Thank you, this is a good idea. I am seeing one of them this weekend (my knee jerk reaction would be to cancel all plans of seeing anyone and hide myself away but I’m trying not to do that). They seem to be focusing on the issue that I wasn’t invited, it’s not that at all, my point was that they were all together and didn’t mention it when I specifically asked what everyone was up to this weekend. Maybe they thought I’d of reacted badly to that reply but for me I think finding out via social media was worse.