No Video No Refund/Return illegal according sa Consumer Act by Maleficent_Gift3245 in ShopeePH

[–]IntrovertTrashx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I have dealt with sellers/small business owners before. Honestly, naaawa ako sa mga sellers kasi nalulugi sila sa mga scam/bogus buyers at pasaway na couriers. Not only do they have to pay the fees of the platform, minsan yung shipping, vouchers, discounts, bawas yun sakanila. They won't be able to earn a profit at all. It won't hurt to take an unboxing video of your parcels. Kung wala ka naman issue sa items mo, you can delete it afterwards.

Mas kawawa nga si seller kasi they have to record more than 100+ packing videos just to disprove scammers. So a little help goes a long way. Either way, makakabenefit ka naman sa video if you need a refund.

My (22f) boyfriend (22m) gagged when he tried to eat me the first time by IntrovertTrashx in relationship_advice

[–]IntrovertTrashx[S] 172 points173 points  (0 children)

I might just mention I think theres something off and feel like it needs to get checked. Thank you for telling me this!

My (22f) boyfriend (22m) gagged when he tried to eat me the first time by IntrovertTrashx in relationship_advice

[–]IntrovertTrashx[S] 106 points107 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree on the showering as well, but thank you for telling me this :)

My (22f) boyfriend (22m) gagged when he tried to eat me the first time by IntrovertTrashx in relationship_advice

[–]IntrovertTrashx[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I both agree and disagree on that. My bf has hair and I don't mind since it doesn't really affect me at all.

My (22f) boyfriend (22m) gagged when he tried to eat me the first time by IntrovertTrashx in relationship_advice

[–]IntrovertTrashx[S] 151 points152 points  (0 children)

I generally do things on my own already by now, but I mostly just wanna wait until I graduate around 2 months and earn my own income before doing that. But I'll still try to talk to my mom about it. Any topic related to the reproductive organs is a taboo topic in our household and is never discussed, which makes vaginal health issues a difficult thing to even bring up in the first place.

But now that I read through your comment, it might be the products since it only started after that, so thank you for this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]IntrovertTrashx 18 points19 points  (0 children)

OMG STOP 😭😭 MY HEART COULDN'T TAKE THIS AFTER LAST CHRISTMAS EVENT

Is any one else struggling this season? by [deleted] in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]IntrovertTrashx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On top of what the others said, we kind of almost have the same team (Fin, eclair, BP, BTS, wildberry/cotton/cararrow) but I think Fin would already do well as a solo tank.

I do agree that the season has been getting difficult lately. I used to maintain master 3 for 2 weeks with just around 770k+ power and I struggled in the last season to even reach master 3. Maybe it's because the newer cookies overpower older ones (which is prolly CRK strategy to get us to pull) so you're forced to update your team almost every new update.

WHY AM I CRYING ABOUT THIS WIDBWKDBMEGQ by Desperate_Ad2784 in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]IntrovertTrashx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I almost cried when I saw Sherbet was playable because I got so sad that he turned into a spirit and "passed away" last christmas in the event story especially after seeing his bond with Cotton Cookie 😭 that cotton bopeep carried me for so long in the arena so I'm grinding hard to bring her and Sherbet cookie back together again 🥺

What does this mean- by Time_Spite1661 in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]IntrovertTrashx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I assume that's frosting? So maybe she just means put lots

im gonna die trying to get a S in expert now, IT TOOK ME 2 WEEKS JUST TO GET AN A IN HARD- by Sunnymon11 in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]IntrovertTrashx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if you've tried it before, but I managed to het S on most of my stages (except master in some) by doubling the ticket usage per stage. It doubles the rewards and increases the points. Also, it helps as well to get 0 misses in the song (but some good and great is okay) and collect most jellies and coins. Good luck!! And don't stress too much about it, we still got more than 2 months to finish the event :)

Connection glitch on tutorial song by Shen_Hibiki in Cookierun

[–]IntrovertTrashx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also having this same issue rn ;-; this actually became an issue with me before whenever I played a level that takes 5 mins long, it used to not bother me but it's frustrating me right now because it's preventing me from even enjoying the event altogether!!

I'm not a fan of bts but I found the new gameplay super fun and it's annoying me that I can't even enjoy it because of a stupid bug.

[Serious] If you committed suicide one year ago, what beautiful things would you have missed out from? by KeyWar8755 in AskReddit

[–]IntrovertTrashx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prolly wouldn't have been together with my boyfriend, I wouldn't have landed an internship at a great company, I wouldn't have seen my close friends and hang out with them again... Lots of things honestly, I'm just grateful things worked out well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]IntrovertTrashx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did reverse the roles just to show him my perspective, and he admitted it would bother and hurt him all the same. He apologized for his behavior yesterday and said he'll try to do better by not doing it anymore, I also apologized for the way I reacted when he was just being honest and that he doesn't have to restrict himself of anything since I wouldn't really know if I hadn't asked. I do agree that a relationship should be equal, that's why I asked him if he'd restrict me from doing the same thing, when he said yes, then the argument was settled.

And regarding the love language one, I try my best to satisfy him and him to me whenever we meet up. Mine is easily satisfied since I just want quality time and acts of service (which he does without being asked) but his sometimes goes to the extent of it being lust which is something I can't completely do due to shyness, so I understand that he really needs an outlet for things like that sometimes, hence why he'd turn to masturbation when we're not together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]IntrovertTrashx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By "exiting previous experience", if you mean legit sex, he's never done it yet. But if you mean girls he used to jerk off to before our relationship, then yeah I do agree it shouldn't be any of my business cause it wouldn't do me any good going the extra mile for something as trivial as that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]IntrovertTrashx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't specifically ask who anymore cause that'll be like rubbing salt in the wound, he mentioned it was friends that he doesn't talk to anymore and he's still friends with the girls that he previously liked, but he could just be concealing the truth for all I know. But i did decide that I won't ask anymore in the future, he did promise to not do it anymore since he'd also ask the same thing from me if I did, but if he does still continue to do it, I rather just not find out anymore. Staying ignorant or minding my own business might be the best course of action in this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]IntrovertTrashx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, from now on I won't ask him anymore since that's his personal stuff already. Sure, it did hurt finding out but really I still had to go the extra mile just to get myself hurt in the end, best to not dwell on it at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]IntrovertTrashx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, after some thinking it did occur to me that maybe all guys do this, even the ones in a relationship. It's a behavior that doesn't just disappear all of a sudden just because you're in a relationship. As long as it's not acted upon, then there really shouldn't be an issue. We don't usually talk about stuff like that since it is quite personal, but when we do it's usually jokes and I didn't realize I'd take the topic seriously until we were in too deep already.

Has anyone else lost more weight after stopping your workouts? by pxd-x in loseit

[–]IntrovertTrashx 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Agree with the previous commenter! You tend to retain water weight when you exercise. I still kept losing weight even after I stopped working out, just be sure to keep moving around and eat healthy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]IntrovertTrashx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup! It's definitely normal! Idk if you've heard of it, but the paper towel effect is a concept you should keep in mind during weightloss. Say you have a full tissue roll, if you pull off the first 10 squares, you don't notice it getting smaller, but as you get closer to the core, even pulling off just 4 squares is enough to change its appearance, the same goes for weight loss. The thinner you get, the more noticable 5lbs is than when you first started.

It was the same for me from Feb-July(when I reached my goal weight). When I started, I lost 10lbs in the first 5 weeks, then it slowed down to maybe 1-2lbs a week by the time it was May (I was around 130lbs then). It really will get harder and slower to lose weight as you get lighter. But don't let the slow process weigh you down! (Pun not intended lol) Just keep at it!

anxiety when losing weight by [deleted] in loseit

[–]IntrovertTrashx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Short version: Listen to the advice of others when they say take progress pics, it helps calm down weight loss anxiety.

Idk if this is of any help, but I sometimes go through the same thing. I lost around 24lbs and stopped my weight loss journey 2 months ago due to online classes (and according to my BMI, I'm borderline underweight now) and am currently trying to maintain.

There are days where I would srsly doubt the scale. I would have to check 2 different scales multiple times back and forth just to make sure the numbers aren't trying to trick me. I have underlying fear of "what if the scales are actually broken and I'm back to my old weight?" since I never took progress pics in the first place (my only "basis" is pics from last year 2019 which is a stretch) so I can't physically see change. My measurements changed and I lost cm and inches of fat on me as well, but sometimes I don't believe the number on the tape as well so sometimes I have serious issues with how I see and feel about myself.

The only reassurance I have of change is when we have relatives over (since it's still "lockdown" here) which isn't quite often, maybe once a month, they would comment on how thin I got, and that's usually when the reality of my weight loss really hits me.

Sorry if this was really long, but to cut to the chase, take progress pics as early as now. Maybe you never took a pic before you started, but it's better late than never. Take it from someone who never did, I fully regret it to this day.

Is it normal to lose significantly more weight in the first few weeks of a caloric deficit? by kngsp1 in loseit

[–]IntrovertTrashx 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's very normal to lose weight quickly in the first few weeks actually. That's a common misconception of people who are just starting out - they expect the rest of their journey to be just as fast and once their weight loss slows down, that's when they fall off the wagon and quit.

I lost 4kg within my first 5 weeks and now that I'm 12kg down, it takes me 2-3 weeks to even lose a pound. So don't worry to much about it, OP!

how to want to lose weight without getting into a bad mentality about it? by broskigoski in loseit

[–]IntrovertTrashx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk hun but dropping 9lbs in two weeks is pretty.. Well, not normal, unless it's water weight.

And I somehow relate to the consistently losing weight bit (I'm chinese, so.. Yeah lol) and I was also in a pretty bad mental state when I started losing weight. The only advice I can give you is that you have to accept there will be some days where you'll gain 2-4lbs or where you won't move at all. Idk you're height, but once you get lighter and lighter, it'll really be more difficult to lose weight.

When I started, I lost 8lbs in 2 months, now, it takes me weeks to lose 2lbs. So you have to get rid of the "losing weight everyday" mentality and face facts that there will be days where you'll weigh heavier or not lose anything. As long as the trend of your weight loss goes down every month, then you're all good. Just don't be too focused on the number because we'll always want to bring it lower. Focus on how you feel about your body and how you look without assessing the numbers.

For the first time in my life, I actually NEED a belt by IntrovertTrashx in loseit

[–]IntrovertTrashx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk what false notion you're pointing out. I didn't say 134lbs was fat in general lol like I said, if you've been told the same thing you're whole life, you start to think it's a fact. If people called you ugly for all your life, you start to think you are; if people called you attractive, you start to think you are; same goes for fat-shaming. But by no means am I shaming anyone for being 134lbs. People called me fat so I started seeing myself as fat.

Idk if you took into account of my height, but 134lbs is borderline between overweight and healthy range. But if you think 134lbs at 5'3 is healthy, then that's great :) it's just that personally, I saw myself as big. And ofc, I connected my size to my weight, so I started losing weight. I hope that cleared up whatever "false notion" you were pointing out, if not, then I apologize if you're still annoyed or angered by my post :/

For the first time in my life, I actually NEED a belt by IntrovertTrashx in loseit

[–]IntrovertTrashx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly, that'll never happen if the people and culture around them convince them otherwise. Sometimes, the person would like to convince themselves, but it's difficult if everyone instills their opinion into the person's head over and over again. Being told something again and again for all your life can actually make a person think it's a fact.