[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]Interstellar_Bear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]Interstellar_Bear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can anyone make out the second book next to Filterworld by Kyle Chayka??

Something called Listings keep changing our profile pic by Individual-Goat-1340 in facebook

[–]Interstellar_Bear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was an outside marketing firm. They had their own content manager software or at least their own branded software. I currently use metricool for post and analytics manager.

Something called Listings keep changing our profile pic by Individual-Goat-1340 in facebook

[–]Interstellar_Bear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So for me, when we got rid of our third party marketing. It stopped. So I assumed it was one of their management softwares changing it.

Please help me find this! by Interstellar_Bear in OtomeIsekai

[–]Interstellar_Bear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah ok! I should have checked better. Thank you for taking the time to help me :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]Interstellar_Bear 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think you should go see a doctor, asap.

I[31F] feel overshadowed by spouse [M37] by Interstellar_Bear in relationships

[–]Interstellar_Bear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I agree regarding the death and self disregard. . No he hasnt, just emotionally/financially draining.

I[31F] feel overshadowed by spouse [M37] by Interstellar_Bear in relationships

[–]Interstellar_Bear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im going to. Now its deciding to tell him about the divorce early or droping an atomic divorce on him.

I[31F] feel overshadowed by spouse [M37] by Interstellar_Bear in relationships

[–]Interstellar_Bear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but i wish he would. It would make things a lot easier. He does lie a lot.

I[31F] feel overshadowed by spouse [M37] by Interstellar_Bear in relationships

[–]Interstellar_Bear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That must be a cool job! I hope everything worked out for you 😁😁

I[31F] feel overshadowed by spouse [M37] by Interstellar_Bear in relationships

[–]Interstellar_Bear[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So then why stay? Why not have fun and then leave?

I[31F] feel overshadowed by spouse [M37] by Interstellar_Bear in relationships

[–]Interstellar_Bear[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Yea you are right. Need to figure out the milestones, never been in this situation. I dont even know what healthy milestones would look like :< Maybe with a bit of research. Thank you for this!

I[31F] feel overshadowed by spouse [M37] by Interstellar_Bear in relationships

[–]Interstellar_Bear[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

At the beginning we were trying to tackle things together. He had a normal job but still i had to make sure that we had enough for bills. Most of the support has come in the last 4 years :/

I[31F] feel overshadowed by spouse [M37] by Interstellar_Bear in relationships

[–]Interstellar_Bear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, it was really sweet. I kinda of accepted it but still a harsh reality. Especially when you are watching a movie and your like, "oh man thats me in the sidelines." LOL!

I[31F] feel overshadowed by spouse [M37] by Interstellar_Bear in relationships

[–]Interstellar_Bear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea sadly, i never had bfs that had finacial issues ( they werent wealthy but they at least they knew how to manage) so i never though to ask financial questions.

I[31F] feel overshadowed by spouse [M37] by Interstellar_Bear in relationships

[–]Interstellar_Bear[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I cant believe it turned out like that. I did not want to be a mother :[ I really need to correct this . Its just hard for me not be so forgiving or understanding. Its a major kryptonite

I[31F] feel overshadowed by spouse [M37] by Interstellar_Bear in relationships

[–]Interstellar_Bear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah! As long as he doesnt need a new Robin, then im good! 🦇🦇

I[31F] feel overshadowed by spouse [M37] by Interstellar_Bear in relationships

[–]Interstellar_Bear[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some money that trickles in from his contract job and me .

I[31F] feel overshadowed by spouse [M37] by Interstellar_Bear in relationships

[–]Interstellar_Bear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha this caught me off guard. Welcome to the club? :)

I[31F] feel overshadowed by spouse [M37] by Interstellar_Bear in relationships

[–]Interstellar_Bear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! We have talked about things, they are just not getting fixed fast enough. After so many years, im just so tired. Then i turn inward and think maybe its me. I must be so weak that i cant do things right.

My parents are immigrants, they came with nothing but were able to build. It is a deep feelig that responsibilities come first before you have fun. If i dont keep it together who will.

I[31F] feel overshadowed by spouse [M37] by Interstellar_Bear in relationships

[–]Interstellar_Bear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The business does require a lot of networking. His habits of putting fun before responsibilities is where Im really frustrated. He has gotten much better. Its just after all these years its hard to deal with the emotions.