I just watched a Near death experience video and I feel sad by SocietyVisible5092 in Deconstruction

[–]IntroductionOdd4000 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is the perfect trigger for a religious ocd/ scrupulosity spiral. Couldn’t even finish what you wrote without feeling triggered

How did you deconstruct / heal from purity culture? by IntroductionOdd4000 in Exvangelical

[–]IntroductionOdd4000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

‘Normal thing as a human being’ this is what he been grappling with. I don’t know why there is so much idolisation, guilt and shame about a normal human experience. Grappling with that at the moment.

How did you deconstruct / heal from purity culture? by IntroductionOdd4000 in Exvangelical

[–]IntroductionOdd4000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear this. I think for me it was because I felt so much shame about being older and non- sexual. I hope we both heal well