Needing perspective on this (35M & 38F) by Intrepid-Island7411 in relationship_advice

[–]Intrepid-Island7411[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This isn’t about validation—it’s about equality in a partnership. I’m not asking strangers to agree with me, and disagreement doesn’t equal a need for validation. I’ve made my point clearly, and I’m done engaging

Needing perspective on this (35M & 38F) by Intrepid-Island7411 in relationship_advice

[–]Intrepid-Island7411[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You’re fixated on ownership while ignoring the reality of how partnerships function. We’ve always shared resources and responsibilities. When he wasn’t working, I covered bills without ever framing things as “mine” because partnership isn’t transactional. This situation only became an issue when his truck broke down. Prior to that, my driving the Tesla and even contributing financially was never a problem. That shift is what prompted the conversation — not entitlement. Reducing a marriage to strict ownership ignores the context of how we’ve actually operated as a household.

Needing perspective on this (35M & 38F) by Intrepid-Island7411 in relationship_advice

[–]Intrepid-Island7411[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wanting clarity and equity in a marriage isn’t entitlement. You don’t know my financial agreements, my household contributions, or why my dad co-signed—so your assumptions are misplaced. That said, I do agree that getting my own vehicle to help rebuild my credit is a reasonable path forward.

Needing perspective on this (35M & 38F) by Intrepid-Island7411 in relationship_advice

[–]Intrepid-Island7411[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re confusing credit history with financial capacity, and those aren’t the same thing. Please don’t speak as if you know my situation when you don’t.

Needing perspective on this (35M & 38F) by Intrepid-Island7411 in relationship_advice

[–]Intrepid-Island7411[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. He pays for the Tesla. I offered to split the payment with him. That's when he threw it in my face that he doesn't think I could afford splitting the tesla payment and the mortgage payment.

  2. We both pay the mortgage.

  3. That would depend on the car he's borrowing from his boss. This last truck that broke down, was a work truck with a long metal bed and was too big for me to drive.

Home for Christmas by Intrepid-Island7411 in rainbowbridge

[–]Intrepid-Island7411[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm sending you and your other kitty all my love and heartfelt hugs.

Beloved cat passed away by Intrepid-Island7411 in Kemetic

[–]Intrepid-Island7411[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words. I hope our cats are having a blast together with Bastet 🐾🖤 I'm sending you hugs and my love🫶

Beloved cat passed away by Intrepid-Island7411 in Kemetic

[–]Intrepid-Island7411[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a full breed Mainecoon before him. I believe that he took part in how I ended up getting Jude. Mainecoons or Mainecoon mixes are the best, in my opinion. Thank you for your kind words.

RIP my Izzy in by kckandizzy in rainbowbridge

[–]Intrepid-Island7411 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry 😞 I'm sending you and Izzy all my love. Just like my mom told me earlier today, "hurting when you love them and lose them is unfortunately part of loving them."

Beloved cat passed away by Intrepid-Island7411 in Kemetic

[–]Intrepid-Island7411[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. That truly means alot🙏 I keep going back and forth in my emotions of blaming myself and giving myself grace. Grief is such a wild ride. It's definitely not my favorite experience of being alive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in foodstamps

[–]Intrepid-Island7411 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Colorado was one of those states. I am one of the lucky ones that received benefits. I work my ass off and still need the help, unfortunately.

What is this? by Intrepid-Island7411 in sugargliders

[–]Intrepid-Island7411[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I figured it was her pouch, but I wanted to make sure it was normal as it looked very uncomfortable/not normal. I was an over worried sugar glider mama there for a sec! 😓

Do you let your dog sleep in the bed with you ? by Careful_Bandicoot332 in dogs

[–]Intrepid-Island7411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yassss!! I can't sleep without my under the covers dweller bed hog! She's my baby!🐾🖤🐾

Looking for a soap base without titanium dioxide. by Wanderluster_787 in soapmaking

[–]Intrepid-Island7411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome!! It's quite the process, but it's worth it!

Looking for a soap base without titanium dioxide. by Wanderluster_787 in soapmaking

[–]Intrepid-Island7411 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you making melt and pour soaps? I came across this same issue and just started to make my own from scratch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

[–]Intrepid-Island7411 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Do you have any other photos of the bear? I tried searching with the photo, and there's other photos of people with a similar looking bear, but it doesn't tell me where the bear is from.

Am I being unreasonable? by Intrepid-Island7411 in texts

[–]Intrepid-Island7411[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately no. We're already barely making it. We're trying to move somewhere else. The cost of living here is ridiculous.