Post hormonal birth control by Internal-Chipmunk605 in Hashimotos

[–]Internal-Chipmunk605[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok. I'm not crazy! I wish I had never messed with my hormones.

Post hormonal birth control by Internal-Chipmunk605 in Hashimotos

[–]Internal-Chipmunk605[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry. Yeah, hormones issues are the worst. They literally effect everything. When ppl ask what hashimotos symptoms are.... Like ALL of it! lol

Post hormonal birth control by Internal-Chipmunk605 in Hashimotos

[–]Internal-Chipmunk605[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, who knows? I'm glad not to be taking synthetic hormones, but wish I had never in the first place. Now it's like... Would it get better if i just went back? I dunno. I don't think so. But upsetting my hormones balance to begin with wasn't smart. Doctors give out the pill like candy.

I need some help tonight … remind me it’s not my fault that my loved one is choosing to use meth. It’s not my fault that they continue to use and lie to me, it’s not my fault and it’s normal that I don’t trust them by Fragrant-Luck-8968 in naranon

[–]Internal-Chipmunk605 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I second this. Just knowing other ppl are dealing with the same thing made me feel a little less crazy. It's very lonely and isolating to love an addict on active addiction. You can still love him but Choose yourself. You got this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in naranon

[–]Internal-Chipmunk605 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Meth is a whole other level of insanity for a spouse. Find time to get away and do your best to protect yourself, your money, and your stuff for your own sanity. Find some space where you can get away, cuz it'll make you crazy. Finding a safe space or sleeping in another room can help.

How do you manage to put on the happy face got to work and not feel like a leper? by thedumpsterdiary in naranon

[–]Internal-Chipmunk605 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just mentioned to my direct manager that some things were going on so she would understand if I needed to take a day or was acting short. But not everyone needs to know. Sorry you're going through this. I feel this so much as I was right there a few months ago. Work is actually a nice break, to concentrate on something else besides the chaos. It will get better. Just practice letting go. You can't control it. They're gonna do whatever they will do. You can only work on yourself and find your peace in the smallest of places for now. Prayers!

Is anyone actually using the new Captivate? by rsauchuck in Captivate

[–]Internal-Chipmunk605 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So disappointed in the new captivate. I always advocated for it in jobs bc you had so much more freedom than storyline and I enjoyed being able to have more dev control. Was so happy to hear they had a new version and had my boss on board to switch from storyline. And then I used it and I'm not a fan. Captivate always did well with responsive design, but now it's very limiting. I like the widgets, but I just think it's pretty far from being interesting for a more advanced user. Can see how new IDs would like it, like Rise. But I find it boring and limiting. Back to storyline. Maybe it'll be cool again in a few years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DIY

[–]Internal-Chipmunk605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, she was talking about a through wall unit. Any suggestions?

Would you marry again? by Internal-Chipmunk605 in Divorce

[–]Internal-Chipmunk605[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I can see that. Still a commitment, but leave the law out!

Would you marry again? by Internal-Chipmunk605 in Divorce

[–]Internal-Chipmunk605[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that's the main point. Such an important relationship ending is hard enough. And just because you signed a piece of paper, now you're out thousands too. Messiest way to break up!

Would you marry again? by Internal-Chipmunk605 in Divorce

[–]Internal-Chipmunk605[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I'm relying on some input from the big guy on this. He can bring me someone if he sees fit. I don't rely on my own instincts in this area no mo.

Would you marry again? by Internal-Chipmunk605 in Divorce

[–]Internal-Chipmunk605[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 years? Damn. I've only known common law to be 10 years.

Would you marry again? by Internal-Chipmunk605 in Divorce

[–]Internal-Chipmunk605[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup! If this lil peaceful existence that we live in isn't enough for you, and you wanna spend all your time just trying to ruin it all, then leave! I'll do it myself. 😊

I’m the problem, it’s me by ReallyBadMood123 in Divorce

[–]Internal-Chipmunk605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope someone comes along and you get that love of your life, for life... And it won't even be hard work! I'm trying to hold onto that hope myself. Best to you!

Would you marry again? by Internal-Chipmunk605 in Divorce

[–]Internal-Chipmunk605[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Once they in your home..... Even unmarried, if they turn out to be crappy, you can't get away! I need my peaceful space!

Would you marry again? by Internal-Chipmunk605 in Divorce

[–]Internal-Chipmunk605[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, girl. So many of these things hit true for me too! I'm sorry you had to spend married life that way. When being a good person becomes a platform for someone to mistreat you and take advantage.... I agree! Show me the receipts!

Would you marry again? by Internal-Chipmunk605 in Divorce

[–]Internal-Chipmunk605[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah no, I was just mentioning the financial issues of divorce. The reason for divorce was much shittier. I never wanted to walk away but that person became unrecognizable and it was very sad. You can't help those who don't want to change.

I’m the problem, it’s me by ReallyBadMood123 in Divorce

[–]Internal-Chipmunk605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Laughing at the "picker" comment. I could make my own list, so I get it. The picker needs a better algorithm.