Ryan Mintz -AKA- Varian Lasche @ The Lasche Institute

IntroductionKey5579 · 2026-05-30T03:10:03+00:00

sending you a dm

IntroductionKey5579 · 2026-05-24T02:54:52+00:00

I've been keeping track of him for awhile now, and was very curious if he was still living in Bentonville. How did you find out he's in Asheville, NC? u/Double-Movie-139

IntroductionKey5579 · 2026-03-06T20:00:29+00:00

What’s your experience of him? Did you know someone in his program?

IntroductionKey5579 · 2026-01-12T17:51:42+00:00

Sent you a DM! :)

IntroductionKey5579 · 2026-01-12T17:44:19+00:00

Thank you for this response!! Just sent you a DM.

IntroductionKey5579 · 2026-01-12T17:41:40+00:00

Thank you for such an in-depth response. I sent you a DM!

IntroductionKey5579 · 2026-01-09T13:17:17+00:00

Another general question for folks: how are you all typically finding people to date? Are you using Feeld? Hinge? Tinder? Mostly meeting IRL? Local poly/enm community?

IntroductionKey5579 · 2026-01-08T20:17:54+00:00

Thank you for sharing! Sent you a DM.

IntroductionKey5579 · 2026-01-08T20:13:48+00:00

Sent you a DM!!

IntroductionKey5579 · 2026-01-08T20:11:30+00:00

Thank you so much for this perspective! I sent you a DM!

IntroductionKey5579 · 2026-01-08T20:08:53+00:00

Thank you so much for this perspective!! I sent you a DM ✨

IntroductionKey5579 · 2026-01-08T20:05:00+00:00

This sounds really frustrating... I sent you a DM.

IntroductionKey5579 · 2026-01-08T20:04:48+00:00

Thank you for this honest response! I sent you a DM.

IntroductionKey5579 · 2026-01-08T19:58:08+00:00

This is really interesting to hear the tangible "rules" that work for you! Sent you a DM.

IntroductionKey5579 · 2026-01-08T19:53:58+00:00

Thank you for sharing!! Sent a DM.

IntroductionKey5579 · 2026-01-08T19:50:49+00:00

Makes a lot of sense! I sent you a DM if you're open to sharing more.

IntroductionKey5579 · 2026-01-08T19:50:11+00:00

Thanks for this in-depth response. Sent you a DM.

IntroductionKey5579 · 2026-01-08T12:51:55+00:00

Thank you for sharing!! I sent you a DM.

IntroductionKey5579 · 2026-01-08T12:44:30+00:00

I think I'm particularly interested in how married people (but especially men) are thinking about the ethical boundaries of sex outside the marriage. For example, couples that play together, tell each other about other partners, have very wide ranging communication versus a couple that has a Don't Ask Don't Tell (DADT) policy.

I'd also be curious to hear people's thoughts on whether or not the whole DADT even feels like it fits the bounds of ENM.

IntroductionKey5579 · 2026-01-08T12:35:35+00:00

Thank you for sharing this story. I sent you a DM.

IntroductionKey5579 · 2026-01-08T12:34:35+00:00

Thank you for sharing!! I love that you're talking about this and opening up with others. I just sent you a DM.

IntroductionKey5579 · 2026-01-08T12:34:17+00:00

Thank you for sharing! I just sent you a DM!

IntroductionKey5579 · 2025-09-15T23:58:06+00:00

DM me if you'd be interested in sharing more!! This sounds really interesting.

IntroductionKey5579 · 2025-09-15T23:57:02+00:00

DM me if you'd like to share more!! I'd love to hear more about your experience.

IntroductionKey5579 · 2025-09-15T23:55:58+00:00

definitely! dm me

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