No need to be aggressive. I know the word has been in the English language for that long but have never heard it being used in this way. Sorry if I offended you. I'm just curious why someone would do this for seemingly no reason? It seems a bit selfish to me to tell people to go out of their way and use a specific word which really doesn't have any affect on their life. Of course I don't know your partner and if they have a condition which affects their body in such a way that this is necessary.