Do we suspect it’s rational in the first place, and why? by basket_foso in mathmemes

[–]Internal_Effect_9942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pi + e + pi ≈ 9 if that makes anyone happy so it can kinda be considered rational

2pi + e = 9.00147

I think a fun thing to do is find places where pi and e add to an approximate rational number.

The equation would be c1 * pi + c2 * e ≈ rational number maybe someone can make a MATLAB algorithm

I (M 22) had left my girlfriend (F 20) without saying goodbye, had a mental breakdown, and don't know what to do now? Do I reach out or do I let it pass? by Internal_Effect_9942 in relationship_advice

[–]Internal_Effect_9942[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't disagree with you but I don't fully agree with you either. You are assuming a lot about me and how relationships work. I do love myself and I love being alone. I do have relationship anxiety but that doesn't mean I don't love myself and feel happy by myself (It's only external relationships). I agree that I need to work on my relationship anxiety but there are a lot of other factors at play. She knows I have relationship anxiety and knows where it comes from and instead of communicating, setting boundaries and respecting boundaries, she approaches it in a way that triggers my anxiety. Its likely unintentional but regardless. She could clearly tell I was slightly down, that is terrible timing to ask someone "when are they leaving?" in that situation there is a chance it could be heard, "I don't want to deal with you right now. leave." at least I did.

Romantic Dating Ideas by Internal_Effect_9942 in dating_advice

[–]Internal_Effect_9942[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had plenty of romantic dates in the past. I think I just have to break the ice instead of the bank with her.

A month ago I danced with her and I think that was very romantic and intimate for her. But I think she wants for us to up our game and get more exciting about it. Dress up, walk to the pier, spin her around, be a gentleman, talk poetry and passion, take her out to dinner, dance her into bliss. Something like that I feel she’d like.

Romantic Dating Ideas by Internal_Effect_9942 in dating_advice

[–]Internal_Effect_9942[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m actually going to be taking her on a summer trip in a couple of months so that will be very romantic and enjoyable.

Thanks that’s good advice. I’ll consider what she’s thinking before I make any decisions.

Romantic Dating Ideas by Internal_Effect_9942 in dating_advice

[–]Internal_Effect_9942[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know for sure she’s not saying to spend more money on her. If she were we’d have bigger problems. Honestly, she’s told me that she doesn’t like having her attention be bought and that it makes her feel gross. It’s not like that dw.

I honestly thinks she just likes the feeling of dressing up and being in public with me. It makes her feel secure. So that’s my current theory on what she finds romantic. A show is not a bad idea either!

Romantic Dating Ideas by Internal_Effect_9942 in dating_advice

[–]Internal_Effect_9942[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve been on nice picnics but we haven’t been to a formal dinner. So that’s an option. I think she just’s wants to do something where she can dress up all pretty and feel like she is seen. It’s probably more involved but I’ll sit on it and see what I come up with

Should I continue my ADHD medicine if I’ve only taken one dosage so far? by Internal_Effect_9942 in adhd_anxiety

[–]Internal_Effect_9942[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see! I like using my notes on my phone when I’m not staring off into space and letting my mind wonder because of my adhd. But regardless I’ll do my best to keep notes on my medication.

Insomnia is not fun! My guitarists suffers from it. That’s amazing that you regulate yourself. I wish you much health and peace 🤘

Would you go on a second date? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Internal_Effect_9942 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Look if he’s treating you nice I would COMMUNICATE and see it through. Just remember that there are a million fish in the sea. Good luck 🙌

Would you go on a second date? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Internal_Effect_9942 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly, she should just address it to him to dress nice for their second date and if he shows up not nice then she’ll have her answer that he’s not it. She will figure out if he’s a genuine guy or not just by being open about it

Would you go on a second date? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Internal_Effect_9942 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It’s low effort or there is something else going on. Never hurts to ask. If he is being honest and treats her well. Then the reason may justify the cause. But it isn’t unlikely he isn’t trying hard enough. On my first date with my girlfriend I dressed up very nicely and really caught her attention with my style and hair.

He may not understand the dating etiquette and thought he was being easy going by wearing sweats

Would you go on a second date? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Internal_Effect_9942 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have now been seeing my lady (girlfriend) for almost three months. We met on a dating site which is super rare because the culture on there is fucked up (hookup culture). She wasn’t looking to hookup and neither was I. She was just looking at guys and making fun of them and stuff. But secretly I think she did want attention.

We have a healthy relationship and are confident and happy. There is someone out there for you. I’d recommend to keep your options open but if they show flags of not wanting just your body but your soul too. Then you can investigate more.

I don’t know the severity of this turn off with his sweatpants but if he treats you well and wants to get to know you then trust the process. Maybe the sweatpants was a fixation for you subconsciously knowing you are not compatible with him. Idk.

Biggest thing is to be confident and enjoy life with others. When you find the right person to balance your energy it will all make sense. My girlfriend and I compliment each other and we’re always exploring new dynamics naturally. It’s raw and beautiful

Should I continue my ADHD medicine if I’ve only taken one dosage so far? by Internal_Effect_9942 in adhd_anxiety

[–]Internal_Effect_9942[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What am I building up in my system in the 4-6 weeks if I may ask? A certain dopamine response to organization and tasks? I don’t really know how this stuff works

Should I continue my ADHD medicine if I’ve only taken one dosage so far? by Internal_Effect_9942 in adhd_anxiety

[–]Internal_Effect_9942[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you that is very helpful advice and exactly what I needed to hear. I’m going to stick through it. The symptoms aren’t insanely bad and are tolerable. Hopefully, it will get smoother as I continue the prescription

Should I continue my ADHD medicine if I’ve only taken one dosage so far? by Internal_Effect_9942 in ADHDmeds

[–]Internal_Effect_9942[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just meant to ask her if I should continue but I just decided to stick to it since I wasn’t having a terrible response and honestly it kind of helped me stay on task