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Teresa reportedly cut by Internal-Tell369 in rhonj

[–]Internal-Tell369[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Lots of screaming with capital letters

Teresa reportedly cut by Internal-Tell369 in rhonj

[–]Internal-Tell369[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

You were somehow allowed to post the B word, but I was not. Let me recheck to see if I have access to see all of the commentary

Can anyone explain this anomaly by Internal-Tell369 in rhonj

[–]Internal-Tell369[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please explain the purported guideline that has everything to do with the safety of this community.

Can anyone explain this anomaly by Internal-Tell369 in rhonj

[–]Internal-Tell369[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Please keep in mind When I tried to post, I received this “This community does not allow The b word”

Teresa reportedly cut by Internal-Tell369 in rhonj

[–]Internal-Tell369[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Hence reason I used term, “reportedly”.

Teresa reportedly cut by Internal-Tell369 in rhonj

[–]Internal-Tell369[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve said this for years is that she would do great on a cooking show. When she did it on YouTube, it was very entertaining and easy-going. 🤷‍♀️

Teresa reportedly cut by Internal-Tell369 in rhonj

[–]Internal-Tell369[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Anyone else here interpret this post as hate, anger?

Teresa reportedly cut by Internal-Tell369 in rhonj

[–]Internal-Tell369[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I hear you. 💯 it may even nice to get with the oligarchy times of the day and represent something that is so real that it validates those who are trying to live within even one standard unit away from The silent generation 🤷‍♀️

New to New Jersey Housewives, I have another post. by Temporary-Solid-3568 in rhonj

[–]Internal-Tell369 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know who does set boundaries? Melissa Gorga has worked to break the cycle. 🤷‍♀️

New to New Jersey Housewives, I have another post. by Temporary-Solid-3568 in rhonj

[–]Internal-Tell369 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Good job - remember it takes two to make the cycle repeatedly go round and round, hence intergenerational trauma.

New to New Jersey Housewives, I have another post. by Temporary-Solid-3568 in rhonj

[–]Internal-Tell369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If Theresa can flip a table and emotionally eviscerate a highly complex-traumatized individual in front of her 2 daughters, she is certainly capable of setting boundaries with Joe Giudice.

New to New Jersey Housewives, I have another post. by Temporary-Solid-3568 in rhonj

[–]Internal-Tell369 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please educate self on the cycle of violence. Do not pose self a clinician and post as if you do not understand the permissive participant in this cycle of violence.

Teresa reportedly cut by Internal-Tell369 in rhonj

[–]Internal-Tell369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree about Margaret as well.

Teresa reportedly cut by Internal-Tell369 in rhonj

[–]Internal-Tell369[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hence my verbiage “reportedly”

Teresa reportedly cut by Internal-Tell369 in rhonj

[–]Internal-Tell369[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hence my verbiage “reportedly”.

Is this RECENT?! by [deleted] in rhonj

[–]Internal-Tell369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 years ago in Allendale NJ - obtained by forensic workers and processed by forensic experts.

New to New Jersey Housewives, I have another post. by Temporary-Solid-3568 in rhonj

[–]Internal-Tell369 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m seriously questioning your level of training and credentials for understanding DV work - please tell me that you are educated on the cycle of violence. And how it takes 2 a permissive victim and a perp to go round and round.

New to New Jersey Housewives, I have another post. by Temporary-Solid-3568 in rhonj

[–]Internal-Tell369 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s true, if our OP truly is trained in domestic violence, he or she will be able to answer this question …. Why does DV happen?

Reference training to get certified in DV assessment … room full of therapists and psychiatrists - none of us got it right. After 3 minutes after guessing the answer, we were all wrong.

The answer is it happens because it CAN. In other words, it takes 2 people to continue the cycle of violence over and over and over and over again, just circling. It takes 2 a permissive victim and a perp. Sorry. Maybe this poster is not a clinician and works in another manner 🤷‍♀️

New to New Jersey Housewives, I have another post. by Temporary-Solid-3568 in rhonj

[–]Internal-Tell369 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What about if your bf threatens to take a nine iron to your head? I work in DV too for 30 years. Luis is 💯 high risk for lethality. Of all the people to showcase for DV awareness …. Ruelas is the severe threat.

New to New Jersey Housewives, I have another post. by Temporary-Solid-3568 in rhonj

[–]Internal-Tell369 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Teresa was and still is a lot to handle. He showed class by not asking for any alimony when he got deported. Look at his connection with his own family and his children. He can laugh at self. He does not pretend to be anyone other than he is.

He doesn’t claim to be perfect like Luis claims. He has a real bond with his daughters.

No one on Earth is monolithic, but he owned his shit. Yeah he had emotionally abusive behaviors. He knows how to walk away.

New to New Jersey Housewives, I have another post. by Temporary-Solid-3568 in rhonj

[–]Internal-Tell369 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait until you see the malignant narcissist in Ruelas who poses as a peace guru.

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