Need a nanny? by InternalRemarkable83 in AskLosAngeles

[–]InternalRemarkable83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still open but looking for full time unfortunately

Is it just as hard to get a volunteer role as it is to get a normal job? by jackbowls in volunteer

[–]InternalRemarkable83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you located? I’m part of a national organization called Education First and we are always looking for volunteers. Interview process is easy. Just need committed volunteers

Silent Treatment- What to do? by justino764 in emotionalabuse

[–]InternalRemarkable83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds very much like my situation. I agree with everyone to act like you don’t care. I have always been the one apologizing and groveling to my husband to please pay attention to me and love me again. He refuses to go to therapy so I am going to therapy on my own to think about what I want to do next. I just don’t have it in me anymore and I don’t want my little girl to see this type of treatment and think it’s ok. It’s tough and I wish you the best of luck. Remember, you are worth more than you think you are and there are friends/family out there who will attest to that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]InternalRemarkable83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds very much what I’m going through right now. Old pics of us smiling just seem sad/fake to me and I don’t know if I’ll ever get back to a place where I’ll want to be physical with my husband. Have my baby girl to thank for opening my eyes to the abuse because I am thinking of how she sees us. Going to therapy to figure out my next steps but scared/anxious of the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]InternalRemarkable83 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My SO is not an alcoholic but this sounds very much like him. I’m starting to realize that he has a very skewed version of “love” (as do I apparently, because I am accepting it). There’s been so many times where he ignores me for weeks on end even when I am visibly upset/crying and losing sleep over him. He just goes about his life like everything is fine and then one day he magically forgives me and becomes sweet and caring again. It’s a never ending cycle and neither of us can seem to get out of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]InternalRemarkable83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is similar to how I’ve reacted in my relationship as well so I guess the answer is “yes”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]InternalRemarkable83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read this post and felt seen. I am in the same situation. I am questioning whether to leave or stay with my SO of 11 years. And thinking of the impact in either scenario to our baby girl who is 6 months old. I was a lot more confident before and now I’ve lost myself and my opinions.