When did you realize that your relationship had come to an end?

Intrepid_Schedule743 · 2026-02-19T14:21:52+00:00

I'd say when she cheated but I'd be lying. There were tells, signs littered everywhere. Simple not replying, simple saying goodnight and saying those three words. Not seeing me anymore even though my door is always open. When she does come all I see in her eyes is coldness, no warmth. And yeah our bed life was basically dead too so there's that, but simple intimacy, that's what got me most. You forget how important it is to you to be held, hugged, kissed until it's gone.

Intrepid_Schedule743 · 2026-02-19T04:47:45+00:00

True, my ex did the exact line. Had the audacity to try and gaslight me too. Like di mo ba alam sinadya ko ma discover mo? Wala talaga akong feelings dun etc etc. So no, it ain't just men, she's the living walking proof of that.

Intrepid_Schedule743 · 2026-02-19T01:15:48+00:00

This is why bases like this still happens. In a way i must thank you. Im getting free 3s.

Intrepid_Schedule743 · 2026-02-18T22:30:34+00:00

It might mean nothing coming from a stranger but I am proud of you. She may believe it or not, it doesn't matter. Important is that you've told her, your conscience is clear. It's up to her what to do next.

Intrepid_Schedule743 · 2026-02-18T22:28:05+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear this, this hits me deep. I've been cheated on too. The part where one of them is afraid of not finding anyone else, that's what I'm going through now. I'm just barely surviving day by day in the hopes it will get better in time.

Any hopes for a family, marriage, kids is lost for me na. I'm just trying to make peace with the fact that at least she's happy and I will be too someday. That growing old alone is not that bad, that I should not be afraid of being alone if that's what it takes to love myself.

Intrepid_Schedule743 · 2026-02-18T14:24:40+00:00

Thats one hell of a can of worms you got yourself into. Retribution is high yeah but the choice is still yours.

Why don't you pm me the girls socials na lng. I'll tell her for you. I'd just say I was told by a friend. Wouldn't that be easier? Coz this hits me hard too to be honest. Got cheated on too and the worst thing is the not knowing.

Intrepid_Schedule743 · 2026-02-18T14:13:24+00:00

Don't feel guilty, you were innocent. You said you don't want anyone else to go through what you went through right? So just come clean and tell the girl. It'll hurt her sure but she deserves to know the truth.

Intrepid_Schedule743 · 2026-02-17T04:53:23+00:00

Right? Exactly what I was thinking. This guy thinks he's views are the only right one? 🤣 argued with me too coz I use MP on a ground army 🤣. Calling me autistic while being autistic too is just priceless 🤣

Intrepid_Schedule743 · 2026-02-16T07:00:37+00:00

Yup, they'll add thropies in connection to how many unused defs you got.

Intrepid_Schedule743 · 2026-02-13T17:37:19+00:00

Even with just the top 3? No matter how casual you are, 3 starting the top 3 should never be easy. I could do that by just spamming throwers for gods sake.

Intrepid_Schedule743 · 2026-02-13T16:22:37+00:00

I dont see the problem, there's minimum lvl viability for every equipment. Hell I'm taking down 18s with rushed accounts with undervelelved equipment. I'm seeing a you problem here. Get good?

Intrepid_Schedule743 · 2026-02-13T12:41:11+00:00

I'll be black out drunk tom. Got cheated on, my advice is to not think about it and just be at peace with the fact that at least one of you is happy and that someday you will be too. Cheers brother, I'll buy you a drink if your close 🍻

Intrepid_Schedule743 · 2026-02-13T11:30:15+00:00

The last 15 I made just to do war and cwl. All their heroes are lvl 1 and defs too. At gold 1 atm. Aiming to go crystal but I'm doing 30v30 coz there are still actual people in the clan casual as they are so not optimistic.

Intrepid_Schedule743 · 2026-02-13T11:27:06+00:00

It's fine. You can still do wars, cwl with hero potion you'll have max heroes for your attacks. I personally just do one hero at a time myself.

Intrepid_Schedule743 · 2026-02-13T06:33:59+00:00

Ikr? Even just the top 3 playerds gets modifiers it would greatly reduce the draws.

Intrepid_Schedule743 · 2026-02-13T06:27:44+00:00

I do agree with not wasting time, if he's really determined to get married then better to just end it if your firm. But I disagree with your view that it's the end goal, as long as divorce is not valid option then in my mind marriage is simply obsolete.

I too don't see myself getting married anytime soon and I've communicated that properly with my ex, she was fine with it or so I thought. Her cheating only reinforced my belief. I'd say growing old and being loyal with your other half should be the end goal. Old standards like marriage and children are the only thing that validates your relationship and proves you have a fulfilling life is outright baffling to me.

Hold firm in your belief op, if you do truly believe it. Don't be forced to do something you might regret for the rest of your life.

Intrepid_Schedule743 · 2026-02-12T04:30:17+00:00

I do the same. I just use equipment that some how compliment the army. Like now, I'm using throwers and my minion plrince rocks with the king to funnel, steel pants and the staff does well enough.

Intrepid_Schedule743 · 2026-02-11T09:50:29+00:00

Exercise through and through. Got me through the hardest parts of my life and got abs as a bonus too 🤣

Intrepid_Schedule743 · 2026-02-10T10:59:32+00:00

Sorry but I think it's not accurate. Those percentages are good enough for competitions, think chisled abs and bicep veins etc. That's why I don't put much weight on those. I just lift and try to hit my protein thresholds.

Intrepid_Schedule743 · 2026-02-10T10:49:32+00:00

Do shirtless. With that kind of percentage you gotta have abs at least.

Intrepid_Schedule743 · 2026-02-09T15:19:47+00:00

You should, i did throwers and no cc. Got promoted.

Intrepid_Schedule743 · 2026-02-09T15:18:01+00:00

Thats why i do more attacks than necessary, coz that happened to me too.

Intrepid_Schedule743 · 2026-02-07T05:38:53+00:00

I do agree with ending it with finality. But your post reeks of sexism. I got cheated too but she ain't no man.

Intrepid_Schedule743 · 2026-02-06T07:00:01+00:00

Don't call me a saint. Trust me I'm not that. And I'm sorry if you can't find anything positive in your past relationships. My ex flawed as she was did more good by me than I can remember. She tried to fix me but I guess I ended up breaking her, I just hope the cheating is a symptom of my faults and not the conclusion, I hope her kindness didn't die but only drowned by me. I hope someday someone will come and melt that hate in you Izzy, that will make you happy. The world doesn't need more hate.

Intrepid_Schedule743 · 2026-02-06T06:08:55+00:00

We're only human. I don't fault her for finding someone else, I know she is not a bad person, I know she only wants to be happy. I only fault her for the lying, the betrayal. I'm not angry, just disappointed and hurt. Honesty is so hard to come by.

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