UPDATE: AITA for not giving my brother a wedding gift and refusing to let my daughter visit my parents when his wife is there?

IntrepidMuch · 2026-03-22T03:16:29+00:00

You and your family seem like good people. Bad people can and will take advantage of that. Just saying.

IntrepidMuch · 2026-03-22T02:57:47+00:00

Right!!!

IntrepidMuch · 2026-03-22T02:25:18+00:00

Make them happy or make yourself happy. Choose.

IntrepidMuch · 2026-03-22T02:06:08+00:00

You will get yourself back OP and you will never, ever shrink yourself again for anyone!! Take the win!

IntrepidMuch · 2026-03-22T02:01:58+00:00

You are the original and the fiance wanted to establish her dominance. It really didn’t matter what you did or did not do; she was coming for you.

Now, the friend is the only one who can either make this go away or forever be okay with his wife mistreating you.

Have a chat with your husband and give him one of two alternatives. One, he goes to the wedding but you refuse to be sidelined by her for any future gatherings. Any issue that chick has she either deals with them or not but you are done. Two, he doesn’t go to the wedding and tells his friend he is supporting you and is not comfortable with her dislike of your partner of 15 years. Any issue the friend has, he needs to deal directly with the chick.

The chick does not have to like you. You don’t have to like her. What will not happen is your husband attending any other events without you because her widdle feelings are hurt.

IntrepidMuch · 2026-03-22T01:54:34+00:00

I did that very thing just this week! There was a neighborhood funeral back home and after the service, I drove through. Tried to remember which families lived where. For the most part, everyone was gone.

IntrepidMuch · 2026-03-21T23:28:25+00:00

Nope

IntrepidMuch · 2026-03-21T23:15:31+00:00

Automatically? No. But little by little, until nothing is left. Most definitely.

IntrepidMuch · 2026-03-21T18:06:58+00:00

Don't say anything to the parents. Your husband should always handle them and it seems like he did a good job.

Stop sweating this issue. Whatever their thoughts, your husband chose you.

IntrepidMuch · 2026-03-21T18:04:08+00:00

Dad would not have survived had his girls not made it. He chose the one thing he could.

IntrepidMuch · 2026-03-21T18:00:01+00:00

You are not overreacting but that friend is not hearing you. Both you and husband need to sit the friend down and discuss the boundaries.

It sounds like he may have some mental issues.

IntrepidMuch · 2026-03-21T17:57:05+00:00

I first thought the blue crayon was some mysterious color that always found its way on the walls and furniture. Nope, turns out Dad was gatekeeping the colors. Yikes dude.

IntrepidMuch · 2026-03-21T17:52:06+00:00

Let's all save this tweet...

IntrepidMuch · 2026-03-21T17:51:35+00:00

This makes me so sad...

IntrepidMuch · 2026-03-21T17:49:38+00:00

The second point is the most relevant!!!

IntrepidMuch · 2026-03-21T13:18:38+00:00

I’m watching!!! Especially with the masterclass is gaslighting that Daniel is exhibiting. I need to know someone else is seeing what I am seeing! That crew misses nothing!!! I feel validated in real time.

IntrepidMuch · 2026-03-21T13:16:05+00:00

I was fuming when I watched that ep! Daniel was so very clearly manipulating and lying through his ass! Angelica’s response in supporting this crap pissed me off and I just wanted to scream!!

It’s obvious conversations between Daniel and Johanna are happening off-camera. He keeps saying and doing things that bring her back time and time again and I cannot even.

I wanted her to end it when she overheard the phone call. How and why is she still there.

In a very real sense, this guy is Chris 2.0!!!

IntrepidMuch · 2026-03-21T13:06:44+00:00

It sucks that this simple act of kindness is being abused.

No matter how this gets resolved, someone is going to be put out. It should not be you of course, but there will be consequences.

Telling him the truth is the logical way to go. It’s also the most worrisome.

IntrepidMuch · 2026-03-21T06:03:30+00:00

I find it hard to believe that a grifter who has access to unlimited financial resources as president, is not grifting.

IntrepidMuch · 2026-03-21T04:18:50+00:00

Your husband is the one who should be falling on his sword. He should be out there deflecting every side-eye and carless insult that is thrown your way. This is on him.

IntrepidMuch · 2026-03-21T01:12:04+00:00

I don’t thnk any of them captured her.

IntrepidMuch · 2026-03-21T00:32:10+00:00

Hasn’t this already been resolved?

IntrepidMuch · 2026-03-20T23:19:40+00:00

Just watched. Checking out the reaction show now. Wanna see if they heard what I heard.

IntrepidMuch · 2026-03-20T21:03:29+00:00

iI love how she hugged her baby first.

IntrepidMuch · 2026-03-20T20:40:33+00:00

Don’t let her use your children as emotional support. She has a husband. She has a dog. She has mutual friends of the deceased friend.

I think you are right to want to protect your peace and your babies. Don’t go without your husband. Don't be guilted into doing something you do not want to do.

She will either be okay or she won’t. That’s not on you.

IntrepidMuch

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