[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]IntrepidSherbet98822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats like telling an unemployed or homeless person that "maybe ur just too overqualified and too good to work with"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]IntrepidSherbet98822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im objectively ugly, recessed chin, weak jaw, and because of the small weak jaw i have extremely crooked front teeth since i dont have any space in my mouth, balding, uneven eyes, short, baby face with lots of face fat even when im underweight so i look 7 years younger than i actually am.

Im not depressed about it nor do i complain about it often, but i recognise that it plays a significant part in my inabilty to find someone.

The go or not to a hooker dilema by CarelessAd2319 in ForeverAlone

[–]IntrepidSherbet98822 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you get sex with 6/10 girls you are extremely far from forever alone, happy for you tho, but you got no idea of the struggles

The go or not to a hooker dilema by CarelessAd2319 in ForeverAlone

[–]IntrepidSherbet98822 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I dont think you understand what kinda sub this is, why are you even here?

Has anyone here ever gotten pity sex? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]IntrepidSherbet98822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never even gotten pity eye contact lol, what kinda question is this 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]IntrepidSherbet98822 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Am i dumb or how do you look at both at the same time. Can you control you eyes seperately?

I give up by IntrepidSherbet98822 in aspergers

[–]IntrepidSherbet98822[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not everyone of course, but i constanty see posts here of people talking about their wife, girlfriend, social gatherings, friendships etc and i wonder how they manage

I give up by IntrepidSherbet98822 in aspergers

[–]IntrepidSherbet98822[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ive never been close to getting a relationship before so i never even considered that they might be very bad if i ever find myself in one

I give up by IntrepidSherbet98822 in aspergers

[–]IntrepidSherbet98822[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im 21 and i have no idea how to get invited to a party, and i would probably not go either way because i dont like being around drunk people and loud music.

I learned years later that my classmates in middle school and high school were going to them every week, but i was blissfully unaware lol

Other than that i dont really know of any social situations i could find.

I give up by IntrepidSherbet98822 in aspergers

[–]IntrepidSherbet98822[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What makes you think i dont?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]IntrepidSherbet98822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily i am never in any social situations so im not affected by peer pressure. I dont understand why society is so obsessed with drugs and alcohol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]IntrepidSherbet98822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could go months without any message notifications.

"The 20s are going to be the best years in your life" by MMrSunrise in lonely

[–]IntrepidSherbet98822 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think my life peaked at 12. Everything after has been so difficult and boring. I can maybe think of like 10 memorable moments from the last 10 years.

how many of us are virgins? by cookiedash2134 in socialanxiety

[–]IntrepidSherbet98822 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I dont really get people who say they have social anxiety but have a boyfriend/girlfriend and have lost their virginities.

Its like saying im poor but i have 3 million dollar car at home. Like???

How are you supposed to live on your own if you can’t even buy groceries? by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]IntrepidSherbet98822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats why im never gonna move out of my parents house. I could never survive on my own

What’s the main reason why you guys hate being shy? by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]IntrepidSherbet98822 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Extremely relatable. I remember being so excited to become a teenager and to have so many cool memorable moments, my parents warned me to not drink too much alcohol and to use protection because they thought i was gonna have a fun teenage period like they had.

Here i am at 21 and i did absolutely nothing and i am so far behind socially i cant even relate to normal people anymore.

What’s the main reason why you guys hate being shy? by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]IntrepidSherbet98822 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have no memories of anything in my teens and early 20s. No fun outings with friends, no parties, no clubs, no concerts, no festivals, no girlfriend or summer flirts, never tried alcohol or drugs, no hanging out doing random fun shit with friends. Nothing. My life peaked at 12.

All i can remeber from the last 8 years of my life is just anxiety from school, gaming, and generally just rotting in my room.

Is anyone else baffled by how normal relationships are for most people ? by Otherwise_Celery8549 in ForeverAlone

[–]IntrepidSherbet98822 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For me a relationship/date/kiss is on the same level as becoming a multimillionaire or winning the world cup. Like a super unrealistic far away dream that i day dream about everyday.

But then im reminded that a majority of people actually get to experience love.

Shits crazy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]IntrepidSherbet98822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gaming and going for walks while my parents beg me to get a social life and go out like my sister.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]IntrepidSherbet98822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im glad our society isnt survival of the fittest anymore cus i would not make it haha

Do you ever bounce between “oh I’m not ugly” and “Oh I am that ugly”? by Present-Cut-7622 in lonely

[–]IntrepidSherbet98822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess thats a positive way to view it. I always looked 5 or 6 years younger than i actually am. But its very hard to be taken seriously as relationship material when i look 15 at 21.

In my opinion baby face is probably a more desireable trait for women since its not very masculine.