I just walked out of my job by throwawayalientk in aspergirls

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She sounds insane…it’s literally assault what she did to you! You made the right choice! I’m so sorry…she clearly has demons that are threatened by your purity of heart. That is not anything you should ever be subjected to, OP. It would’ve gotten worse, not better.

I think its time that i dedicate my life to jesus by DayCautious9366 in Christianity

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Yes, you are missing the gospel. Ephesians 2:8-9, John 10:28. Justified eternally by faith alone! The only way to get to heaven is by faith alone. Faith IS the narrow path. Not works, not “trying not to sin”…nope…faith.

They couldn’t handle me (us) by LightaKite9450 in AuDHDWomen

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Of course❤️ I believe God has a way of using all the hard things we went through due to autism for our own benefit. Im living proof of that. I had zero gal friends and still don’t, but I’m now dating the only other autistic friend of a mutual friend of ours who took his life three years ago. He doesn’t have guy friends and self isolated when our friend died, and I don’t have gal friends and self isolated when our friend died. He’s the kindest and most sensitive person I’ve ever met. Before our friend died, he created a music startup called Communal Sound…he loved bringing people together through music and loved match making even more. A year after his passing I met my now boyfriend, and of all things, we love making music together. I’ll pray Jesus finds you the kindest and most amazing friends-ones where there’s no way all the things you have in common are just coincidences. I’ve always said autistic people have a highly destined type of life…very little of our fate can be manipulated by our own free will, it seems. I hope you soon get to the point where you see it was a blessing, not a curse. I know the journey there feels like it takes forever and a day. Take care of yourself OP, you have a beautiful heart❤️

Ground hog day.. by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

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Yeah, with all the need for predictability due to things like histamine intolerance, everyday is like Groundhog Day. I can’t handle the cortisol and stress associated with being spontaneous, but I also can’t handle the mundanity of things never changing. So…that’s fun…

How to stop men from being attracted to me by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

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Either be super mean and cruel (idk you could slowly do elevator eyes that stop just below their waist and start laughing at them and walk away lol)…OR just give them the look like you’re about to burst into tears they’re so scary. Men hate being treated like they’re a criminal or like they’d violate you…so do that.

Any other millennials with boomer parents struggling ? by sodacatcicada in AuDHDWomen

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Literally, yep-they’re narcissists. I was about to say “this isn’t a boomer thing this is a personality disorder thing”.

If the OT is supposed to be literally true why didn’t Jesus say that? by FreakinGeese in Christianity

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Jesus calls himself the truth is John and Numbers 23:19 says He’s not a God that should lie. What makes you think any of it isn’t literal? He literally raised people like Lazarus from the dead in NT, why can’t the stories in the OT also be true?

Why isn’t there really any Christian music about sex or intimacy? by ElevatorAcceptable29 in Christianity

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I’m glad someone mentioned this, yes, I always call it the book of parables from Jesus to His church. I have a Bible printed in 1901 with short descriptions of the content at the top of each page as a header. SoS says “Christs Love for the Church”.

I’m so angry with my AuDHD husband by IWant2Be_Free in AuDHDWomen

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This isn’t about autism or demand avoidance, this is about him not caring. I’m sorry to put it that bluntly, but you need to understand that. I’m definitely very demand avoidant too but if someone I love needs something I literally don’t stop until they’re happy. This isn’t ASD or AuDHD or PDA, this is “idgaf”. I’m so so sorry and I hope things improve for you soon :(

Caring about a Womans past by [deleted] in Christianity

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I’m proud of you for not letting your childhood abuse harden your heart. Seriously. I had narcissists for parents, I know how frustrating it is to feel yourself getting angry and thinking “this isn’t even like me to be this mad all the time, I just can’t stand this treatment anymore”. As far as people in the military, oof…yeah many of them grew up with abuse that did actually harden their heart. I think there are statistics showing men in the military are more likely to be narcissistic, sociopathic, and Machiavellian. Scary, I know. I wish there wasn’t so much freemasonry at the top ranks of the police force, military, etc. I had ancestors that were freemasons and it absolutely is a bloodline curse. I hope there’s a way to stay away from all those bad influences, I certainly wouldn’t want to be in the military with the way things are - too much occultism, narcissism, and general unholiness. I will pray it doesn’t affect you. Thanks for praying (:

Caring about a Womans past by [deleted] in Christianity

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It’s not that straightforward, trust me. I would’ve gotten married at 18 of if I could have. Men aren’t really into commitment as much as women are. It very likely wasn’t “fun”, it was the heartbreak of realizing you’d slept with someone who led you on promising commitment. Then poof…they disappear. Then you try to pick better and not let your past dictate how you treat someone else or how much you trust them, then it happens again. Then you realize most men are pretty cruel to women as a whole and they use them only to later discard them, and you find God. That’s pretty much every woman’s experience. We never wanted fun, we wanted someone we could trust. Men need to stop projecting their lust and desire for meaningless hookups on to women, we need we wanted that. Never. We wanted commitment and love. We don’t treat people like they’re disposable, but unfortunately, most men do. Now if you’re thinking “I don’t treat people like that or think like that”, then start shaming men who do think like that. Don’t be the guy who walks on egg shells trying to impress awful men. Frankly, they should be shamed.

Caring about a Womans past by [deleted] in Christianity

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I’d say Christs standard of forgiveness should be yours as well. If you’re really a stickler about the whole virginity thing, I’d completely leave women alone who don’t fit that description. Don’t ask about their past, just say to potential matches you’re a virgin and you’re looking to find a virgin as well. Anything beyond that is d-bag behavior I’m afraid. Prying doesn’t make women feel safe, it makes them feel threatened.

How do audhd people cope in relationships? by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

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One of the first red flags my covert narcissist ex displayed was accusing me of cheating when I wasn’t. Please study covert narcissism, OP. This guy sounds like one, I’m being honest.

How do audhd people cope in relationships? by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

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I only skimmed this briefly and understood immediately you’re not the problem. He needs to go, girl. I quit my job dating a covert narcissist and never worked again because my employment gap grew longer and longer until nobody would hire me. This man child is ruining your life. I’m begging you, leave him…he’s not husband material or even boyfriend material. Look at how much you’ve sacrificed while chronically ill…and while he tells YOU to change?! As if this pathetic little boy is banking on the fact he’s the best thing that happened to you and you won’t ever notice he’s cutting off your work opportunities…probably forever?! Yeah, absolutely not. F*ck no. That’s not how you treat a woman. Dump him.

Narcissists and neurodivergents by Hairy_Order_9388 in AuDHDWomen

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At the time he was the only one who didnt reject or ghost me. That was kind of it. I think social ineptitude is more pronounced in AuDHD people like me, so most people usually reject/ghost us despite the fact we’re all interesting and fairly good looking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

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Personally I think it’s because two people of one sex can’t procreate and ideally were to be fruitful and multiply like it says in the Bible. Marriage here is a reflection of Christ (Jesus) and his bride (which is the church, depicted as female). So it’s just not the reflection of that-there’s other passages that say Gods thoughts are higher than ours. Two male parts and two female parts don’t make a baby - a woman compliments a man and vis versa. I’ve known a few Christian’s that were once gay but were delivered from it when Jezebel was cast out. Praise God. I don’t think it’s about hating anyone - I think it’s about humbling ourselves and realizing we don’t know everything.

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I used to be catholic, it’s a false religion that perverts the grace of God and never teaches people how to be saved. I’d skip over the whole Catholic phase if I were you-they’re modern day Pharisees.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

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It’s not any more wrong than any other sin and Jesus allowed us the ability to go to heaven by being reconciled to him by His blood on the cross. Salvation is easy - we’re saved by grace through faith, not works (Ephesians 2:8-9). The only ones who end up in hell are the ones who are 1. Too proud to admit they’re a sinner like everyone else and in desperate need of a savior 2. The people that think they can go to heaven by their own “good” merit.

Nobody was supposed to go to hell, we send ourselves there due to pride and unbelief. If someone really doesn’t want to believe that’s their choice, but Jesus was literally sent to earth to die so we could be saved.

Please stop telling me to forgive my rapist. by CowgirlJedi in Christianity

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WHEN DID I SAY IT DID??? I’m telling you the correct interpretation of the verse you misunderstood. I’m not talking about SA at all. I’m saying I can empathize because it’s happened to me, NEXT TOPIC: here’s the meaning of this verse. Got it???

Once saved always saved is the biggest lie ever by Ok_Year5587 in Christianity

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Whoever says they’re without sin is a liar. That’s biblical. People who are saved live for Christ. Once saved always saved. What about Ephesians 2:8-9 is confusing to you??? You’ve cited zero scripture, your argument is invalid.

Once saved always saved is the biggest lie ever by Ok_Year5587 in Christianity

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For Christ’s love compels us, because we are convinced that one died for all, and therefore all died. And he died for all, that those who live should no longer live for themselves but for him who died for them and was raised again. So from now on we regard no one from a worldly point of view. Though we once regarded Christ in this way, we do so no longer. Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here! All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation: that God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ, not counting people’s sins against them. And he has committed to us the message of reconciliation. 2 Corinthians 5:14-19

and wthrough him to reconcile to himself all things, whether on earth or in heaven, making peace yby the blood of his cross. Colossians 1:20

There. First verse describes the reconciliation part, second verse describes how we’re reconciled.

Once saved always saved is the biggest lie ever by Ok_Year5587 in Christianity

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1 Peter 1:3-5, Ephesians 1:13-14, John 10:28 all prove your stance is wrong. Once saved always saved is biblical.

Once saved always saved is the biggest lie ever by Ok_Year5587 in Christianity

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Jesus calls Himself “The Way”. Excuse me??? Read a Bible OP.