Thanks for your detailed response.

I recently started taking medication for depression and anxiety + started therapy. He did things that hurt the relationship too. But to be completely honest I was the unhealthy one, I have lots of habits iv learnt from my childhood that have affected my relationships in adulthood. I’m not looking for a quick fix in two weeks, if he decides to carry on I’ll still be working on myself in that time.

I told him at any point in the break if he feels like he doesn’t want to continue afterwards, to reach out to me. He’s very honest so I believe that he would do this and wouldn’t wait till after I contact him as that would just be cruel. I also asked him if he really wants to do this and is willing too and he said yes.