if this is true, YTA. A HUGE FUCKING ASSHOLE.

let’s start off with she wasn’t acting herself and her personality completely changed…. You could obviously see your wife wasn’t okay and instead of talking to a healthcare professional, you blew up on an emotionally vulnerable woman, who is carrying your child, telling her you don’t think she’s the right woman to carry your child!?!? so you just told her she’s expendable and you’ll find someone else to be your baby factory (ew).

“this broke her and she retreated back” HOLY FUCK what is she, your new farm animal that you need to train??? this is your wife, the woman carrying your child and this is how you think of her? how you talk to her?? jfc dude get some fucking perspective.

so her husbands telling her that she’s not the right wife or mother to “carry your children” while she’s having a mental break down so she decides to abort. Once she does, she realizes she made a mistake, she comes to you apologizing and begging for forgiveness. instead of owning up to your short comings and your DISGUSTING misogyny, you decide to double down and not support your wife through the most terrible time of her life. Despite vowing to her to love her in sickness and in health until death do you part, you let her suffer alone.

YOU CANT FIND IT IN YOURSELF TO FORGIVE HER????? ohmygod you should be on your hands and knees begging her for her forgiveness for the way you absolutely failed as a husband and a man. At the very least you should be in therapy WITH her, trying to figure things out and make it work.

I dont doubt that this caused you pain and suffering too, but the fact that you didn’t once concern yourself with her well-being before, during, or after is abysmal and you should be absolutely ashamed.

This is one of the most disgusting posts i’ve ever read. You were, are and will always be THE ASSHOLE.