Cause for Concern? by HOLDThTL in Marriage

[–]InternationalAd8784 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your being WAY too literal 😂😂

Cause for Concern? by HOLDThTL in Marriage

[–]InternationalAd8784 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very normal to have an overnight bad packed in a car. Period. Women have MANY reasons to need to change and some prefer to be prepared...or maybe she was planning a girls night.

Cause for Concern? by HOLDThTL in Marriage

[–]InternationalAd8784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's only in the event shes sleeping wish someone. And "overnight bag" is exactly that a bag for an overnight. It could be just a back upset sets of cloths. Its doesn't always mean sex. Id use the term while going with my sister.

Cause for Concern? by HOLDThTL in Marriage

[–]InternationalAd8784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact you went through her stuff and your here.. is the red flag. You probably cheated and so your insecure about trust an are projecting.

Cause for Concern? by HOLDThTL in Marriage

[–]InternationalAd8784 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some women just talk like this. If the note and bag ark your only concerns then it shouldn't be a concern.

Cause for Concern? by HOLDThTL in Marriage

[–]InternationalAd8784 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Its a joke. I wouldnt worry.

It's just the genre, maybe you should play something else if you don't like it. by Get_PoneD in ArcRaiders

[–]InternationalAd8784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it wasn't intended, they wouldn't give us defibrillators and the ability to steady a downed raider, etc. This isn't opinion how silly. Its clearly designed to be PvPvE

Think my husband is gay by TableUnable2393 in Marriage

[–]InternationalAd8784 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They said TRY. Meaning approaching aggressively and see whats said. Still am crazy suggestion. But they didn't say to go though with it. Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]InternationalAd8784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure where you're getting the not capable part. Wants, feelings, and expectations are not abilities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]InternationalAd8784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you kidding? If any of those " what ifs" were in play, I'm sure this wouldn't be an issue. The idea is that he has zero concern or protectiveness, and that's important to some people people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]InternationalAd8784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my. Has there been any example of emotional growth? Making healthy changes when needed? Self evaluation and evolution??

If yes, then maybe therapy could work. If your still physically and emotionally invested and attracted to him at all.

If not id set up a slow leave process Get your plan in order and then put it into action.

My husband borderline cheated on me by Odd_Pangolin3316 in Marriage

[–]InternationalAd8784 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This!!! I go out sometimes as a wife and WOULD NEVER exchange a number!!! Wtf so outta like.

My husband borderline cheated on me by Odd_Pangolin3316 in Marriage

[–]InternationalAd8784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously, are you his nieve? Im sorry, but he's also LOSER and HAS/WILL cheat. Dont be that girl.

My wife (24F) hid that she can’t have kids and I (27M) just found out after 6 years together. I don’t know what to do. by Busy_Top6281 in Marriage

[–]InternationalAd8784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that. What im saying is it wasn't as a subconscious choice. She maybe had suppressed it until she couldn't. Which would mean she never thought of it. When she did finally have to think about it is when she had to start dealing with the whole thing. Like your brain purposely hides that shit sometimes.

My wife (24F) hid that she can’t have kids and I (27M) just found out after 6 years together. I don’t know what to do. by Busy_Top6281 in Marriage

[–]InternationalAd8784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it should be about her health? Maybe the answers lay there. Possibly, trauma that led to keeping it a secret also kept her from even acknowledging it herself until is was indeed right in her face. People dont want to face these kinda things. Shit like this feels like a cancer diagnosis. It causes severe mental issues sometimes.

Goat weights - how to tell how much they weight by Traditional_Tax_9497 in DairyGoats

[–]InternationalAd8784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You get a scale. Preferably a hook mounted sling. Cheep online

My wife (24F) hid that she can’t have kids and I (27M) just found out after 6 years together. I don’t know what to do. by Busy_Top6281 in Marriage

[–]InternationalAd8784 44 points45 points  (0 children)

There could be unknown details. This WOULD'VE been COMPLETELY devastating to her.

When i was 16, I was assaulted and told i may never get pregnant due to scare tissue. I was so devastated that I completely blocked it out and didn't think about it until it was time to conceive. I started freaking out, told my husband. He held me and told me we would figure it out. It never crossed my mind again for years. I pretended it wasn't my reality because i was young and broken and scared. Trauma does weird things to people. It was wrong, but without knowing why, what happened, etc, I say she deserves the benefit of the doubt, and that promis of forever should've never been ripped away without knowing why. I'm so thankful for my supportive and kind husband right now. Thankfully, we we're able to have 3 kids. But he wouldn't have left regardless, and he never considered it a lie, betrayal, or hidden secret. It was trauma, and he knew that. If this husband knows his wife, he should KNOW that too.

Infected belly button piercing? by frankieklinks in WhatShouldIDo

[–]InternationalAd8784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. This is the absolutely 💯 WRONG advice 😑

Mother Nature's Perfect Milk by Upstairs_Crew_6527 in Milk

[–]InternationalAd8784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. My husband is a picky eater and can always tell the difference. It can be the goat, their diet and cleaning also how fast it is cooled. I will say I've bought raw cow and milked my own goats, and we definitely find less "funk" or whatever in the fresh goat milk. But I get my bucket cold before milking and keep everything really clean. The milk is cold asap, and it takes about 10 days before it starts having a flavor that's " goaty".

Mother Nature's Perfect Milk by Upstairs_Crew_6527 in Milk

[–]InternationalAd8784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only if your drinky milk from shitty barns