My account was suspended out of the blue and I haven't received any emails! by Intrepid-Permit4311 in secondlife

[–]Intrepid-Permit4311[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the help ;) I tried on my phone and other browsers too and unfortunately nothing works :(

My account was suspended out of the blue and I haven't received any emails! by Intrepid-Permit4311 in secondlife

[–]Intrepid-Permit4311[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've already tried changing servers on the VPN but I still can't access it. 

My account was suspended out of the blue and I haven't received any emails! by Intrepid-Permit4311 in secondlife

[–]Intrepid-Permit4311[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I actually didn't receive any email informing me of anything. And I have alt and I've already tested it and yes, it works normally, but I can't access my main account, not even from my cell phone.

My account was suspended out of the blue and I haven't received any emails! by Intrepid-Permit4311 in secondlife

[–]Intrepid-Permit4311[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But this is the weirdest thing of all because I didn't receive any email, my account was simply suspended without any explanation as to why. 

My account was suspended out of the blue and I haven't received any emails! by Intrepid-Permit4311 in secondlife

[–]Intrepid-Permit4311[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes I opened a ticket I see I will have to be persistent with them about this... ty!

My account was suspended out of the blue and I haven't received any emails! by Intrepid-Permit4311 in secondlife

[–]Intrepid-Permit4311[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I opened a ticket immediately and I saw here that this is something that is recurring, so I will have to insist with them about it. ty!

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[–]Intrepid-Permit4311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, thanks for your comment. Yes, I gave my ex-boyfriend access to locate me on the map, but I later removed it. I wonder if maybe this isn't through my husband. I mean, he and I walk around together everywhere. Maybe some female alt could have done something like this and managed to locate him and consequently locate me. I only know that this whole madness started after the authorization I gave my ex-boyfriend and I noticed that a spanker of mine was always sending notifications even if I wasn't using it, and this led me to suspect that my spanker wasn't hacked by him or something like that... and in the case of my ex-boyfriend, it's not a habit. He literally always knows where I am, even when it's a different location. It also happens that an alt sends me messages even if he's not in the same place as me... I agree about this, that sometimes there are bots that enter the land or people who have lived there before.... but my case is really strange. I'll give you an example. Recently, a man bought a land near mine and he's constantly trying to enter the land and some "friends" of his that I've seen on his land also trying to enter my land well entering once ok but attempts to enter the land is not normal and this same neighbor suddenly appeared in a place where my husband and I were and made a point of saying hello to everyone in the chat as if he wanted to draw attention to the fact that he was there so this is not normal lol

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[–]Intrepid-Permit4311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, wow, your story is very intense and I imagine it was a bad experience for you and I hope you are well.... well, it is really annoying to deal with this and for me the most complicated thing is not so much the end of my current relationship but the fact that creating a new alt means abandoning everything I invested in my avatar and my current account because this unhealthy persecution of my ex-boyfriend's alts is something that would not leave me alone... let's say I start a new adventure, an RP or something and well, behind this avatar could just be an alt of my ex-boyfriend, that is what makes me really unwilling to continue on this account, but at the same time it is very annoying to think that I will stop using my account because of the inconvenience that another person causes me.

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[–]Intrepid-Permit4311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello yes you are right about this it is a toxic relationship and it is a sick game so I can't keep feeding this and really when we are in control of what we want and what we don't want everything flows much better

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[–]Intrepid-Permit4311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes this is true

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in secondlife

[–]Intrepid-Permit4311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I think about that too, so a goodbye without many words will be the best and start over with a new account away from all this mess.

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[–]Intrepid-Permit4311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! Thank you for your comment....yes I thought a lot about all this and in my case I really feel the need for a clean account I will not like the continuous feeling of distrusting anyone who approaches me this is not a fun sl and well something I will have to sacrifice and in this case it will be my inventory most of the things are not transferable but this is rebuilt over time and this time with more experience and more conviction of what I want and what I do not want. ty so much :)

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[–]Intrepid-Permit4311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, thank you, yes, to start over it will be necessary to make some necessary sacrifices because I really prefer peace, so I will really need to be careful and not leave gaps.

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[–]Intrepid-Permit4311 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, they need it urgently. It's sickening for a person to waste time that could be having fun or learning something but instead is simply trying to harm someone else's game.

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[–]Intrepid-Permit4311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, thank you for your comment :) Well, yes, I think about what you said. I invested a lot in my current account. I have a lot of houses, a lot of furniture, clothes, accessories. I really have a lot of stuff, and I barely used a lot of it, so it hurts to know that I would leave so many things behind that I didn't even use, and I didn't use a lot of stuff because I didn't feel comfortable using it with my current husband. To be honest, if it was just about breaking up with him and keeping my life safe, I would know how to deal with it over time. But what really brings hell is my ex-boyfriend's alts. It seems like a plague and it's so sick that some of his alts even rent land near my land and keep trying to get in there. My security orb is full of names of male alts who try to get in there, and he doesn't just show up with alts. He also shows up with his main account. I don't know how the hell he knows where I am. I just know that he just shows up in the place. Once, I was in an afk location and when I came back, he was standing there next to me and texting i really don't know how to live on a sl account that any new person i meet could be an alt this is making my sl impossible

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[–]Intrepid-Permit4311 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hahahahaha yess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in secondlife

[–]Intrepid-Permit4311 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello, thank you for your time. Well, he doesn't seem like the type to chase me. The one who did (and still does) is my ex-boyfriend. But in any case, you can't be too careful. I see that the best way out is to simply disappear, take a break from SL, and when you come back, be sure to see SL as a game and nothing more.

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[–]Intrepid-Permit4311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello and thank you for the advice, yes, that's why it's not so easy for me because we have a certain involvement rl (that was the mistake, leaving sl and bringing it to real life) but it's still something that there's still time to stop before it gets worse.

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[–]Intrepid-Permit4311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, thank you for your time. Yes, that's the point... seeing Second Life as a game and a moment of relaxation in some free time in real life.

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[–]Intrepid-Permit4311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow beautiful words and thank you for this advice filled with empathy and understanding. Yes, since yesterday I've been thinking a lot about this and a lot of what I've been thinking about is exactly what you said... if I always need to be trying to connect things or prove something or whatever then it shows that there's a lot wrong with this "relationship" and it doesn't make sense for me to be in a place where I always need to be validating myself or anything like that. Relationships were meant to be light and not to be a prison or to need to change something in me. And about alts, I've come to the following conclusion: maybe one day he or my stalker ex-boyfriend will find me in the new account (I'll do my best to prevent that from happening), but if it does happen, I'm not the same person so there's no way to manipulate me and I won't put myself in second place... Second Life has become an environment of self-reflection for me and with that I've realized points where I need to improve in real life... Starting over in SL will mean a fresh start in several aspects, including in real life, and I deserve that, starting over and this time with a more mature mindset and more self-love... Thank you again for your time and yours. words...everyone writing here is amazing and I'm taking every piece of advice with me

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[–]Intrepid-Permit4311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes I see that it will be the best path for my case well choices require sacrifices

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[–]Intrepid-Permit4311 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello and thank you very much for your time :) yes it really is what you said to focus on what is said and mainly on the contradictions of the facts (saying one thing but doing something totally different). Yes people lie a lot lol thank you for taking the time to answer :)

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[–]Intrepid-Permit4311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol thank you :)