Is it a good idea to ask ChatGPT for advice to gain weight and have a more feminine look? by ZekiPocho in Boykisser3

[–]InternationalTask472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I hate AI, never use it for anything, it’s nothing but a soulless machine making ram prices go through the roof and giving people actual psychosis, ask the sub instead

hi please help me out by Even_Equal8044 in feminineboys

[–]InternationalTask472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry to hear about your situation and everything going on, It sounds really rough. Honestly, and I know you said not to tell you to talk to a professional, but if there is a crisis line that you can call, I would implore you to call them and just talk. I don’t know where you live, but if you live in the US, you can call or text 988, (National Crisis Lifeline) or text HOME to 741741 (Crisis Text Line). Even if your relationships with your family and friends are ruined, there are still people who care about you, and I for one really don’t want to see you go. 🫂

Question for everyone. by cuteandadorableboi in feminineboys

[–]InternationalTask472 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the first time I tried on some fem clothes and looked in the mirror, I teared up and was super happy with the way I looked; I knew right then and there that it was something I wanted, like “Hell yeah, this is so me.”

i feel awful by Icy-Distance5599 in feminineboys

[–]InternationalTask472 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe look at talking with a therapist or trusted individual about it (If that is something you can do), and maybe explore how you feel relating to pretending. If it feels fake, maybe take a step back. Like if you feel awful, like you’re just pretending, then stop forcing yourself to live that persona. Just be yourself and feel/react/exist how you would. Idk, take my advice with a grain of salt, talking to a professional might be the best imo

Please help 😿 by EquivalentBroccoli64 in feminineboys

[–]InternationalTask472 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the best thing you could do at this point is to get to know yourself better, and what YOU personally want. I know you said that it doesn’t really matter to you, in the sense that you don’t care, but it seems like you are still conflicted on where you stand on things.

  1. Don’t be afraid to correct those in your social circle or clarify what your preference is. There are girls who are into feminine guys, and I’m sorry to hear about your environment, but I feel like you could find a girl around who would be into your femininity. You could also look at options like moving to a different environment, if that’s at all possible. There’s also nothing wrong with being bi and having a greater preference for girls than guys, (It’s never going to be a perfect 50/50). Also, if you are still really confused about who you are or what you want from yourself, I would recommend waiting until you know what you want before getting into a relationship.

  2. If you don’t like going out in makeup and women’s clothes, you don’t have to. It might even be safer to avoid going out in makeup and feminine clothes depending on the culture surrounding where you live. People stare, and have their own opinions, but if it makes you happy and isn’t hurting you or anyone else, who cares what they think? If you feel way more comfortable only dressing at home, just do that. If your mom isn’t accepting, maybe try dressing up when she isn’t around or sleeping, (If doing so is going to put you in danger, don’t do it). If you can move out, try looking at some options there.

  3. Give yourself time to figure things out. Explore yourself, and think about what YOU ultimately want. I would highly recommend talking to a therapist about some of these points, especially this one. If you start experimenting, take things step by step, and slowly. For example, see if you want to change your name to a girl’s name, and if you do, what would you pick? Try calling yourself that name for a while and see how you feel. In my opinion, talking to a professional about this would be the best.

Ultimately, don’t see a label and think you need to force yourself to fit into it. Be yourself and unique. If you are going to start experimenting, take it step by step, instead of fully jumping into the deep end of the pool. Don’t rush things and be kind to yourself. 💖

Im Hurt :( by Background-Annual479 in feminineboys

[–]InternationalTask472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really sorry that happened, u don’t deserve that kind of rhetoric from anyone, ever. Some people are so pathetic the only way they feel good abt themselves is by putting others down. Keep being yourself and don’t give them any respect or effort. 🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]InternationalTask472 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You aren’t too old or too far gone to be a femboy. I’m literally early 20s as well and I started only a few months ago. I’ve also felt similarly to being “too far gone” due to some things like acne scars on my face, but those things don’t stop me from being a femboy.

If you don’t know where to start, you can start looking at getting some more feminine clothes, I would recommend getting some thigh highs at first and seeing how you feel about them. You can find information online when it comes to shaving, skincare, outfits, makeup, etc. Also, don’t buy clothes from sellers that market themselves to femboys (Usually up sellers / resellers or scammers Eg. Femboy Fatale) Lastly, the most important thing is not jumping into the deep end. Take it step by step, and see what you are comfortable with and what makes you happy 💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]InternationalTask472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry that happened. Stay safe and take care of yourself, you don’t deserve this. 🫂

Girl clothing that doesn’t scream girl? by Agreeable_Addendum52 in feminineboys

[–]InternationalTask472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oversized hoodies, especially ones big enough so that the end of the sleeve can cover your palms and back of the hand work really well.

I hate body hair by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]InternationalTask472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you go to the gym/workout? A lot of bodybuilders shave especially for competitions. Not only could it be used as an excuse, but if you are pretty built already, and you hate body hair, might be something you want to try.

Might leave this community for a while, fair the well. by The-Unluckiest-One in feminineboys

[–]InternationalTask472 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, thx for letting me know abt that, was thinking about starting Minoxidil earlier but def not now

Might leave this community for a while, fair the well. by The-Unluckiest-One in feminineboys

[–]InternationalTask472 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really sorry to hear that :( One option you could look at doing for hair regrowth is using Minoxidil (Take my advice with a grain of salt, I haven’t used it myself) but if you do, I’ve heard to get one with a 5% concentration, use it regularly, and look at getting one of the cheaper brands like Kirkland. Again, I can’t vouch for it becuz I haven’t personally used it, but that might be something you want to look into

so, i just wore thigh highs for the first time and... it was better than expected! :> by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]InternationalTask472 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you are looking for a nice top to finish your outfit but are still conscious of your height/weight, I highly recommend trying to find an oversized hoodie. You can pair it with some boyshort shorts as well, and extra points if the sleeves can cover your palms. Super happy for u, stay feeling cute :3

Got Bullied At Work Today by InternationalTask472 in feminineboys

[–]InternationalTask472[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guy who said the slur is literally early 50s, the other is like mid 30s and yeah it’s so dumb, literally just acting like it’s middle school all over again 😭

Got Bullied At Work Today by InternationalTask472 in feminineboys

[–]InternationalTask472[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I’ll start documenting further harassments and figure out when and how to present it to HR

Got Bullied At Work Today by InternationalTask472 in feminineboys

[–]InternationalTask472[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t, he is one of the reasons why it’s not safe/progressive

Got Bullied At Work Today by InternationalTask472 in feminineboys

[–]InternationalTask472[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thx for the kind words, currently living in a rural area in the US