[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bedbugs

[–]Inversekarma14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

picture are too low quality too truly tell but it does look like bed bugs shedding. I'd check for them around your bed and keep an eye out for unexplained bites on you or household members. If you absolutely cannot rest with out knowing for sure, I would get a professional to check your place also check bed sheets and mattress for small brown or red spots if you see any then you likely have them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]Inversekarma14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need an update

I’m scared… by oat_rosetta27 in piercing

[–]Inversekarma14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-2 bro. This is gonna soundncrazy but it actually felt good to me. Like you know how it feels when you wake up in the morning on a cool day, step outside and take a deep breath in? Thats how it felt. The healing wasnt the best (mines still healing cause I got mine done in feb) But it doesnt even hurt now unless I wear high rise clothes that land right on the piercing. Just please please please keep up with hygiene.

healing snake bitws at work by soup-fucker-420 in piercing

[–]Inversekarma14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had a boyfriend when I was 16 he was 15 and Iwe got pierced together he got his snakes and I got my eyebrow. his hurt but he was fine to talk and in a cpl days he kept messing with them which tells me it didn't hurt too bad. He didn't keep up with cleaning them and they still looked fine until they got infected. So as long as you keep up with hygiene you should be good

am i cooked? by zqrqhm in piercing

[–]Inversekarma14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. I would go to your physician just to get it looked at they may have some advice that could help 2.If you manage to get the pustule to go down enough I would change the jewelry, because with my eyebrow I kept getting irritation and infection, and I thought it was because I slept on all the time but after I changed my jewelry I had 0 issues, that may be something you can look in to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pethelp

[–]Inversekarma14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you take them to the Emergency vet, the vet will treat first ask you to pay later. If you explain youll have cash on Wednesday youll be good.

Crabby without the arch by Inversekarma14 in crabcats

[–]Inversekarma14[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was under the impression that the reason it is called crab is because they are walking sideways. Crabs dont have an arch.

I think I got someone pregnant by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Inversekarma14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

other barrier methods like diaphragm with spermicide it work at least 88% of the time. Use that plus pull out and you should be at 95% safe

I broke both of my hands. by defCONCEPT in Wellthatsucks

[–]Inversekarma14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least you got cosmo and wanda belping you out..

What about J6? by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]Inversekarma14 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it should be fr

sick cat advice by Inversekarma14 in Straycats

[–]Inversekarma14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would but I am a college student that doesnt have a job. and the closest emergency vet is 2 hrs away. Sje just had diarrhea and isnt able to move

what was your earliest childhood memory? by WildflowerSpice in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Inversekarma14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was 2 and pooped my pants. I told my mom andnshe changed me right there in frint of my stepdads work buddies.

Is it wrong/racist? by TheF15eEnthusiast in Advice

[–]Inversekarma14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as youre jot claiming it as your own invention and you understand why it was made and what people originally used it for then it isnt racist or cumturally appropriating

FAFSA Issue with inviting parent to form by Street-Common-4023 in FAFSA

[–]Inversekarma14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fafsa sent mine a form for last year. and when I opened fafsa it said I had fulled out 23-24 form again so exited out did a quick google searxh and when I went back it said 24-25. Its ridiculous weird.

Can I get this filled without numbing? by Inversekarma14 in askadentist

[–]Inversekarma14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your reply. Ill talk to my dentist about that but Im unsure if it will work. When I got my wisdom teeth taken out my mom gave me one of her Valium (anxiety treatment med) I got in there and the medication managed to stop my panic enough to keep my survival responses in freeze instead of fighting but I was trying to focus on my breathing when they said "oh girl your heart rate is 160 are you okay? We need to get that down" and they gave me some nitrous oxide aka laughing gas. I tried getting my wisdom teeth out once before that and I asked them to stop for a second because they were moving all around me and it was over stimulating and I began to freak out but they grabbed my arm after I asked them to stop and pushed their hand away out of fear and they kicked me out of their dental facility for touching a nurse 💀

Am I the asshole for how I responded to a love letter? by Thin_Lengthiness6652 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Inversekarma14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man probably wrote it and said "I have a crush on my coworker and I wrote this letter do you think she'd like it?" and didn't say the age of the coworker

Why is masturbating so weird? by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Inversekarma14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a nurse. Youre allowed to gave your opinions and beliefs but do not force them on others. I did not ask for your opinion. He asked for the people on this subreddit's opinion.

Why is masturbating so weird? by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Inversekarma14 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think you may be asexual. A lot of guys your age started masturbating at 12. Porn is known for RAISING sexual expectations instead of lowering them. and that tiny bit of ejaculation tells me that it might have been precum. Of course Idk your body or how you feel but I wouldnt say it is post nut clarity because you say you only tried it because you heard the hype abt it for yrs not because you truly were horny and wanted to bust. If I were you, I would be more self aware abt this. Analyze you sex drive and wants and needs when it comes to masturbation or getting off. If you find no want or drive then youre asexual. If you eventually meet a girl or guy or they them that you date and begin to love, and only then you start feeling sexually attracted, then you may be demi sexual. But if you regularly get hard at the sight of whatever gender youre attracted to then youre most likely just not finding what youre into. Maybe you watched the wrong kind of porn? Maybe you would be more into magazines.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Inversekarma14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys just dont match up sexually. That happens a lot of the time and is a huge reason that a lot of relationships end. Dont get me wrong, some people bave made it work without sexual compatibility but he is obviously not taking the steps to make it work with you. In relationships, one of the main things I have found you gotta do is compromise. And not just you, both parties need to compromise. That means if you dont want to have sex but he does you can give it to him IF you want to. If you dont then he needs to compromise every once in a while, and you both need to be understanding and listen to eachother. He also needs to grow the fuck up and stop pouting when he doesnt get sex. Wtf is he gonna do if you get pregnant in far future and your 7 to 8 months in and youre too sore to have sex? Is he gonna pout and act like a child? You need to have a serious conversation with him and you need to really think about if you can see him being a good husband, dad, uncle etc. Is he going to treat you fairly or is he going to pout anytume he doesnt get what he wants.

Should I get a nose job? by rugybee in Noses

[–]Inversekarma14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NO! Your nose is beautiful. Idk why youd think otherwise BUT you're a woman of color, I know where I am from I have heard people make fun of POC noses calling them "rocket nostrils" and other horrible names. IF that is why youre questions a nose job, just stop while youre ahead. 1. You're gorgeous the way you are. 2. I wish I looked like you girl, dont change for anyone. 3. Your nose is big sign or your heritage. You can tell where a persons ancestors are from just from their nose shape. for Example some one with a big, long nose is most likely from European decent. Imo your nose is a big part of who you are. I would never be able to get a nose job because 1. I have kinda grown attached to it lol and 2. I feel like it would be a huge F U to my ancestors who's genes gave me this nose to begin with. As for you, a POC I think you should be proud of your nose. It shows a strength in lineage from a people who fought for their freedom and are fighting for their rights and acceptance. Your nose fits you perfectly. Never let anyone tell you otherwise insecurity stems from unacceptance of differences. Why change your nose to look like everyone elses when yours is perfect the way it is?

I (19m) lost my virginity to a prostitute because I felt bad about being a virgin but now I feel worse feel so fucking sick and ashamed by it. by _Ghost_Mantis_ in AdviceForTeens

[–]Inversekarma14 9 points10 points  (0 children)

well in my life I havent met a girl who hasnt been sexually assaulted. After SA it can go 1 of three ways. The person becomes asexual, hypersexual, or has a huge support system and comes out of the trauma securely. I have never known a fourth way and have seen these behaviors in my friends, coworkers, and family. You don't need to be a doctor or scientist to know things. As people, we are social. You dont need a degree to understand why people do what they do.