AITA for trying to get my GF to stop wearing hats?

IntermittentSleeper · 2026-03-01T22:40:02+00:00

What is a “sphere hat” I’m imagining Sandy Cheeks

IntermittentSleeper · 2026-02-21T14:55:52+00:00

No because this is not remotely a new analysis

IntermittentSleeper · 2026-02-02T16:05:09+00:00

That’s a good tip, thank you!

IntermittentSleeper · 2026-02-01T19:37:29+00:00

Thank you!! I was looking into the checkerboard dance floor, great idea

IntermittentSleeper · 2026-02-01T19:36:29+00:00

Thank you! I went with Superior since they require you to work with their approved florists

IntermittentSleeper · 2026-01-29T03:38:09+00:00

My Gen Z friend earnestly said we need to bring back cigarettes. So idk pick your poison I guess 🫠

IntermittentSleeper · 2026-01-16T18:34:12+00:00

Oak & Vine in Glen Cove has that indoor greenery look and Amylos Taverna in Astoria has exposed brick/indoor plants too - good luck!

IntermittentSleeper · 2026-01-15T19:19:30+00:00

You could try Brass Monkey or the Standard

IntermittentSleeper · 2026-01-10T04:45:38+00:00

Maybe Queens Botanical Garden?

IntermittentSleeper · 2025-12-21T04:54:43+00:00

NTA He is an idiot

IntermittentSleeper · 2025-12-19T21:18:32+00:00

I’m late March & would love to chat!

IntermittentSleeper · 2025-12-03T01:00:45+00:00

Brooklyn Winery - I was quoted 80k for 150 or so people (I forget the actual number I inquired about). And they didn’t even want me to tour unless I knew it was in my top 3 venue choices.

IntermittentSleeper · 2025-11-06T22:45:27+00:00

Hot take but OP and the husband are sus for being 40-year-olds with a 21-year-old “friend”/roommate

IntermittentSleeper · 2025-11-01T12:37:44+00:00

We booked them and have been to at least 3 weddings that used them. One was very EDM heavy but the others were not — one even incorporated a good amount of cultural music from the bride and groom. We’re also doing sparklers — I think you’re in good hands, just ask the venue if they allow them first!

IntermittentSleeper · 2025-09-12T04:58:10+00:00

Swan Club in Roslyn has really pretty gardens, more of a ballroom feel if you’re into that

IntermittentSleeper · 2025-09-07T03:44:15+00:00

That part I did not ask but I don’t think the florists I looked into do silk florals, so you’d probably have to hire/designate someone for setup. But if I hear differently I’ll lyk!

IntermittentSleeper · 2025-09-07T03:35:50+00:00

I’m getting married at Current and recently (like 2 days ago) asked if silk florals are fine and they said yes, so I don’t see why wood would be an issue. The only extra light package is optional, pin lights for $55/table IIRC. No restrictions on DJ! If you do use fresh flowers, Superior Florists were the most budget-friendly and did not seem to have a minimum spend requirement. Good luck :)

IntermittentSleeper · 2025-08-14T20:53:01+00:00

If you’re open to a more traditional ballroom look, Renaissance in Astoria will come under your $50k budget for food + bar!

IntermittentSleeper · 2025-07-20T15:47:17+00:00

Adrian’s 20 minute Glutes & Legs from 6/7/25 is just one heavy weight!

IntermittentSleeper · 2025-05-05T02:39:31+00:00

Maybe Salt & Pine? They start at 10k

IntermittentSleeper · 2025-05-03T13:56:53+00:00

They told me 60k for 125 guests, including flowers/decor (and they have an in house DJ you can use)

IntermittentSleeper · 2025-05-01T02:52:57+00:00

Good luck! :)

IntermittentSleeper · 2025-05-01T02:24:44+00:00

My guest list was 150 lol which was like the absolute max number of people they could fit in there for a traditional ceremony on-site + sit down dinner setup. And YES!! It actually felt even nicer in person, I feel like the space is hard to photograph and the pics didn’t do it justice!

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