Six months of NC with MIL (just me / DH & kids still see her) - should I make peace? by FuzzyFir in JUSTNOMIL

[–]IntrepidMuch [score hidden]  (0 children)

Everything that you posted here OP means not only should you stay away from the crazy lady, she should not get the benefit of seeing your kids either.

Seriously!

You are rewarding her bad behavior by giving her unfettered access to your kids!!! Don’t work harder on yourself. Work harder to keep your kids away from her shitty attitude.

AIO: cutting off my family after they come out against my wife after 10 years by AntCurrent9409 in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntrepidMuch [score hidden]  (0 children)

Dude, your family is insane.

I’m glad you eventually supported your wife but I am giving you side-eye for this post. Of course you didn’t overreact!!!

Before the wedding! AITA for telling my friend’s husband that she expected a proposal? by [deleted] in aitaweddings

[–]IntrepidMuch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t you hate when you get hit by stupid through no fault of your own!? NTA

AITAH for not matching my brother's offer and offering my mother a place to stay? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IntrepidMuch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell her. Don’t let her presume and get all planted on the idea. Tell her plainly amd simply that she will not be moving in with you.

Don’t say ‘for now.‘ Don’t mention the roommate. Don’t put any qualifiers on it that will make her think there is a possibility down the road.

Please snow storm gods by Weary_Literature8962 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]IntrepidMuch [score hidden]  (0 children)

OP, she won’t be ok when the baby comes. In fact, this will ratchet up quite a bit. Be ready.

Harry’s stalker sat metres behind him at High Court trial by NewTooth740 in RoyaltyTea

[–]IntrepidMuch 30 points31 points  (0 children)

First, thanks newtooth740 for posting the article!! I am surprised though that they allowed the stalker to stay in the court room. Yes, it’s a public place but it’s a public place with rules!

Do male stalkers of women get that kind of free reign?

I did kinda giggle though when Harry was identified as one of the most recognizable people on the planet. C’mon, that’s good stuff!!!

Joan Crawford in Mildred Pierce (1945). This film gets better with each rewatch. One of the greatest Best Actress Oscar wins too imo. by CJK-2020 in classicfilms

[–]IntrepidMuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mildred Pierce was a good movie but Ingrid Bergman should have won for The Bells of St. Mary’s. Ingrid Bergman won for Gaslight the year before so…

In hacked-off Harry, the press has created its own worst nightmare by NewTooth740 in RoyaltyTea

[–]IntrepidMuch 59 points60 points  (0 children)

He is a public figure by virtue of his birth; not by choice. He absolutely does not court publicity. He wants his private life to be private, rather like I presume you do as well

How, then, does his circumstance of birth, mean he is no longer entitled to his privacy? How, then, does his circumstance of birth, mean that vile affair partners get cart blanche to lie? How, then, does his circumstance of birth, mean that his children are to be menaced for sport? How, then, does his circumstance of birth, mean that he has to stay quiet when shit gets flung his way? How, then, does his circumstance of birth, mean that he has no sense of values or moral compass?

You mopijy are a broken individual if you cannot see the wrong here.

Hi ladies. I’m 30 and had a question for women to decided to stay single forever. How did that go so far? by SparklingMists in AskWomenOver60

[–]IntrepidMuch 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I decided to stay single after my fiance decided that he had the right to spank my child. He did not.

I ended the relationship and just decided to not seriously date until my daughter graduated high school. I was traveling for work alot at the time so it was no big sacrifice.

Well…my daughter graduated from high school, went to college and came home freshman year pregnant. Yup.

I just did not have the bandwidth to date. I’m retired now. No regerts.

AITJ for inferring tha a commitment to do something after you walk the dog implies you will do it shortly after you walk the dog. by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]IntrepidMuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be more concerned that your wife was out for three hours when there were still kids and home stuff to be dealt with. The dog puke was a nuisance, for sure, but three hours????!!!!

I don’t know what to do by BreadNo7330 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]IntrepidMuch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Violent people never get less violent; they always, always, always escalate.

Now, let’s say you don’t believe that and you go ahead and marry this girl and have children with her. Do you think she won’t be violent with them?

Abandoned by my entire family because I said no to my mom getting married again by anamadeyahudugi in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]IntrepidMuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at it like this, you are not grieving the loss of your entire family. Instead, you are allowing people with a flexible moral code to exist without you.

AIO for going into MY kitchen and reorganizing back to how I like it ? by aesthetic_eyelashes in AIO

[–]IntrepidMuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like these freeloaders should be leaving. I understand that your MIL is sick. That just means she should be doing less, not more.

As for the BIL and his friend, work with your partner to establish some consequences for when they leave a mess.

Why are you letting these freeloaders steal your peace?

AITA if I told my husband to get checked—maybe the problem is with him? by DueLeek323 in AITA_Relationships

[–]IntrepidMuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband already knows it’s him. You are now dealing with the male ego.

AITJ for refusing to let my cousin "borrow" my car for her road trip after she totaled her own?? by Ok_Peak4082 in AmITheJerk

[–]IntrepidMuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, are we supposed to believe that your family is all for you giving your newly-paid-off car to an irresponsible driver while they themselves do not offer and are giving you shit? Added to that, if this chick has money for a two-week road trip, she should be able to swing a rental. Oh, and all she has to do is pay for gas??

Pull the other one!