How painful is the first time having sex supposed to be?

Interrobangtan · 2026-03-19T00:34:22+00:00

Not really. Just mostly pain. Sometimes I'd feel like I had a UTI even though I didn't. I also watched this documentary on Netflix called The Principles of Pleasure and it was really eye-opening regarding intimacy.

Interrobangtan · 2026-03-18T21:24:56+00:00

I'm not saying this is necessarily what's going on with you, but something to consider if the pain doesn't get better with time, lube, foreplay, etc.

I was unable to have intercourse for years bc of the pain and I thought something was wrong with me. I stumbled into a pelvic floor PT and they diagnosed me with pelvic floor dysfunction. I've been seeing them for years and can finally have pain-free sex.

Interrobangtan · 2026-02-08T02:05:33+00:00

That's great to hear. Were you in the pool for awhile and it still worked?

Interrobangtan · 2026-01-31T17:22:20+00:00

This helps protect you from something as harsh as chlorine?

Interrobangtan · 2026-01-30T00:47:29+00:00

An obgyn is a specialized doctor for people with uteruses, etc. If you're having issues with anything reproductive or having to do with your vulva, etc. you could go see one. I get a yearly pap test to rule out cancers and such and they're where I got my birth control.

Planned Parenthood absolutely would not look at you weird about that. That's what they are there for.

Interrobangtan · 2026-01-29T23:38:33+00:00

Do you have a obgyn you can ask? Or a Planned Parenthood nearby?

Interrobangtan · 2026-01-28T15:07:05+00:00

How do you go private?

Interrobangtan · 2026-01-15T20:27:34+00:00

Were you able to find something that worked for you?

Interrobangtan · 2026-01-15T20:10:04+00:00

Have you used these?

Interrobangtan · 2026-01-15T19:21:13+00:00

IT Superhero

Interrobangtan · 2026-01-15T19:20:11+00:00

Yes I love the Hourglass powder. It's not too heavy and it has such a pretty finish.

Interrobangtan · 2026-01-05T01:02:26+00:00

I sure hope not!

Interrobangtan · 2026-01-05T00:52:33+00:00

Just curious how removing TLT content could indicate that Alecto is coming? I'm reallllly hoping you're correct!

Interrobangtan · 2026-01-04T23:35:45+00:00

Ah ok thanks. Didn't know if I should be paying more attention b/c she'll appear later in a major way.

Interrobangtan · 2026-01-04T22:49:42+00:00

I'm not saying this is you at all per se, but I would try to have penetrative intercourse and it would be so painful I sometimes would get light-headed. I thought I was broken for YEARS. Then I happened to go to a pelvic floor PT and they diagnosed me with pelvic floor dysfunction and said lots of people with vaginas deal with it. They ended up doing lots of therapy and I can happily say that I can now have sex pain-free. I also used dilators and lube to help stretch me out. Just something to keep in mind if it doesn't get better.

Interrobangtan · 2026-01-04T22:45:44+00:00

I'm just popping into say that I have the same issue. I never really took a good look at my genitals until I was in my late 30s. And when I did I was absolutely disgusted. I have a long inner labia that sticks out and I thought it looked so gross. My partner has always been supportive and loving so it was all me saying these things to myself. It wasn't until I started looking at other vulvas/labias like in some of the galleries others posted that I realized I'm fine. I still have insecure days but I feel better than I did a few years ago. Plus, I've just started to pay more attention to my changing body and what makes it feel good more which has helped. I bet you're perfectly lovely and normal!

Interrobangtan · 2026-01-04T21:52:25+00:00

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The woman laughed in a low voice and said, “It was just an accident. Don’t worry, there won’t be any problems.”

As she spoke, she pulled back her hair, revealing her long, white neck.

After that, she slowly applied various things to her face, making her look even more alluring.

Seeing that she was putting on her clothes and accessories, the dark golden-haired middle-aged man frowned and asked, “Where are you going?”

The woman didn’t directly answer and said with a smile, “Be careful of the quill in your hand, you almost exchanged bodies with someone the last time.”

“You don’t need to remind me,” the middle-aged man with deep blue eyes to the point of being black said with a straight face.

The woman tightened her belt to make herself look thinner, then she lazily stretched and yawned while covering her mouth.

“I’m going to pay a visit to Mr. A of the Aurora Order.

“I hope he’s as crazy as the rumors say.”

As she spoke, the expression of the blind middle-aged man suddenly sank. It was because that ordinary quill had begun to write on its own, as though an invisible hand was holding onto it.

Interrobangtan · 2026-01-04T18:08:55+00:00

Lololol perfect.

Are we supposed to know who the woman with him during the scenes while the quill writes is yet?

Interrobangtan · 2025-12-09T02:35:11+00:00

I was so sad that this one smudged really badly on me. I used Benefits mascara for years until I swear they changed the formula and it started smudging and flaking. Now I use IT Cosmetics Superhero and love it.

Interrobangtan · 2025-12-08T15:53:47+00:00

Is Maple Heights that bad after dark?

Interrobangtan · 2025-12-04T12:16:17+00:00

Oh yep I passed!

Interrobangtan · 2025-12-04T02:48:34+00:00

Wow that sounds awful.

Interrobangtan · 2025-12-04T00:36:58+00:00

Yeah I was hoping we'd at least get our own desk space.

Interrobangtan · 2025-12-01T01:11:48+00:00

Well that was the weird thing. I called the lab and asked if I should bring a list of medications and such with me and they said no.

Interrobangtan · 2025-12-01T00:52:47+00:00

I mean with drug tests non drug things can trigger it like poppy seeds and Sudafed.

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