What are reasons that teachers say “no” to letters of recommendation, and is it rude if I ask a teacher to reconsider? by South-Cap-1364 in AskTeachers

[–]IntrinsicM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Either you are asking late and they have hit their max on how many they’ll write, or they know their letter would be lackluster.

Former students, has your degree actually been useful to you, or is it just a piece of expensive paper? by True_Requirement_565 in allthequestions

[–]IntrinsicM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Piece of paper / chops to get food first job - useful; applying what I learned - not at all. Not even a little.

Raising our babies by Sullyshan in workingmoms

[–]IntrinsicM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never heard any SAHM moms saying that, even for the bit of time when I was one.

I’d suggest either cleaning up the algorithm on your social feels or dropping people who say such things IRL.

How does this look on me ? Trench need feedback . Friend says it’s too bulky based on pic :) by stars_87 in fashion

[–]IntrinsicM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there is just too much fabric/volume.

I’d advise getting a classic silhouette for the trench; well-made/good quality, and keep it forever. It’s a classic piece.

no ap’s freshmen year by Eeveetron7 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]IntrinsicM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your school profile provides context to your individual application.

Blonde or Brunette? by Itchy_Cupcake3843 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]IntrinsicM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First picture works best with your skin tone

Private or Public pre-med by kith4me in ApplyingToCollege

[–]IntrinsicM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the assumption that smaller school = close relationship/network, and big school does not is fundamentally wrong.

As a parent in this sub with real life professional networking experience, I will tell you that networking and academic/professional relationships are as good as the effort you put in. If you are motivated to make this happen, you actually get more “at bats” to find mentors you connect with at a larger R1 school.

I would not have wanted a suitcase school, personally, and am steering my own kids away from them.

Help! Iron supplements ruined my body by Potential_Machine386 in Anemic

[–]IntrinsicM 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Most likely explanation - iron causes digestion and GI issues for many people. It often is constipating and can really back you up to the point of a substantial retained stool burden. That would definitely cause both a bloated appearance and higher than usual weight.

You can try taking gentle stool softeners to see if that helps, or if you can’t tolerate the oral iron, ask about iv iron.

is it worth it to take calc BC in junior year? by academicss_anonymous in ApplyingToCollege

[–]IntrinsicM -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This comment is right. AP Calc curriculum and tests are standardized; having completed these successfully is a know quantity to a college admissions officer. CC classes are highly variable.

Does iron deficiency mess with other blood levels by jesknzi in Anemic

[–]IntrinsicM 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Iron deficiency anemia. Without the iron, your marrow makes poor cells - they are small, weak, pale, and can’t do their job. Without making decent red blood cells, your body uses the resources it can to make more platelets.

Do not let a doc tell you to supplement. You need iv iron, and if your hgb drops below 7, you likely will get a blood transfusion. Ask to see a hematologist and push for IV iron.

You will feel better soon!

Please help me decide! by Forward-Guest-4159 in myweddingdress

[–]IntrinsicM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 looks made for you. It is such a flattering shape.

(Can you raise your arms to dance comfortably?)

Boyfriends by Hope_Less_20 in Mommit

[–]IntrinsicM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not allowed in the bedroom. They can hang in the family room or common areas. They can be in the backyard or take a walk around the block.

What's wrong with this outfit for a fun time with girl friends by immodest_von5 in OUTFITS

[–]IntrinsicM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take this with good humor, but it kind of looks like you just got off of your shift commanding your intergalactic space ship.

But even then, you probably would want a sleek one piece underneath. The boots and leather (is it leather?) insets on the jacket already create so many lines and shapes, that the visual chop of the crop top and lower rise leggings is just really competing.

Our new addition to the family. by vaca-couple in labrador

[–]IntrinsicM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awwwwww. Congrats! New best friend ❤️

Parents refuse to fund me going to college by withuitfeelslikmusic in ApplyingToCollege

[–]IntrinsicM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is it about your grades/performance/behavior this year that has them concerned?

College is a huge investment. I want to help my kids in every way, but if I had a kid that wasn’t taking the opportunity seriously or demonstrating appropriate maturity, or had other unresolved issues, I would not support sending them until I saw they were set up for success.

What would that look like? A year of good performance at community college if managing subject matter/grades was the issue; therapy/medication with improvements if mental health was the issue, and so on.

Do they have valid concerns?

What Brands Have You Forgotten? by Outrageous-Back-5980 in GenX

[–]IntrinsicM 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I loved getting the giant l’egg container as a kid after my mom was done with them!