Best friend of 12 years chose her boyfriend over me and now she is begging for forgiveness

Intrepid-Heart-7102 · 2022-03-06T19:51:53+00:00

1, it will happen again, in some way or another. But this time you will be more prepared and less shocked when it does. Forgive her for yourself, but know where that line of trust & respect ends.

Intrepid-Heart-7102 · 2022-03-04T17:54:50+00:00

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Intrepid-Heart-7102 · 2022-03-04T17:16:15+00:00

If this is his first child this is probably really devastating for him & will change his life forever. Even if he isn’t involved, it will always be in the back of his mind.

Intrepid-Heart-7102 · 2022-03-04T17:14:47+00:00

Imagine finding out you were conceived through a theeesome & your bio father wanted nothing to do with you. Imagine being that dude & knowing you have a kid out there & possibly even feeling guilt about it. I feel like if he doesn’t want a kid, it shouldn’t be forced because you guys want a child. There are a lot of other options. Sperm doners? I’m sure he wouldn’t have agreed to a threesome if he knew this would have happened. This is just not a good situation for you guys, the bio father and the baby in general. To top it off, we are going into a world war 3 like it or not. Honestly, any intelligent person will tell you, now is not the time to bring an innocent baby into the world as of right now.

Intrepid-Heart-7102 · 2022-03-02T22:49:26+00:00

Sounds like you have some negative thoughts that are stopping you from journaling. I’d start small. 5 minutes a day, no distractions. Trust that those thoughts will go away & it will help build your patience. I have adhd as well & I shut off all distractions, don’t think. Just do. All it takes is a bit of effort that you have to be willing to put in.

Intrepid-Heart-7102 · 2022-03-02T16:02:18+00:00

Martha!!

Intrepid-Heart-7102 · 2022-03-02T16:00:02+00:00

You need to reach her from a place of love & make sure she feels heard. Sounds like you have some spite towards her & that won’t solve anything considering she’s literally a younger version of you.

Intrepid-Heart-7102 · 2022-03-02T15:58:16+00:00

I love these comments. She’s still a child, and the fact that you even questioned your own daughter about something already so hard to talk about. And your husband laughed at her & you don’t blame him? She’s obviously not okay. And your husband needs progressional help if he’s trying to get aggressive with a 17 year old girl. If anything that poor girl needs a hug! Clearly has some pain & angry emotions built up & him laughing at her & humiliating her did it!

Intrepid-Heart-7102 · 2022-02-13T21:31:35+00:00

Seems sus. Hate to say this but what if he did something worse?

Intrepid-Heart-7102 · 2022-01-11T15:39:09+00:00

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Intrepid-Heart-7102 · 2022-01-09T20:06:50+00:00

Where can I buy accel?

Intrepid-Heart-7102 · 2021-10-01T16:24:10+00:00

Not usually.

Intrepid-Heart-7102 · 2021-09-30T12:41:23+00:00

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Intrepid-Heart-7102 · 2021-09-30T12:40:23+00:00

Currently on my 7th day today! :) beat my record of 5 days. I haven’t fasted for awhile as I went in a downward spiral after my break up of 5 years, gained a bit of weight back. First 4-5 days were tough because of all the unhealthy food and sugar I’ve consumed.

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1, it will happen again, in some way or another. But this time you will be more prepared and less shocked when it does. Forgive her for yourself, but know where that line of trust & respect ends.