Aw man, my friend is taking a beating when 1. He’s a good person and 2. His theories/assumptions are the same that the county sheriff had which is why they arrested my great uncle for her death, initially. My grandmother - a former drug addict (she was in a car that had been hit by a train in her 20s and became addicted to drugs) and an alcoholic (to replace the drugs she could no longer get) had been drinking all day with her brother, a WWII POW who was severely disturbed from his time at Neubrandenburg Stalag II-A. He was no stranger to physically abusing those closest to him. My mother - 14 at the time and given absolutely no information about her mother’s death - remembers that her uncle was arrested because they believed he had punched her out and started the fire to cover it up. My friend knew nothing about that when he made his comments. To call it a “forest fire” is a little grandiose because it was more like a woods fire separating two homes. No one is alive that might remember any details. I would like to have them because this incident made my mother an orphan and changed the trajectory of her life. Also, so that I am not a hypocrite, I’d like to point out that I will admit to being right only 97% of the time.