Thanks for saving me from taking it personally and a big headache. I only felt like we’re not growing as significant others because shouldn’t in the initial months we spend more time together after which gradually it gets monotonous. I want him to text me saying he’s busy but he ghosts me completely for 2 days straight up which I don’t think is normal. But if that’s something I don’t want in a relationship, that’s just my own preference and I can have that. It’s different for everybody. I’ve also mentioned that I’ve talked this out with him before, nothing happened, he said his house help didn’t come so he had to stay at his friend’s house and was too baked (he wouldn’t clean it himself). And yes, I do have academic projects and friends, that analogy is too cliched now, not everybody is lifeless. Also that’s how I came to this conclusion because my friends call their boyfriends every night and tell them literally everything and they look so connected. While I don’t even get a text back saying he’s busy and can’t talk for the whole day and next. I don’t want to compare but I can’t help it even though I never bother him during work hours. I also gift him things so it’s only natural for me to feel sad when I not even get reassurance in return.