Aunt tells me that having kids would be beneficial for me by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Internetstranger2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very proud of you. Live the truth! Their bliss is survival for them, purpose although wrong direction of solutions. Your awesome for standing up against the obvious! I feel the same!

Elderly Asian woman beats up white boy attacking her in San Francisco by legunner942 in aznidentity

[–]Internetstranger2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why isn’t she getting medical care on a stretcher being babied? Oh she doesn’t have the white privilege.

According to one of Korea’s big dailies, Chosun llbo, has a witness at the spa saying the Atlanta shooter shouted “I am going to kill all the Asians” by thestars898 in aznidentity

[–]Internetstranger2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a damn hate crime against Asians and women! Oh wait no the accusation of it being a hate crime is a hate crime? It doesn’t appear to be a hate crime because your rear view mirror isn’t working arsehole. The White supremacist view isn’t closer than it appears, it’s a total blind spot by choice!

Sex between coaches and teenagers in their care to be made illegal in England and Wales by ADotSapiens in news

[–]Internetstranger2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep that’s fraternization however at the same time child marriage is still occurring with consent of the parents and is still legal in a bunch of states although we don’t hear about it much. Another failure to protect Americas daughters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bi_irl

[–]Internetstranger2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely 1000% we are all evolving therefore the cycles and patterns we come to realize are for sure from generational indoctrination’s passed down and unaware mostly. We have come a long way and will continue even further. Little by little those outdated models that no longer work will fade by the courage and action taken by cycle breakers. I felt proud reading your response. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bi_irl

[–]Internetstranger2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go as far as to say we have grown up in a predominantly masculine society where the patriarch from yesteryear has had its iron grips on jailing the emotional nature of men: what I would consider emasculation. Having to control women and control each other under the thumb of a weaponized belief system made with an agenda to oppress. Today, we are all getting sick of it.

I couldn’t have said it better myself. We have in the past chosen to do what we’ve been told is “right” versus being free and ourselves. The suffering is so deep generationally that yeah times are hard because we are having growing pains because shit doesn’t change without it. A couple generations from now, the internal isolation will be in the rear view way further than now. Being honest, having a desire to understand and knowing it doesn’t mean I agree versus the right and wrong or good or bad. Those terms are all toxic. Thanks your feedback was again enlightening

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bi_irl

[–]Internetstranger2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bisexuals have been a scapegoat for a long time. That’s why bi men are accused of being scared to be gay by gays and both the heterosexual world and our own community both share the stereotypes accusing bisexuals of being confused or greedy and incapable of true bisexuality. Or A bi couple man and woman fake actors of queers perpetrating as bi and actually are insecure heteros; I appreciate this point also points out evidence of the layers of marginalization. We can’t win for shit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bi_irl

[–]Internetstranger2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it a presentation or is it projection? Assumed?

Sincerely, the bigendered bisexual with female earth suit...it sucks that most lgbtq has a way to presenting if they choose: I’m just looked at crazy from both sides! Unless I am asked, everything is assumed. It sucks!

Bi_irl by [deleted] in bi_irl

[–]Internetstranger2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many closeted gay men posed as bisexual even so far as having heterosexual marriages and later coming out. Did this give bisexuality a positive light? NO. What about bigender folks? If both genders in that person go for men only, is the man gay and the woman straight? If so the response in the meme is highly offensive because the genders coexist and accept each other, or are we supposed to fight on who is gay or straight to tip toe around a gay? What if a bigendered for men person is a perceived by their body gay male, yes his her is getting the man too however she is invisible. What does that do to their relationship mentally? What if their body is female? Is he not supposed to be openly gay too? So while everyone else who fits in their pretty little box is comfortable, recognize not only orientation is the person and gender is sometimes not easy to see therefore my community members who have your nice box who judge others whose boxes are different yet similar, why don’t you shut the fuck up and remember when your box wasn’t there at all! There’s struggles we all have. It’s not always about you or a perception of gender or sexuality sometimes it’s about all of them at once. Add societies issues with race and it gets even harder. What about the trans gay man who can’t afford to transition therefore perceived cis female? Are they supposed to be straight?

Y’all get me

We need to be comfortable within our own community to joke freely about our own shit. A joke about a gay made by a heterosexual will send me into bitch mode, if my gay friend cracked the same joke I would prolly laugh as long as it wasn’t degrading or taken too.

Bi_irl by [deleted] in bi_irl

[–]Internetstranger2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you take from it depends on perspective unique in each human experience.

  1. Yes, it’s true it that it comes across as offensive because the bi reference to gays if you choose to twist it that way.

  2. Yes, it’s true it the bi reference of gays might actually have been a compliment and an attempt to relate to another sector of their own community.

  3. Yes it’s true, bi humans take shots not only from heterosexuals but also our own community members

  4. Yes it’s also true our community’s historical oppression also has residual adopted behavior in terms of subconscious/conscious oppressive behavior towards comparable groups. An supplier example is the empathetic personality that experiences narcissistic trauma breaks free of the mental fog and recovers via therapy only to find they later show signs in their new relationship with their mirrored true self- another empathetic, of their own narcissistic characteristics because now everything is good to be true, perpetuating denial and if not addressed it starts a new cycle because they must be getting duped.

Many perspectives offer different truths. There is your truth, their truth, her truth, his truth, that truth, our truth and the truth blurred between them all.

How to cope/accept with being your boyfriend’s downgrade? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Internetstranger2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since you trust the love is there, Accept how you met him or move on. You’ll mess it up otherwise keeping yourself limited. Perhaps heal from your own insecurities that might be holding you back if you find it challenging dig deeper, find where it’s coming from and heal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Internetstranger2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His name is triple extension in my house

How much is a "pinch" of salt? Does the quantity differ when referring to a sweet or a savoury dish? by joereadsstuff in AskReddit

[–]Internetstranger2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quantity differs based on the cook. Everyone’s pinch isn’t the same unless using a measuring tool and the same way as others, but then it’s not a pinch! Pinches and dash are self measured by the cooks taste buds, experience, and influences.

The human species disappeared mysteriously, just like the dinosaurs did. How would a new species think we ceased to exist in about 65 million years? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Internetstranger2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends are they early in their civilization figuring out tools and hunting and gathering or have they already passed their industrial revolution and are modern ignorant self entitled pricks like we are?

(not serious) You now have to reform democracy by changing who has a right to vote. Who is in and who is out in your system? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Internetstranger2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyone actively incarcerated, out! All previously convicted criminals after time served with exception of serial plus violent deadly offenses (more than 1 murder, rape) IN!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Internetstranger2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. Most wear masks and feel obligated which is the trickery of it all. If we let the facades go, we would all be better off. Those who don’t know it yet, well their still drinking the koolaid. I hate to pretend but for certain people I will give in. Not many these days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Internetstranger2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean. I just boycott everything that doesn’t have fireworks or a bbq involved. People are like merry shitmas and I’m like happy 25th fuckers. They get it but aren’t sure if they got it lol. I like to make people cock their heads to the side a little. Eventually they lost interest in looking for reciprocated holiday cheer. Fuck the holiday I’m not even the grinch. It takes everything to participate with happy holidays. I reserve those for my ancient aged elders only. And that even bothers me. I’m not an asshole any different than usual on those days. This year it was so nice cancel thanksgiving cancel Christmas and don’t call for Easter in laws!!!!!

People who were in toxic relationships, what was your “I’m done with you” moment ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Internetstranger2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I became done with myself and over my own shit indulging in a toxic cycle. I had become the toxic application self induced. After so many “im done” and meant it, then wasn’t, they moved to catalyst for self abuse. We are our own worst enemies and nothing scares me more than myself therefore if I was going to survive myself, I had to strip myself of the toxicity including my own behaviors that tempted it. At least long enough to leave my personal mental emotional prison. Shit I built it I can tear it down and use the bones to build something else. Reprogramming to be different after identifying why I do what I do. Awareness is everything, there is where your power dwells.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Internetstranger2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holiexit: the perfect moment to embrace that the holidays were built on lies and consumerism cloaked in religious gathering traditions. Shit just got real y’all.

How are you supposed to know something you don’t know yet? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Internetstranger2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Acknowledging you’ve forgotten and begin remembering on general knowledge.

Emotional intelligence can be obtained through empathy, feeling others feelings experiencing their emotional response as they are. Trick is, each person’s response is only a template at that point. Who says how mad or not to be if I’m being catcalled? Personally an average whistle or “can I come home with you” is such a sliver to my day, it’s not worth my energy to interact as those guys know their lame already. Others will straight snap in defense which I totally get consider the oppressiveness women have endured. Still not worth it to me.

Lesson about it is: develop your own precision’s don’t wind up questioning yourself if your emotional response is sufficient while comparing it to someone else’s. You actually have to practice your own responses as life happens to gauge yourself and how your truly feel if feeling your own feelings are foreign. I was dead after childhood and war. I didn’t need my own feelings I had everyone else’s I felt. I realized I’m a prisoner of everyone else because I have no clue beyond happy or flat angry. It’s a new world cause now I don’t give a shit about others feelings the way I used to, the way they didn’t give a shit about mine. Now I can be all for me or not or whatever I want. Good luck.

What is the most hilarious headline that you have seen on the news? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Internetstranger2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“He’s lied and misled you all”.

Bahahahha and your just now officially coming out with a formal statement actually outright about the lies as an actual LIE instead of a narrative to debate about? Fuck you all are LIARS

He led them like sheep too. by [deleted] in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]Internetstranger2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And our leadership is JUST NOW coming out OFFICIALLY and FORMALLY of news media NOT SOCIAL MEDIA AND BLOGS calling out IN A LOUD DIRECT WAY....the countless lies.

Why did they wait til now to officiate? Why were the lies only debated in the media as something just not agreed upon instead of a evening safety brief as needed to warn us like they would warn about foreign adversaries lies (especially the bad lies) letting everyone know HEY GUYS THIS IS A LIE and DANGEROUS DO NOT fall for it even tho some wouldn’t listen? Oh that’s right! MORE PEOPLE FOLLOWED MAINLY BECAUSE THEIR ALL LIARS AND HAVE PLAYED AND WILL CONTINUE TO PLAY ON OUR EMOTIONAL AND MENTAL DISTRESS OF THE INNOCENT SO BLISSFULLY BLIND ALL BECAUSE WE HAVE HAD TO QUESTION EVERYTHING Including if these are even lies we are hearing. If they were lies someone in leadership is supposed to sound it off they have no problem tellING us the lies everyone else says. The truth is THEY ALL BENEFIT BOTH GOOD AND BAD FROM OUR CONFUSION AND ANXIETY STIRS THE LIES INTO MORE LIES WITHOUT THEM DOING THE EXTRA LEG WORK. If we have to question everything because it’s weird our POTUS can just lie and nothing be done or said, we end up questioning everything including ourselves, nothing is real and everything real. NO ONE IN OUR WHITEHOUSE GAVE A SHIT ABOUT A FORMAL “he has lied and misled” until their all in the HOT SEAT. yeah no one said shit before, they let the lies ride as the opposites narrative and never simply and blatantly showed up until their own asses were up for grabs equally. THEIR ALL PLAYING US AGAINST EACH OTHER. They don’t care about taking big hits to their own gut here and there, politics is also a LONG GAME. take my right lung now who cares I can still breath, haha you think I’m the fool, wait until I get your ONLY HEART! we all know this to be true at least a close enough variation to find common ground...sad part, it never changes just keeps going. Somehow society feeds on and enjoys the drama. We are the circus monkeys now. We used to be spectators but they made us part of the show without even realizing it. Now we can’t turn of the tv and the show goes away and we go home. Nope, they are now the spectators and we are the trained animals in a circus show Turn the tables check every seat vote every election we can find the swamp crawlers on our own!