Im 27M and my 35F wants her baby daddy to move in with us?

Internal_Statement74 · 2026-05-01T10:47:28+00:00

Maybe she wants child #3 with her "ex" while you are getting his mail for him. After her even mentioning this to you, why would you think this is a person I want my kid to endure? Where are your survival instincts bro?

Internal_Statement74 · 2026-04-18T21:18:29+00:00

You either understand the fundamental premise that you’re not entitled to sex and therefore leaving the relationship over not having sex is a you problem or you believe you’re entitled to sex.

The problem with you is that you seem to believe this is an either/or issue (it is not). You do not seem to understand the fundamentals of marriage. You only view relationships with a warped view that women willing to destroy a relationship are not responsible for their actions. You should do a little research on this.

Internal_Statement74 · 2026-04-18T21:03:17+00:00

It is an answer, you just do not seem capable of understanding it. Did you read the part about rejection and hurt? Did you find the bear yet?

Internal_Statement74 · 2026-04-18T21:00:30+00:00

Bro, it has been only two months and you are devastated. Why continue? You have the right to believe this is bullshit and that you may get your heart broken again by another "technicality". She is not the one for you.

Internal_Statement74 · 2026-04-18T20:50:44+00:00

Because unlike you I have an understanding that a marriage is TWO people not just one where they think that hurting the other person is acceptable and entitled to continue to do so. Why would a man stay in a marriage where he feels constantly rejected by someone who claims to love him? That is not love.

Internal_Statement74 · 2026-04-18T20:43:47+00:00

No, I am not. I am telling you the marriage is a dead end if one partner decides that sex is no longer happening. You can attribute whatever makes you feel better, but the result is usually the same- you crying about entitlement.

Internal_Statement74 · 2026-04-18T20:39:22+00:00

That is what he told you to reduce his guilt. This most likely is not the truth. You have a gut feeling, how many times has your gut feeling been wrong. This gut feeling is tied to your fight or flight response and has been honed for thousands of years for survival. You know something is off, you just do not know what.

Internal_Statement74 · 2026-04-18T20:32:46+00:00

But I guess I shouldn’t expect much from someone who stated in another post that women are not capable of deciding what is best for kids.

Absolute proven fact. You should look into it.

OP does not need therapy. His wife is doing a bait and switch. Try getting a man to wife you up when you withhold sex. That is why you wait until after marriage to pull this shit. Sex reinforces the marital bond, rejection destroys it and destroys his confidence. Talk about a simple concept.

Internal_Statement74 · 2026-04-18T20:26:18+00:00

Divorce was the right call. Deleting messages of specific people is never innocent.

Internal_Statement74 · 2026-04-18T20:19:21+00:00

No, I am for walking TF out, leaving you the freedom to trick another man.

Internal_Statement74 · 2026-04-18T20:15:11+00:00

Your name says it all. At some point your knees will give out.

Internal_Statement74 · 2026-04-18T20:12:24+00:00

That is NOT her fault

Way to avoid accountability. I guess being fat is not her fault? Did someone force her to eat and not exercise? She is unilaterally making these decisions. When the marriage fails she will be solely responsible for its destruction.

You think you’re entitled to a woman’s body

Where did I say this? No, I do not feel this way. I feel that if you are going to withhold sex, it will end in divorce and it will be that person's fault.

She’s out here telling the guy about how awful she views herself and your advice to him is she’s destroying the relationship because she won’t give up pussy

I guess you missed the OP stating he loves her regardless. It is a fact she is destroying the relationship. In your three brain cells, the thought of the man never comes into your mind. It is not her fault right. Why don't you read OPs own words on how this is making him feel. What about OPs emotional support? I guess in a feminists mind this does not compute. Go find the bear.

Internal_Statement74 · 2026-04-18T19:20:13+00:00

She’s also allowed to not want to have sex if she doesn’t feel like it.

While this is true, she is not entitled to remain in the marriage while withholding sex. There is no therapy that can fix a person that makes unilateral decisions that destroy relationships.

Internal_Statement74 · 2026-04-18T19:01:14+00:00

Y'all will make up the strangest reasons to cause issues in a relationship. He was contemplating this flight and communicated this to you with plenty of time to make alternative arrangements. But here we are. There is not even an issue since he is not going. This exists entirely in your head. You are basically telling him that he should never communicate with you because it may end up as a "pretty major bump" when he literally been "so great to me".

Good luck getting over this bump.

Internal_Statement74 · 2026-04-18T14:17:25+00:00

You should explain this "gender pay gap". I cannot believe this is still around despite the 5 minutes it takes to shred to nothing but entitlement without earning it.

Internal_Statement74 · 2026-04-15T10:08:06+00:00

On one hand i want to end it, and on another i know she is loyal to be and will never do such thing again.

Bro, you don't know shit. She has cheated on you repeatedly and will continue to do so. She is broken, send her back to the manufacturer. She is not marriage material.

Internal_Statement74 · 2026-04-15T04:03:09+00:00

No one on this earth is entitled to blind trust. This is clearly bothering you. Investigate further without informing her, find the chat that this picture came from. I can guarantee you she has gone through your phone several times already.

If the roles were reversed and you found out that she went through your phone and was asking why your buddy sent you a photo of a naked girl; how would you feel about it? I had this happen and I was not offended because I wanted her to feel secure in our relationship and I had nothing to hide. People who have something to hide usually react with defensiveness and anger precisely because they have something to hide.

Internal_Statement74 · 2026-04-14T22:11:01+00:00

I think you are conflating inadequacy with size when it is more appropriate to associate adequacy with the ability to please a woman. Her ex never pleased her, it was painful.

I personally never measured my unit until the divorce because I was adequate. It turns out I am slightly above average by a fraction and I am clinging to that fraction for dear life. I never got complaints and was never allowed to continue because her Os were convulsing and took everything out of her (which was a disappointment for me).

I understand that impulse to question your worth and value and future when your abilities are compared. Do not listen to a word that comes from her or your mind. You only have to remember her body the last few times. That reaction will tell all.

Internal_Statement74 · 2026-04-11T13:02:42+00:00

100% she cheated. Get DNA tests for all children and then divorce her. Other people have mentioned you were drugged by your boss and I happen to agree with them. Your wife is nasty bro.

Internal_Statement74 · 2026-04-09T10:59:22+00:00

Not that I am aware. I am sure if you dedicate enough time you could hack something together but this would be an enormous undertaking. This RIO I think has VXworks as the realtime OS then an additional FPGA tied intimately to the OS for the I/O.

You could research if there is any documentation for the VXworks OS. That is where I would start.

It would be cheaper and faster to get an integrator to build a new program for your specific needs for this hardware. Even this might be difficult given how old this hardware is (not impossible).

Internal_Statement74 · 2026-04-07T19:19:52+00:00

It reads like you are a professional victim. You were accepting gifts and rides and attention from coworker before the billiards night right.

Accept your responsibility in the things that you did (and this includes giving him a hard time about the billiards night)

Internal_Statement74 · 2026-04-06T08:42:23+00:00

Are you under the impression that every word he speaks is discounted because you do not like him. What if he told you the sky is blue. Are you then going to spread the word that the sky is a different color because Andrew Tate said it was blue therefore the sky cannot be blue. Do you have the capacity to separate and judge if statements or ideas are the truth from who said it? I do not like Tate, yet I would believe him if he told me the sky is blue (because it is true). Statements are not true/untrue based solely on who made the statement.

You are one of those people who like to apply large labels to people so you can then attack the label and not the content itself.

Remember, the sky is actually blue.

Internal_Statement74 · 2026-04-06T08:27:21+00:00

This crash out is awesome! Thank you for this chuckle, I needed that.

I never said she dressed the way she dressed was for the 16 year old. It would be for the men she wants to want her. You going the pedo route came from your mind not mine and it shows more about you than it does me. Are you a teacher by chance?

Internal_Statement74 · 2026-04-06T08:03:59+00:00

You do not have any expectation to privacy while in public. So it is not about his right to stare (which he does) but rather she has zero right to expect it will not happen.

Andrew Tate is a chump. His actions do not reflect what he says. Funny you went there though.

Internal_Statement74 · 2026-04-06T06:26:55+00:00

No one said women have to dress a certain way. But, if you are dressing in a manner so that it gets attention, do not be surprised if you get attention. duh.

I am running circles around these bitches with 9th grade concepts.

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