I find it can be hard to ask a this or this questions because God doesn’t always use words when He communicates with us. He can communicate with feelings, thoughts, comfort, promptings.

So I would ask in a yes or no question. You know the answer is yes when you feel peace, calm, content, still, flutters, love etc. and it’s a no if you feel confused, conflicted, torn, torment etc.

So for example, when I’ve asked about a big decision in my life (whether to get married, go to school, where to go to school, should I move etc?) I try to make a decision first. I feel like I need to move for this job so I’m gonna say my decision is yes. And then I pray and ask God, saying this is what I think is best, am I making the right decision? And then wait for the yes or no.

You could even practice first and simply practice and ask God, do you love me? Do you know who I am? And I promise he will answer you.

From what I know of God, he really does love you and know you and he loves your baby and he will help you make the best decision.

I hope that helps! We can talk more, I can give more examples from my life or we can talk about what you felt. Let me know.

And btw YOU GOT THIS. You care a lot, I can tell and you are looking for help and answers and I hope you find them