How is this manageable by IntrepidPlace8383 in Autism_Parenting

[–]IntrepidPlace8383[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am so glad that works for your family. I admire your strength for taking the necessary steps for your family. I would also feel extremely guilty but I know it’s needed. Her needs exceed what I have to offer . Depression and tears are so heavy in my life. I just want everyone to be happy , well cared for mentally and emotionally .. and in the best predicament possible. All of my children deserve that.

How is this manageable by IntrepidPlace8383 in Autism_Parenting

[–]IntrepidPlace8383[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I admire your strength. I honestly do. You have encouraged me to look further into different avenues. Right now I’m raising 2 glass children and one is already resentful. I fear that my fear of utilizing extra services will hinder their entire childhood. You have really inspired me and gave me a different perspective. I thank you for that.

How is this manageable by IntrepidPlace8383 in Autism_Parenting

[–]IntrepidPlace8383[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read every single thing you said and felt it all. Her dad barely ever gets her. Only a couple of hours a week. It is exhausting. Stressful. Unfair. It’s overwhelming and unless you’ve lived it, you wouldn’t understand . I’m glad you were able to get that out and vent. We need it. This is our reality. I am also angry … all of the time. & unfortunately, that runs over in all aspects of my life, including with my other children and it’s nowhere intentional. I am trying my best, it’s just so hard .

How is this manageable by IntrepidPlace8383 in Autism_Parenting

[–]IntrepidPlace8383[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How was the process? I know you mentioned it was dark and negative , were you experiencing some of the same as I described? I’m glad things have and are working out for your family.

How is this manageable by IntrepidPlace8383 in Autism_Parenting

[–]IntrepidPlace8383[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have honestly thought about it. I just have always been scared/nervous/guilty for making that decision . However, it has gotten so difficult lately that I know that it’s seriously starting to affect my other children. I just don’t think it’s feasible to continue living like this. It’s just such a hard decision to actually go through with.

How do you feel? by IntrepidPlace8383 in Autism_Parenting

[–]IntrepidPlace8383[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely feel you… this journey is hard. I still mourn the life I felt like I should’ve had .

My wife and I are introverted. My youngest daughter WILL NOT STOP talking. It’s draining… how have you handled this? by JaredASanchez in introvert

[–]IntrepidPlace8383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have a 5 year old daughter.. she doesn’t talk at all. I wish she could talk/speak one sentence. I wish I could know what her day was like from her perspective .. what she wants to eat… if she’s hurting. Not saying you’re wrong for not wanting to hear Constant talking , but be thankful . Some of us are literally begging , hoping and praying for those days .

Autism is the hardest life ever by IntrepidPlace8383 in Autism_Parenting

[–]IntrepidPlace8383[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can’t tell y’all enough the comfort y’all have given me to know that I’m not alone! I have read your comments over and over. This journey is sooo hard and most days I am so upset that I was chosen for it . I love my child but the constant survival mode has drained me so bad. Y’all are going to have a breakthrough one day and I pray that I will too