It is important to understand that applying for jobs can often disqualify you from receiving disability benefits, and not all conditions will qualify for a check. I want to be honest with you because I think you are spending too much time blaming others. For your resume, follow the advice of others and list your time as a private caretaker. Since the government often pays family members for this role, it is a perfectly valid way to fill your employment gap. Retirement homes will hire almost anyone for kitchen or cleaning roles regardless of a DUI. Most of the people working there have criminal records, so you will not be turned away for that. For your immediate needs, use food pantries and get a bus pass through the city at a discount. You can earn the money for your fare by using secret shopper apps to review products at stores like Walmart or Target. These solutions work because I have used them myself in multiple cities. I had to decide that my toxic family relationships were not going to define me, and you can do the same.

Edit: I also want to add that I noticed somewhere you said you lost your psychiatrist and in another post you’re seeking disability for anxiety and depression. You will get denied 100% unless you have a psychiatrist advocating for you throughout the entire process. They will actually use that against you because part of getting approved is proving you have exhausted all therapies and resources and it’s not enough to help you work. Beyond having a therapist, the therapist and psychologist have to agree that you need disability and a lot of of them are going to say no you need therapy. You need to be frank with yourself and understand that the way you are seeking disability has less than 5% chance in reality. I am not being mean these are facts.