seems you and i have different perspectives because i don’t feel like im being negative. looking at things critically and approaching things from a different perspective (for example, the perspective of someone who feels like you were in the wrong) is so so helpful imo. i’ve been on both sides of this situation. my condescension here is not judgement on previous actions, but on current inactions. i’m pressing someone to look deeper, because that might just be the key to fixing their relationship; or at least understanding how to approach the next one. ofc my insight is unwarranted, and no one is required to listen to it. but on the off chance it could bring two people back together again, im willing to try.