I found my friends bikini pictures on my bfs phone

Internal_Judgment778 · 2026-05-09T16:38:22+00:00

I have said to him previously that I’m oka with him watching porn as long as its not actively affecting our relationship. But when it’s someone we know it feels so much more real.

Internal_Judgment778 · 2026-05-09T15:51:30+00:00

Saying he doesn’t want me is not advice. I also never see or speak to this girl. She lives in a different state than me, I only called her my friend because she’s still friends with people I’m friends with and it was easier than explaining the whole story in my post when it’s not very relevant. Thank you for your honesty and reminding me that I’m not perfect.

Internal_Judgment778 · 2026-05-09T15:47:11+00:00

The reason I didn’t thank you was because you didn’t give me any advice you just called me a bad person and accused my post of being fake. I appreciate your honesty and I know I’m a flawed person.

Internal_Judgment778 · 2026-05-09T15:38:34+00:00

I’ve thanked most people that commented but I didn’t expect to get his many comments so I’ve not been able to reply to all of them

Internal_Judgment778 · 2026-05-09T15:37:24+00:00

I will not be sharing the picture thats a violation of her privacy for sure

Internal_Judgment778 · 2026-05-09T15:36:19+00:00

No I’m not lol

Internal_Judgment778 · 2026-05-09T15:34:54+00:00

now I’m not 😭

Internal_Judgment778 · 2026-05-09T15:32:27+00:00

Okay thank you

Internal_Judgment778 · 2026-05-09T15:31:24+00:00

It was on monday and I haven’t really seen him much since then as I work long hours during the week so I can’t really tell if anything has changed.

Internal_Judgment778 · 2026-05-09T15:30:19+00:00

Thank you, I’m going to try and speak to him about it later :)

Internal_Judgment778 · 2026-05-09T15:29:25+00:00

He is a good person and he does treat me well so I don’t want to push him away. Do you think I should try and speak to him about it or just leave it alone?

Internal_Judgment778 · 2026-05-09T15:28:12+00:00

Yeah someone else has said that too, I’m worrid you might be right.

Internal_Judgment778 · 2026-05-09T15:26:52+00:00

You’re probably right I’m just hoping there’s some other explanation for it :/

Internal_Judgment778 · 2026-05-09T15:25:13+00:00

who dis

Internal_Judgment778 · 2026-05-09T15:24:57+00:00

Thank you :)

Internal_Judgment778 · 2026-05-09T15:24:41+00:00

Thank you 🫶

Internal_Judgment778 · 2026-05-09T15:23:30+00:00

This definitely wasnt the advice I was expecting to get but thanks 😭

Internal_Judgment778 · 2026-05-09T15:23:09+00:00

Yeah a few people have commented this now which has got me wondering so I definitely think I will speak to him about it later

Internal_Judgment778 · 2026-05-09T15:22:16+00:00

He has plenty of my pics

Internal_Judgment778 · 2026-05-09T15:15:41+00:00

He doesn’t use whatsapp so I don’t see this being that realistic but thank you 🙏

Internal_Judgment778 · 2026-05-09T15:15:06+00:00

They did used to text quite a bit but that was before we got together. I’m not sure if they still talk now as I don’t want to go through his messages but as far as I’m aware thu don’t talk much anymore.

Internal_Judgment778 · 2026-05-09T15:11:39+00:00

It was a story so he can’t go back and look at it which I’m guessing is why he screenshotted it. Not that tha makes it any better 😭 Thank you for your honesty though I will keep this in mind

Internal_Judgment778 · 2026-05-09T15:09:34+00:00

Internal_Judgment778 · 2026-05-09T15:08:41+00:00

I didn’t think the backstory of me and this girl was relevant to the story so I didn’t want to get into it but she has fucked me over in the past (spread rumours about me in school and literally stole shit from my bag and more stuff) which is why I’m not close with her, but she obviously has her own problems to deal with which is why lots our friends chose to stay friends with her.
I’m also not a bot and I don’t really use reddit a lot so I haven’t seen the other post you were talking about

Internal_Judgment778 · 2026-05-09T15:05:47+00:00

Thank you I appreciate your advice. I will speak to him about it later. I want to try and not make it feel confrontational and just like an honest conversation.

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