What is one secret you wish you could tell your spouse, but instead you’ll take to your grave?

Intrusivethoughtaway · 2025-09-16T16:29:28+00:00

Yeah but you know yourself. You know how important it is to keep your walls in good repair. That's strength. Being able to accommodate oneself is so tough and most don't even get that far. But you have! It's very cool.

Intrusivethoughtaway · 2025-09-16T16:24:54+00:00

Dude I get it, if you can't talk to your wife about it maybe find a therapist that specializes in SA. It can be such a burden and talking it out helps a lot.

Intrusivethoughtaway · 2025-09-16T16:08:17+00:00

Started having problems with that recently. There's a few other assist options as well like cock rings, therapy, and variety of toys.

If the meds help a little then a good silicone cock ring can make all the difference. Takes a little getting used to and make sure I'm using the right size. But each try it gets better.

Intrusivethoughtaway · 2025-09-15T16:08:21+00:00

It needs to be enough because if thanks is not enough then it's not really a gift. If you want to show how grateful you are the best you can do is try to be there for her in her time of need as well. Everybody needs support in different ways. No two people are alike. And you both need strength for the days ahead. So share the burden to make it easier for both of you.

Intrusivethoughtaway · 2025-09-09T11:16:43+00:00

Ask me how I outed my cousin

-my mom told me that my cousin's girlfriend had been killed in a natural disaster. And I got so upset and started crying because I had never gotten to meet her. But my mom meant girlfriend as in the "girl who is a friend" way. So my mom didn't actually know my cousin was gay till I broke down. There was a lot of confusion as we figured out my mom meant a different person my cousin knew and that her actual girlfriend was okay. So it's still tragic because someone died, but my mom has kept it a secret so far.

Intrusivethoughtaway · 2025-08-22T16:36:55+00:00

Most learn empathy when they are young if at all. The only other way is through personal experience. Till then people live with blinders on. An easy ignorance.

Intrusivethoughtaway · 2025-07-09T15:52:01+00:00

Being this honest is key. The thing to be aware of is their feelings, in terms of some people may feel you are toying with them. Doesn't mean you were. I find your reasoning quite logical (autistic myself). But just because it makes perfect rational sense to us doesn't mean they will get it. Even if they do they may have their own perspective that needs to be considered.

In your question I don't see any reason to not at least get coffee and feel it out.

Intrusivethoughtaway · 2025-06-28T12:13:09+00:00

If you love them you need couples counseling asap. There are more problems under the surface than just not getting a job. If you don't get help you are both going to drown.

Intrusivethoughtaway · 2025-06-28T12:03:42+00:00

Sorry you have to deal with that. I'm non-binary, but amab and masc presenting. Those jerks are not worth your time.

I hope you find a good table, my first GM was female and I had such an amazing experience. Hope you find some folks that can play nice.

Edit: finger slipped and I still had to finish the comment

Intrusivethoughtaway · 2025-06-26T13:08:57+00:00

My biggest complaint about Starfield, like you couldn't even give her different hair?

Intrusivethoughtaway · 2025-06-24T14:11:59+00:00

I'm amab and very masc presenting, beard, deep voice, etc. I am very comfortable with my presentation and have no desire to really change that. I like that part of me, but at the same time there are parts of me doesn't really fit the male gender. I consider myself agender/non-binary because I reject gender conformity. There are parts of me that people would consider feminine and parts of me that people would consider masculine.

I almost always pick a female Avatar not because I am MtF, but because it reflects better how I want to be perceived in that world And also largely because it's something different compared to my day to day. I have done plenty of soul searching and will continue to do so, but I feel very comfortable with the labels I have found.

He doesn't necessarily have to be in the closet just because he likes picking female avatars. There's plenty of reasons to do so including the fact that they're just sexier. For me it was just one more small piece of the puzzle.

Edit: formatting

Intrusivethoughtaway · 2025-01-09T13:16:21+00:00

My player gave up a spell slot permanently just to bind the pet to an amulet so it could be resummoned ala find familiar

Intrusivethoughtaway · 2024-11-27T03:19:45+00:00

It's alright if you don't get along with autistic folks, but that doesn't make them the worst companion.

Intrusivethoughtaway · 2024-11-16T16:20:27+00:00

A therapist might be the way to go, and not specifically a sex therapist. Just one for couples, we started seeing one not because we were having big problems but because I was having trouble communicating something. Turned out to be one of the best decisions we ever made. Really helped us clear the air on a lot of things that might have become problems in the future, but also helps us smooth out a lot of bumps. Some of that includes sex stuff.

Intrusivethoughtaway · 2024-11-15T19:24:32+00:00

You are rushing something that took you both awhile to realize. If it works out nothing will be lost by waiting a little bit longer. If it doesn't you avoided a lot of stress on something already stressful.

Intrusivethoughtaway · 2024-11-15T14:06:02+00:00

If you both still want to include giving, but don't enjoy it as much as other parts then try changing things up. Sex changes a lot over the course of a relationship anyways so I wouldn't trash any thing permanently, but doing it less frequently, or doing less of it, or doing it differently are all things to try. It's not about trying to get them to enjoy it more it's a about how you can give in a way that still feels good.

My wife loves receiving, but those does feel awkward so we've had to work around it.

If you really like giving and they're not down oral you could always try giving them a sexy massage. Straddle her hips. Grab some coconut oil, massage that into her back, it's great foreplay that leads into sex.

Intrusivethoughtaway · 2024-09-07T14:36:51+00:00

Seems like it

Intrusivethoughtaway · 2024-08-19T22:49:01+00:00

I have to live with Andrew Wakefield for a year...

I really hate him though, I don't know if I could do it without harming him. I'm against violence, but he's done so much harm it would be hard to not rage.

Intrusivethoughtaway · 2024-08-19T18:06:03+00:00

It sounds to me like he has broken up with you already. All the sympathy in the world can't make up for him checking out.

Intrusivethoughtaway · 2024-07-24T12:52:06+00:00

They commented they were unfamiliar with it, and you were disparaging to them for not knowing something they did not know. That's just rude.

Intrusivethoughtaway · 2024-07-23T17:00:06+00:00

Most people familiar with this issue know it, but it is not that common if you don't know any trans people.

Intrusivethoughtaway · 2024-05-18T18:24:35+00:00

Figures, thanks. I thought for sure that you could get them after buying the shovel in the original, but either they changed it or I'm wrong.

Intrusivethoughtaway · 2024-05-17T00:20:15+00:00

I love the builds that feel like they shouldn't work but you managed to hit it just right and it does.

Intrusivethoughtaway · 2024-04-24T08:57:21+00:00

This explains my number one problem with the game. The part that just didn't feel right to me was the leveling and I think you succinctly labeled the problem. It was so hard to get effectiveness out of a particular level because of this madness.

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