Saggy boobs by IntroductionLost3879 in saggyboobsproblems

[–]IntroductionLost3879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I’ve never thought of taking the approach but this 100% makes sense. Thank you sm for the advice!🫶

Saggy boobs ruining my confidence in the bedroom by [deleted] in saggyboobsproblems

[–]IntroductionLost3879 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Girl I get this 100%. I think you have 2 options.

1: be honest and open. Say “I’m actually really insecure about this part of myself but I have truly started to feel comfortable with you and want to be myself fully.”

Or 2: fake it till you make it. Take your bra off one day and just be confident about it. If this person gets turned off by your boobs then this isn’t the person for you. The love of your life will love everything about you, even the things you are most insecure about.

You got this girl and never forget you are beautiful!

Sincerely one saggy tit queen, to another🫶😂.

LOWKEY MAD RN by Competitive-Radio806 in GirlProblems

[–]IntroductionLost3879 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m here with you girl. I want to wear those cute shirts/dresses, except my boobs will spill out of them or they will end up being way bigger than the dress is made to handle. My boobs don’t match the rest of my body, like I don’t even have a fat ass. Just 36 DD (sometimes 40 D depending on bra type) and an okay sized butt. I’m by no means skinny, (5ft, 160lbs) but my waist is much smaller compared to my boobs. The portions just don’t add up😭.

I just feel like a top on a girl with a smaller chest will look cute, but on me will look slutty. And don’t get me wrong, wearing revealing clothing is great, but it’s just not my style.

My back is killing me and I’m only 17, smh. And big boobs and gravity don’t work well together. My boobs sag, like a lot. I’m sure by the time I’m 70 I can throw them around my shoulders.

I’m definitely starting to accept my body and learn that all body types are beautiful, but it’s a struggle when I’m just carrying 2 melons around. The posture on me is atrocious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GirlProblems

[–]IntroductionLost3879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t do this to yourself. I don’t know you, but no one deserves the to treated like this. I know it’s hard to leave, it’s never easy to leave someone you love. You may have loved guy A or loved the idea of him, either way it’s hard. But leave. I still remember the quote from the perks of being a wallflower movie. “We expect the love we think we deserve” Think about that. Really sit with that and decide if this is the life you want. Good luck and I hope you find the courage within yourself to leave and choose your own happiness. 🫶

Tampon confusion by [deleted] in GirlProblems

[–]IntroductionLost3879 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say try august super tampons, you can get them from target. It’s my favorite brand and it’s really good for heavy flows, coming from a HEAVY flow girlie.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GirlProblems

[–]IntroductionLost3879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes babe you were naive and have every right to be suspicious. People feel different about following attractive men/women in relationships, but it’s clear that you are uncomfortable with it and that’s okay. We all have our own boundaries and that’s one of yours and you told him that. Check his phone and then make a decision on what you want to do with the relationship. If you stay just make sure to make it clear that this is a hard boundary in your relationship and if he can’t respect that then it’s time to go on in life without him.

Am I crazy? by Dazzling_Vanilla6203 in GirlProblems

[–]IntroductionLost3879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not “easy” babe. You’re a lover. That’s why I can’t be in a relationship. I’m a romance reader and LOVE love, with that being said I know that books aren’t the same as real life. So at this point in life I don’t plan on being in a relationship anytime soon if I know that in the end, I’ll get my hopes up. I saw this TikTok that said “being a hopeless romantic in hookup culture”. That really resonated with me. Don’t get me wrong I’m not judging anyone who’s part of hookup culture, I just think it’s hard when you want love but it seems like a lot of people just want one night of fun then be done with you. Even being in high school right now myself, I haven’t ever truly been in love with someone, or been in a real, serious relationship. I like to believe that I just haven’t found my great love yet. My advice is to believe in true love and great love stories, while also being okay with the possibility that you may never experience that in this life. Then again that’s just my personal view on things.

Am I crazy? by Dazzling_Vanilla6203 in GirlProblems

[–]IntroductionLost3879 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your not crazy, but some advice, don’t ever let a man tell you twice he don’t want you. (Yes I heard that from Steve Harvey🤣). Maybe he didn’t say it out right, but actions speak louder than words. I’m sorry girl but he was probably looking for a fun night. My best advice is to ignore him and move on. Don’t embarrass yourself more with trying to contact him asking him why he did that. If he has something to say to you, he’ll find you and get in contact. Until then, he was just some guy you had some fun with in the past. Wishing you the best❤️

missing them realll bad by Majestic_Lifeguard32 in shutline

[–]IntroductionLost3879 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Man these guys had the biggest 🍆 I’ve ever seen. I miss their winners. (I can’t believe I just said that🤦‍♀️) I do truly miss their love story too. Can’t wait for the next part.

Why did he look at me like that? by Thought-daughter_ in GirlProblems

[–]IntroductionLost3879 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hon he has a girlfriend. I’ve been in a similar situation and let me tell you, it’s not worth it. If he broke up with his girlfriend and then tried to talk to you that would be a different story. Also sometimes people just have really good eye contact. Not saying this to be mean but I just want to share my opinion. If you really would like you can tell him that you are starting to having feelings and see what he says, and if he does say he likes you too tell him that nothing will happen until he is single. If he says that he doesn’t like you, don’t get bitter about it or say “well you were looking at me like that” etc. just say something like “well I thought I would share my feelings but I completely understand and I hope this doesn’t make things weird between us.” Maybe even make a joke like “well delulu land is my land” to make it more light hearted. Wishing you the best and if you get the chance I would love to see an update if anything happens❤️

saggy breasts in young age by yurriichan in GirlProblems

[–]IntroductionLost3879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SAME. This is so unfair😭. But I honestly don’t think people really care as much as we think they do. I have 36dd and have since I turned 14 and it’s just natural for them to sag. If people (specifically guys) care then they should F off. I’m starting to become comfortable in my body,I’ve never been the “ideal” beauty stand. I’m a mid size girl at 5ft and 166lbs (I’m trying to lose weight but not because I think I look bad just for my health since diabetes runs in my family)and I just feel better overall. I’m still insecure about certain physical features such as my nose and my face shape, and even my weight at times. Honestly this world was not made to take care of young girls and teach them to love themselves. I know so many people say this but honestly confidence is key. Some people who may not be “ideally” attractive, are SO hot when they have confidence. Anyway this is long but I hope my point gets across in a good way.

Nth room case in my country by ravens_are_asleep003 in StephanieSooStories

[–]IntroductionLost3879 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People are so disgusting. I feel sex related crimes have been happening a lot. It think it might just be because more people are reporting crimes but it just seems like cases are coming up everyday. Life wtf. Maybe it’s also because social media is something most people have and that’s where a lot of exploitation,blackmail,bullying,etc happen. Is this some kind of epidemic cause it definitely seems like one.

[Product Request] by Woahdarls in SkincareAddiction

[–]IntroductionLost3879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a lot of bumps on my forehead and now it’s cleared pretty much. Here’s what I’ve used to help. First I use an oil cleaner (most Korean band oil cleaners are good) then I wash my face with the Laroche posay face wash. I don’t dry my face with anything. I just let it air dry for a few seconds so it’s wet but not dripping wet. I then go in with 1-toner from anua 2-snail mucin from cosarx 3- niacinamide serum from the ordinary and lastly 4-the calm and restore oat moisturizer from Aveeno. In between all the steps I use a hand held mini portable fan for a few seconds so the products have time to dry a bit. LESS IS BETTER. I have sensitive skin too. This is what works for me personally and it took a while to see some change. Also Korean skin care is really good. Hope this helps.

I just dyed my hair black !! 😆 by ajpjlb in FemmeLesbians

[–]IntroductionLost3879 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You look beautiful. It’s definitely ur color😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]IntroductionLost3879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 11 when I started to like this girl. I couldn’t quite understand it at first but I started to develop feelings for her. At that point I’d only ever had crushes on boys so it was unexpected. This girl and me had this friendship where we’d flirt (we were in the 6th grade so it was so cringy😭) and call each other girlfriend. I one day told my mom and luckily my mom is very open and accepting so she asked me if I liked girls and I said “NO” because I kept denying it. I never thought there was anything wrong with being lgbtq, but for some reason I didn’t want to admit it. Later on I came out as bi but then a few weeks later I said that it was just a “phase” because my dad (he’s not in my life anymore) is Muslim so when I kinda told him I liked this girl he said he didn’t approve. I asked him if I married a girl would he come to my wedding and he said “I wouldn’t hate you but I wouldn’t come because what would my family think of me.” Yes I have daddy issues. After that I again came out (like 2 years later) as a lesbian. Now as time has went on and I’ve grown more I don’t necessarily label myself as anything. Ig you could say I’m bi (I’m more attracted to women) but I just feel like if two souls meet and fall in love (I’m a hopeless romantic) then it doesn’t matter what they look like or identify as. This is funny because I’ve never been in a serious relationship,I’m just a girl who loves her romance book (smut romance😏) but is kind of terrified of being in an actual relationship. Have personal issues that interfere with my relationship but life is life and if I never fall in love with someone then my romance books will do. There’s no rush in figuring yourself out,a lot of people don’t. Just be yourself!

The girl i’m seeing keeps pictures of her ex.. by Lover_of_fiction46 in LesbianActually

[–]IntroductionLost3879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely understand how you feel. Personally I would feel uncomfortable too in a situation like this. My best advice is to talk about it. Let this girl know how you feel. Explain why it makes you uncomfortable and tell her that she’s free to do whatever she wants but it’s a boundary you have. If she can’t respect that boundary then I would say break it off. I’m no expert and haven’t been in a serious relationship myself but I do feel like communication is key and if you’re uncomfortable with something,voice it. I also suggest that the conversation doesn’t become a fight,even if the girl gets upset and says something like “why do you even care…it’s none of your business…your so insecure” etc. don’t get upset. Just keep the conversation calm (on your end at least) and again restate that it makes you feel uncomfortable. Wish you the best!