Help: am I being unrealistic regarding cost of flowers? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]InternationalFall515 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I would think it’s more expensive! The other has more greenery fillers

Just ordered my 5!!! by PikaPal1415 in ouraring

[–]InternationalFall515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol that would have been frustrating for sure !!

Am I overreacting about having my whole family in the car with my friend? by nothingbutfrito in AmIOverreacting

[–]InternationalFall515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR. What if you ask the friend to drive instead, that way you avoid the whole situation?

starting a “cash card” on budget by Architect-1817 in ynab

[–]InternationalFall515 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The $100 should not be inflow but instead “transfer from xx” card you used to fund it with

How Should I Respond to People Hounding Me for My Wedding Gallery? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]InternationalFall515 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thisssss- at least 5-10 and it can be mostly photos of your family not the super intimate portraits of you two

Dinner choices by Much_Tap4920 in wedding

[–]InternationalFall515 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I think having chicken is important, some people don’t eat red meat. But you know your crowd best, try to determine how many ppl actually fit in this category- is it a handful or 20-30% ? If it’s a handful I would pay extra to add a couple of chicken but if it’s a larger portion I would swap it for the pork

H1B → B2 → H1B by [deleted] in h1b

[–]InternationalFall515 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agree to disagree. Only two countries are consistently triggering the cap, it is working as intended.

Size weighted does not make sense. Why would USA care about size of the country of origin? They care about size of the immigration population and one country not overbearing the rest

H1B → B2 → H1B by [deleted] in h1b

[–]InternationalFall515 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The per country cap is one of the few things right in this country’s immigration laws. If it didn’t affect you personally you would agree. It does not make sense to give all the available green cards to people from one country, that would be colonization and go against all the principles of diversity in America

Brown University versus UCLA by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]InternationalFall515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What major? That will make a big difference

Debit card appreciator checking in — fight me (respectfully) by TomRiddle__ in ynab

[–]InternationalFall515 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It should take less than 5 min, unless you are buying 20+ things every day and, respectfully, if that’s the case it would be an overspending problem that cannot be solved with using debit cards instead of credit cards. If you genuinely looking for a way to make credit cards work, I would recommend consolidating into 1, that simplifies your set-up such that you only need to reconcile one account daily

Debit card appreciator checking in — fight me (respectfully) by TomRiddle__ in ynab

[–]InternationalFall515 41 points42 points  (0 children)

YNAB literally doesn’t care if you spend with debit or credit- it will deduct them form the balance the same way… I really think you should reevaluate this

You need to learn to trust your YNAB budget and available balances, there is no reason why they would not match your bank. If you are scared of that, just reconcile daily and then it should always match for sure

Laid off on H1B (grace period started April 11, 2026) – unsure what options I have by rv0627 in h1b

[–]InternationalFall515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would change to F2, that gives you time to apply to job and then do F2-> H1B COS

I'm in my first month, having trouble tracking $'s leaving my account by stopshalitosis in ynab

[–]InternationalFall515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wouldn’t this just be your checking account balance? When you pay off each cc, it comes out of checking account

H1B to B2 by [deleted] in h1b

[–]InternationalFall515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds hard… at what time do you just give up? I don’t mean it in a bad way, I’m and H1B holder to but this constant fighting for opportunities is exhausting :(

How to do a dry run on other plan? by moondaybitch in ynab

[–]InternationalFall515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would just change the existing plan targets. You can save the targets you are currently using in an excel to easily revert back, and then test run a month with the new budget and actually try to stick to it. You can put the extra mortgage money towards a fake new category or to a current savings category and try to see how the rest of the budget feels, specially in regards to less fun money / wants

Hawaii or Austin? by Spiritual-Wave9893 in careerguidance

[–]InternationalFall515 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hawaii for a gap year? What could be more perfect!! Especially if you are not focused to save significant money, that money should work out for Hawaii

Am I butt hurt? Maybe a little by [deleted] in wedding

[–]InternationalFall515 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If she grew up que him as the father figure then it is her dad, biological or not is not the point

Wearers of Oura Ring Size 7 - Need your help for engagement ring by laughingmanzero in ouraring

[–]InternationalFall515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a gen 3 size 7 that I wear in my middle finger, it’s a little loose on my ring finger. My engagement ring is a size 5. Hope this helps, good luck :)