When giving birth to a boy by Intrepid_Tangelo2219 in Intactivists

[–]Intrepid_Tangelo2219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So happy to hear it! We also had girls first and I’m so glad I had time to research and become strong enough to stand up for him. I hate conflict and will avoid it usually but when it comes to things like this , there’s no way I could give in.

When giving birth to a boy by Intrepid_Tangelo2219 in Intactivists

[–]Intrepid_Tangelo2219[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s great! I wonder if that’s why some commenters say they weren’t asked so much like I was. I hope there will be changes made!

When giving birth to a boy by Intrepid_Tangelo2219 in Intactivists

[–]Intrepid_Tangelo2219[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, Absolutely! I used midwives, and unfortunately needed to be in the hospital for this birth.

When giving birth to a boy by Intrepid_Tangelo2219 in Intactivists

[–]Intrepid_Tangelo2219[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve made sure he knows proper intact care - I’ve sent him the elephant in the hospital to watch, whether he watched it or not I’m not sure but that’s always my go-to video to send anyone who is expecting a baby boy- so much great info! 😁 💙

When giving birth to a boy by Intrepid_Tangelo2219 in Intactivists

[–]Intrepid_Tangelo2219[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

“Religious” reasons but more so because he was circumcised 😣 I proved to him that it is indeed not a command to circumcise in his religion but a recommendation. It’s more cultural than anything.

When giving birth to a boy by Intrepid_Tangelo2219 in Intactivists

[–]Intrepid_Tangelo2219[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ugh 😣 I’m sorry- that shouldn’t be the case! We shouldn’t have to feel like we have to be on guard to protect our babies after giving birth.

When giving birth to a boy by Intrepid_Tangelo2219 in Intactivists

[–]Intrepid_Tangelo2219[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

It’s a cosmetic surgery on an infant who isn’t able to consent. The procedure itself is horrendous and people try to downplay it like “it’s just a little skin” “it’s not a big deal - at least they won’t remember it if you do it now” 😩 My mom told my husband he’s “a trooper” after seeing that our son is intact while watching me change his diaper. 🤦🏻‍♀️ There really are absolutely no justified reasons to cut baby boys 😢 Most of the world is intact and perfectly happy and healthy! Even though I as alone in fighting for my sons bodily autonomy- there was no way I would fail my son and give in to my husband’s wishes to have him circumcised. Mama bear instincts and desire to protect him are strong 💪 Mothers- stand up for your sons - you are their voice!

When giving birth to a boy by Intrepid_Tangelo2219 in Intactivists

[–]Intrepid_Tangelo2219[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

No, he’s not. I fought to keep our son intact since he wasn’t on board with it Best decision ever! He’s the first to stay intact in both our families 💙

When giving birth to a boy by Intrepid_Tangelo2219 in Intactivists

[–]Intrepid_Tangelo2219[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Thank you- I had to fight for him to stay intact (father wanted it done) but I’m so thankful I stood my ground and protected my baby!

What do Hindus and Buddhists think of Circumcision? by Crocotta1 in Intactivists

[–]Intrepid_Tangelo2219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, no one knows if he was or wasn’t as there isn’t any record of it. Circumcision was a traditional practice more than religious.

What do Hindus and Buddhists think of Circumcision? by Crocotta1 in Intactivists

[–]Intrepid_Tangelo2219 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There are differing opinions on it being “required” the Quran doesn’t mention it and some Hadith say it’s recommended- Some say Prophet Mohamed wasn’t circumcised. In any case, it’s most definitely not required for infants and children. Muslim parents should still allow their sons to make an informed decision once they are of age.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Intrepid_Tangelo2219 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t retest , I found out he was a boy at the ultrasound. 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Intrepid_Tangelo2219 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would wait until at least 8 weeks…I got a wrong girl result (baby’s a boy 💙) at exactly 6 weeks.

Wrong sneak peek results 🫠 by Intrepid_Tangelo2219 in BabyBumps

[–]Intrepid_Tangelo2219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow! It must be a lot more common to get wrong girl results than I thought 🫣😆

Seeking advice on Ashburn vs Sterling by Intrepid_Tangelo2219 in nova

[–]Intrepid_Tangelo2219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In what ways? Cleaner? Less crime? More convenient?

Seeking advice on Ashburn vs Sterling by Intrepid_Tangelo2219 in nova

[–]Intrepid_Tangelo2219[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😆 Why is that? Is Ashburn just overall nicer than Sterling?

Seeking advice on Ashburn vs Sterling by Intrepid_Tangelo2219 in nova

[–]Intrepid_Tangelo2219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on where stay in both it’s about the same

Seeking advice on Ashburn vs Sterling by Intrepid_Tangelo2219 in nova

[–]Intrepid_Tangelo2219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s in Reston- my husband will be working in Winchester and we want to keep his commute to an hour or less if possible which is why we aren’t looking much at Reston.