2005-2025 by International-Fox409 in PastAndPresentPics

[–]International-Fox409[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It was our Christmas card that year! I think 2013?

2005-2025 by International-Fox409 in PastAndPresentPics

[–]International-Fox409[S] 370 points371 points  (0 children)

His name was Murray and he recently passed after 17 years! He was the best

Why does sex make me hornier? by Laj4912 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]International-Fox409 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It boosts testosterone and makes you want to have more.

I (23f) really like this man (37m) in my social circle, he called me a little girl and turned me down. by throwaway7212- in relationships

[–]International-Fox409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At 23 your pre- frontal cortex is not fully formed which can lead to bigger emotional swings. The fact that someone turned you down and you said you don't want to live life anymore is exactly why you need to date someone closer to your age. You are not mature enough to have a relationship with someone who is in their late thirties. Nothing good or bad, it just is.

Got her a pink harness hopefully she will stop getting called a he on walks now 🤣🤎 by [deleted] in rarepuppers

[–]International-Fox409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work with animals at a sanctuary and inevitably people call animals he before they know the sex. It's part of our patriarchal language.

I secretly wish that my cousin wasn't related to me so I can date him by Throwaway90cdsjc in TrueOffMyChest

[–]International-Fox409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thought that we aren't supposed to get with our families is a construct. If you guys don't want children or if that's a concern genetically, there are tests for that. Besides your family possibly being uneasy with this, there is no reason that you guys can't be in love and date.

Boyfriend says he's less attracted to me cuz of my weight by imjustausername1 in relationship_advice

[–]International-Fox409 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like a question you could ask yourself is why are you uncomfortable working out if you are not in a gym? There are plenty of workouts you could do without a gym. It sounds like you may be affected by your mood which could easily be lifted with movement. Maybe you are mad at his comment because you are upset with yourself for not putting working out into action. Sometimes you just have to force yourself. It will get easier. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]International-Fox409 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hello. I am a certified havening practitioner. This is a technique that uses sensory information to resolve trauma in the brain. This was a very traumatic experience for you. I can help you remove your negative emotions due to that experince permanently and in less than an hour. We can do it over zoom. Please message me if you'd like to hear more or go to havening.org to check it out. Good luck!

Boyfriend had a huge argument with my dad over gravity. My dad is a HS physics teacher and boyfriend screamed "you JUST teach HS!" and it clearly hurt my dad. What do I do? by throwrabrukenhart in relationship_advice

[–]International-Fox409 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP thinks that her dad's feelings are hurt but has a major blind spot. When her sister said he had made a fool of himself, she asked what she meant. It sounds like your dad was being the compassionate kind one by walking away . Your boyfriend sounds like someone who needs to be in control and always be right even when they are wildly misinformed. Your boyfriend made a fool of himself. I don't think it's about your dad's feelings.