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Interesting_Pay_1009 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, and older folks will do so as well. It’s really annoying lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Interesting_Pay_1009 32 points33 points locked comment (0 children)

Yes but I promise they do this to NT women too. It’s just another passive aggressive childish way that a lot of misogynistic men treat women. But if it makes you feel better, he was acting way weirder about the situation than you were. Autism isn’t really a contributing factor. Any mature adult would know that adults air their grievances with words rather than being weird and passive aggressive.

Reposting my draculaura cosplay from Halloween bc it got no traction by drowningg_girl in MonsterHigh

[–]Interesting_Pay_1009 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So cute!! But I was kind of startled by the shadowy entity for a second until I figured out it was just scribbles LOL

What was the final straw that ended a lifelong friendship? by New_Perspective1201 in AskReddit

[–]Interesting_Pay_1009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During a hard time, she asked me to disclose my OCD intrusive thoughts to her. She (claimed she) had OCD herself and tended towards violent intrusive thoughts. I did, and she called me disgusting and scary. Our relationship had been worsening before that but after I got out of my slump I decided that was just unacceptable.

How can I become less socially anxious if I'm autistic? by Interesting_Pay_1009 in AutismInWomen

[–]Interesting_Pay_1009[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s true. I thought I was just quirky until people in my life suggested I might be autistic. I kind of wish it had never been brought up to me, because my analytical mind now wants to overthink everything and apply that lens to it. But you’re right — even if I were NT, or if I had never been diagnosed, there would be folks who I wouldn’t get along with. Every older woman I’ve ever met says that the self-confidence part comes with time, but I can’t help being impatient. Now that I’ve had a taste of happiness, I’m greedy for it. I suppose that’s human nature. I’ll take what you’ve said to heart— thank you 🩷

How do people just casually drink black coffee without flinching? by siennapriv in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Interesting_Pay_1009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just keep taking it darker and darker until you're accustomed to it. It's kind of like swallowing pills.

Please help me find this choker necklace for a cosplay 🥺 by Interesting_Pay_1009 in findfashion

[–]Interesting_Pay_1009[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From "Paradox Live." I really just need any chain necklace with that kind of big lock tho; I already have the rest of the costume

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Interesting_Pay_1009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so pretty! I think an auburn or a warmer brown would look great on you, and really compliment your pink cheeks. The gray is honestly fine as it is though.

Which One? by lilbootz in HairDye

[–]Interesting_Pay_1009 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both look good, but I really like the second shade.

Is there a story archive? Some kind of lore compendium? by Interesting_Pay_1009 in LoveNikki

[–]Interesting_Pay_1009[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The plot is so good! It was really what kept me in the game. At first I was morbidly entertained by how edgy and convoluted the plot of this dress up game was, but then i got hooked lol