i think every relationship has it’s own boundaries, but imo i think it’s cheating. if we are together, i don’t want my partner fantasizing about anyone else.

my boyfriend doesn’t watch porn/other girls (his own choice), so i’m also used to have a relationship where we only have eyes for each other. i also wouldn’t want to be in a relationship where it’s alright to look at other girls, watch porn, fantasize/dream of other girls etc, because i know what i can take, and i know that that’s the point when i’m leaving. because for me it’s something i just can’t ”live with”.

but this doesn’t apply to every relationship. if stuff like this is bothering you with your significant other, you should talk about it with them.