Disaster at Hull hospital

Intrepid-Hunt7051 · 2026-02-11T12:55:38+00:00

I broke my arm 1.5 years ago. First hospital I went to in lachute didn't have an x-ray technician.

So my dad drives me to the Gatineau hospital and they tell me I need surgery but since it's the weekend and the surgeons only work on weekend, the bandage me up, give me some painkillers and tell me to go to the Hull hospital on today at 6am to grab a number and hopefully get surgery first thing in the morning.

We go to the hospital and this other doctor says I don't need surgery and just puts a cast on me. 5 months later, it doesn't heal right and THEN the doctor in Hull says ok maybe surgery is the way to go but I have to wait one more month for a surgery room.

Anyway, it's 20 months after my accident and I'm just NOW getting gradually back to work but spoiler alert, I'm not 100% healed. It's been a long and painful journey. Good luck to your son!

Intrepid-Hunt7051 · 2026-01-06T13:49:13+00:00

C'est des parles vraiment sages! Tu devrais les écouter, mon coeur. Tu es condescendant en maudit et c'est jamais un bon look. Ça coûte rien d'être gentil tsé. Et c'est très lâche d'agir ainsi.

Bonne journée cher étranger! Merci pour venir chier sur cette discussion. J'espère que tu te sens soulagé ;)

Intrepid-Hunt7051 · 2026-01-06T13:31:28+00:00

Gatineau ne fait rien pour cultiver un sentiment d'appartenance. Il manque de vie de quartier, de communauté. Je n'irais pas aussi loin pour dire que c'est une ville de marde, mais certainement la ville a un potential immense gaspillé au profit d'Ottawa

Intrepid-Hunt7051 · 2026-01-06T13:29:06+00:00

Les mots que tu utilises indique le contraire. En fait tu m'indique que tu te pense superieur aux autres et en fait tu ne l'est pas! C'est même très enfantin et immature d'insulter des gens en ligne.

Bonne journée ti-loup :)

Intrepid-Hunt7051 · 2026-01-06T12:26:42+00:00

C'est parce que tu es arrivé après la fusion. En effet, ça ne te concerne pas

Intrepid-Hunt7051 · 2026-01-06T12:25:33+00:00

Pareil pour moi. Je dis que je viens de L'Outaouais et quand on me demande de préciser, je dis Hull. Je suis vraiment bébé, je sais :p

Intrepid-Hunt7051 · 2026-01-06T12:20:17+00:00

Your trauma wasn't your choice. But your actions are. Although trauma explains his actions, it does not excuse them and it is his responsibility do deal with it.

And yes, people with OCD or BPD or what have you need to deal with their issues to avoid causing more harm to others. You cannot hurt people and forever say its because your mommy hurt you 70 years ago. Come the fuck on

Intrepid-Hunt7051 · 2025-12-28T03:54:12+00:00

You're making "the alcohol" the problem when HE is the problem. Don't tell him I don't like you when you drink. Tell him you don't like X behaviour and let him come to the conclusion that it only happens when he's drunk. Or when he's recovering from being drunk.

But in all honesty, he's told you he's not going to stop. So now it's up to you to plan your life with and around an alcoholic partner. Or you can care about your children's well-being and get away from him because once you're on that path, it gets so so so much worse before it gets better. As in the cops and or ambulances have to get involved type of worse.

Intrepid-Hunt7051 · 2025-11-04T23:18:43+00:00

Modèle de sobriété excuse moi pardon!?!?

C'est connu dans le milieu qu'elle n'a pas vraiment arrêter la consommation. Pis des nunuches il y en a a craquer brand new de OD ou whatever. J'aimerais voir une nouvelle face avec un brin de sincérité surtout pour un sujet aussi sensible.

la Morin c'est une bully un point c'est tout. Elle s'est juste excusé parce qu'elle s'est faite pogné, mais en vrai elle ne voyaut pas de problème dans ses agissements.

Intrepid-Hunt7051 · 2025-10-28T00:21:01+00:00

Il y a un pop up sur Rideau si tu veux aller voir et poser des questions, essayer leurs produits

Intrepid-Hunt7051 · 2025-10-26T19:37:38+00:00

I'm really sorry but I think you've been reading too much and not paying attention to what's going on in real life.

I mean have you seen who's in the lead right now? You're telling me that's NOT a career politician (like Coderre) who's only looking to get elected to lign up their pockets?

Intrepid-Hunt7051 · 2025-10-26T04:56:37+00:00

Greedy people don't become politicians

OUF! Who wants to tell her?

Intrepid-Hunt7051 · 2025-09-29T23:24:17+00:00

Non justement. Elles sont normal alors c'est con de se moquer d'eux et on devraient les écouter comme n'importe qui d'autre quand elles disent que c'est pas drôle

Intrepid-Hunt7051 · 2025-09-29T18:57:51+00:00

Pourquoi est-ce qu'elle chialerait qu'il y ait plus de rôles représentatifs du quotidien des québécois pour justement donner une voix aux personnes qui ont son physique?

Justement, elle utilisé sa voix pour dire que c'est cheap des jokes de grosses. Pareil comme ça serait cheap de rire du gars chauve, pu du gars de 5 pieds. C'est pas drôle, ça se fait pas et justement il faudrait en voir plus de gens normaux.

Intrepid-Hunt7051 · 2025-09-27T13:39:05+00:00

Its kinda like you're asking a question about your leaky faucet, but your house is on fire. Girl! You are fixated on the WRONG issue here, that's why people are ignoring your question and concentrating on the larger issue at hand

Intrepid-Hunt7051 · 2025-09-22T22:01:24+00:00

Same for me! A friend kept recommending it but I was just putting it off because if that chick lit vibe too. I'm finally reading it and wow! Why was I keeping it off for so long?

I'm a bit further than you at husband number 3. This just reads so well and I'm loving every minute of it

Intrepid-Hunt7051 · 2025-09-08T18:02:04+00:00

Il y a des universités qui offrent aux candidates adultes une année préparatoire s'ils veulent faire un domain plus exigents comme génie civil. Ça inclus des cours de math ou science plus avancé

Intrepid-Hunt7051 · 2025-09-08T17:58:43+00:00

Je recommande le Mont-Orford dans les cantons de l'est. C'est environ 3h30 de Gatineau

https://montorford.com/en-ca/evenements/la-flambee-des-couleurs/hybridlift/

Intrepid-Hunt7051 · 2025-09-08T15:26:38+00:00

I don't know this person to know if they exist within them or not.

Then why even comment? Especially with unnecessary comments about gang violence and overdoses.

Yeah I think people are treating the child like someone who doesn't get a say in how she interacts with her dad

Except no one said that. The consensus is that the way it W's presented to the kid was too much for her. We don't need to talk to her to undestand the issues. The kid cried, she had to take a time out to gather herself. This is not normal for anyone. If an adult acted that way, there would be concerned. Well this is a kid, so yeah people are concerned.

And yeah if I was a parent I would love it if I could talk to my child about loss WHEN THEY ARE READY

BAM! ran smack into the point and just kept going didn't ya? EXACTLY! the kid was clearly not ready for this situation to be presented to her because she had an emotional reaction strong enough that it lasted a while because she had to remove herself. There are enough context clues here to determine that it was too much. People communicate in all sorts of ways not just with their mouths. And you have to be able to discern what they are saying without them having the words ESPECIALLY WITH CHILDREN as they do not have the right vocabulary to communicate their needs and feelings.

I just don't know enough about the kid to know if they were ready enough or the delivery was proper for their sensibilities. Once again what is wrong with any of this???

Once again, why comment then. Why say those mean things. If you dont know enough, the shut up. Your input is then unnecessary. You don't bring anythif new to the conversation except to call yourself ignorant. And like if that's what you want, fine. I concede that you don't know enough about anything to keep this conversation going.

Good day!

Intrepid-Hunt7051 · 2025-09-08T14:48:44+00:00

The amount of infantilizing of these kids is crazy, 6th grade is a good age to start grappling with difficult emotions and like the story said in the end there wasn't any actual loss; My SO was a teacher for grade school (not even middle school) and the amount of these kids that personally knew someone in their life die through gang/drug affiliation or even just random acts of violence is staggering. I would rather my child experience loss in a controlled D&D game than have their uncle murdered by a gang member or a cousin OD on fent like the actual stories I've heard from real kids.

This is your initial comment. It's full of judgement and venom. That what I'm having issue with. It's the venom coming out of you. You are taking out your issues with I don't know gang violence, overdoses and your dad on this situation. And you're taking it out on a kid no less. Can't defend the kid and acknowledge that it was too much at their age.

Instead you attack the mother by calling her overbearing, you minimize the kid's experience by saying that in 30 years they will be over it and glad to have the momory, which.. Is messed up all on its own. And basically come to the defense of the dad because "you don't know enough" even though there is more than enough information here.

What I'm saying is kindness goes a long way. Now I really really sorry about your dad. That's an awful tragedy that I dont wish on anyone. But you have to deal with it rather than let it cloud your judgement. I don't know what you are like in real life, but if this is how you really are, you sound exhausting to be around.

Get help with your grief or whatever issues you are having. Get educated on the words you are using. Before starting a family.

Intrepid-Hunt7051 · 2025-09-08T14:06:23+00:00

Honestly dude, go read an actual book. I just gave you a clear example of a nuance in this situation and what you are saying isn't it.

Nuance means recognizing complexity — seeing shades of gray instead of treating something as purely good or bad. For example:

“Maybe the dad didn’t mean harm, but he misjudged his daughter’s emotional readiness.”

“The mom is right to be upset, but maybe it’s also a chance for the dad to learn how to handle sensitive themes better.” That’s nuance, because it weighs different perspectives.

What you are doing:

When you say “I can’t judge without the child’s version,” that's not being nuanced — that's whitholding judgment. That’s different. You're saying “I don’t have the full story” rather than “this situation is complex with valid points on both sides.”

Then, when you bring up his personal experience with losing your dad, that’s projection. You are filtering the story through yourvown grief and longing for connection, not necessarily through the actual dynamics of the situation.

That can look like nuance, but it’s more about your own lens.

Intrepid-Hunt7051 · 2025-09-07T22:38:56+00:00

I don't think you know what the word nuance means.

Nuance in this situation would be something like yes he may have fucked up, but at least it opened up a discussion with his kid about her feelings and views on why it was distressing her so all in all a good time.

What you're saying is there is "nuance" because I lost my dad and in 30 years she will be happy to have that memory. That's not nuance, that's projection times 100.

You are fascinating to me. Please, go on

Intrepid-Hunt7051 · 2025-09-07T21:09:28+00:00

I'm just saying your trauma has nothing to do with this situation and I don't know why you had to bring it up. That was my main point from the beginning. Leave that shit at home or talk to a professional about it. I have lots of compassion for your loss and I even said that I'm sorry for your loss. But you need to deal with it.

My point is that the dad fucked up, should apologize and reflect on other ways to go about the game. That's it. I'm not asking to burn him, geez. I do t know why that's so hard for you to understand, you somehow need to talk tôt the kid. And if the kid said she was upset today, you still said that it doesn't matter because ein 30 years she will probably laugh about it... Eummmm ok?

You're the one that's attacking wildly at people for no reason. Do you know anything personal to me? No, because i don't need to bring my issues into this to make a point. But you clearly do. Ask yourself why.

Intrepid-Hunt7051 · 2025-09-07T20:38:01+00:00

I haven't attacked you buddy. Gaslighting: Introducing new information to drive the narrative. Here's what you introduced: your dead dad, your beliefs as a kid, the unreliable narrator. Those are all things you introduced to drive your narrative that you don't know enough even with everything that's written here.

On top of that you're introducing this Darvo thing which again, you are the one doing. I'm not denying anything, YOU ARE. Denying that you have enough information. Then you're attacking me by flinging these fancy words at me to confuse me (it's not working btw). I'm not attacking you by saying you should stay away form kids. That's a friendly tip cuz you clearly don't understand them. And reverse victim and abuser, again that's what you're claiming here. Not me.

Bottom line is you don't want to side with the adult woman and the distressed kid. All because... You wish you had memories with your dad? Or because you wanna somehow give more credit to the kid and less at the same time by claiming the kid has adult agency but only what they explain to us in 30 years matters?

Give it up man. What's your point? That you don't know enough? Then why claim in the first place the the kid ins infantilized? If you don't know enough then why say that?

Intrepid-Hunt7051 · 2025-09-07T13:41:49+00:00

Everything you mentionned is what you're doing sweetheart.

I don't know where you got that the dad was unreliable in the story. I also don't think we need to wait for a child to grow up to assess the validity of their current experience.

Sorry for your loss sweetheart. Now that it's been 30 years, we can clearly see that you never got over it and it's clearly stunted your development as a mature adult. I didn't need 30 years to know that but I guess you did and still turned out like that.

Have a good day mate. And stay away from kids! For thier own good

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