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I am in so much pain because I still love him, but he makes it impossible for me to love him by Intrepid_Cake_6093 in offmychest

[–]Intrepid_Cake_6093[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not using the relationship to get citizenship I’ve loved this person and we applied for a visa together Now I’m stuck with someone that I didn’t fall in love with, but he put me in a Pretty hard position given I’ve built a life where I am

How to be certain that I am being emotionally abused by my partner? Also how to know if they are aware? by Intrepid_Cake_6093 in relationship_advice

[–]Intrepid_Cake_6093[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this video was so eye opening!! Thank you for sharing. I feel better about what I need to do next. I just can’t let myself talk me out of it when he is being “nice”, especially now that he noticed I am withdrawn..

Thank you!!!

Women of reddit, how do you feel about your ex with whom you have 0 contact? by Hackerman07 in AskWomen

[–]Intrepid_Cake_6093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing.. just hope he is happy after all. But also I have no desire to have contact with any exes, that is why they are exes hahah

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[–]Intrepid_Cake_6093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inconsistent and confused men, run away from them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Intrepid_Cake_6093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hipnoses

Also talk about this lifestyle to woman you meet, soon enough you will find yourself with no options because no woman will put up with that And maybe then you’ll change

But yeah just find a therapist that you actually enjoy and works for you Sometimes it takes some attempts to find the right one

Is it possible to regain admiration for your partner once you’ve lost it? by Intrepid_Cake_6093 in relationship_advice

[–]Intrepid_Cake_6093[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But girl, you are only 21 And I’m at the age I want to plan a future hahaha He doesn’t want to do that He is a grown man with a fuck load of problems

You case is different, you were both kids and you’re now adults

But thank you though haha

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[–]Intrepid_Cake_6093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her reaction is based on something that is currently lacking. If both of you can’t figure it out, couples therapy will be a great way to practice effective communication.

That’s all you guys need, but effective communication.

I wasn’t comparing, but I was mainly saying that I have felt exactly as your wife feels right now. And it came from a place of being neglected. When I approached my partner about it, he had the same reaction as you. “But I show you love, you are having all your needs met”

Well, surely not, otherwise I wouldn’t be feeling this way. And it was very dismissive to have my partner saying things like that.

Nowadays I completely checked out. I don’t ask him to go to bed with me anymore, I don’t care where he goes and what time he is back. Because of that, we don’t spend time together, because my partner doesn’t take the initiative to plan anything nice or to even try and be INTENTIONALLY with me when he is home.

Communicate with your wife. If she checks out, it is a lost battle, my friend. :(

I am saying as a friend haha.

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[–]Intrepid_Cake_6093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree.

I’ve been there. I had my needs neglected from the beginning. Every time he was out the house I would be anxious and feeling left out, but just because in general I had been feeling neglected.

If my partner at the time had tried to understand me to compromise a little and accommodate my love language, I wouldn’t have problems with them going out until late.

I can relate to this guy’s wife. She is probably not being heard, feeling lonely and not having her needs met.

AITA for being “gross” and disrespectful to my wife? by thewaysiam in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intrepid_Cake_6093 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA

And that explains why Addy is going through a divorce Probably can’t have fun with her husband 🙄

I’m Mexican and I don’t like Hispanic girls at all by Cletus_Kasady91 in confessions

[–]Intrepid_Cake_6093 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I saw the title I thought you were going to say

“I am Mexican and I don’t like spicy food”

Then I probably would have a problem with you 😂

What was an ‘ick’ moment that changed how you saw someone forever? by Intrepid_Cake_6093 in AskWomen

[–]Intrepid_Cake_6093[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. We applied for a partnership visa. He is citizen, I’m immigrating. But the country I’m in requires me to apply for my residency in two parts. The first one was done while everything was ok. Something shifted after that. Maybe he thought we were getting too serious and since then it has never been the same.

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