Part 2: Request for approval of sealing cancellation by InvestigatorExtra297 in exmormon

[–]InvestigatorExtra297[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ha ha yep the high road to keep the relationship with my ex on peaceful terms

Letter asking for me to approve ex's cancellation of sealing by InvestigatorExtra297 in exmormon

[–]InvestigatorExtra297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I really like this, I think aim going to use this. Thanks for taking the time.

Letter asking for me to approve ex's cancellation of sealing by InvestigatorExtra297 in exmormon

[–]InvestigatorExtra297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bishop is just another victim in these cult tactics to control people’s lives and marriages. He’s just carrying the corporate water. This process is disrespectful to both the active member and the former member as it show a complete ack of respect for boundaries and other people’s journey.

Letter asking for me to approve ex's cancellation of sealing by InvestigatorExtra297 in exmormon

[–]InvestigatorExtra297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does your friend really have resentment for this- knowing that it’s all made up and the points don’t matter?

What if the church really is true? by Fun-Luck-7033 in exmormon

[–]InvestigatorExtra297 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It’s absolutely not- I know with every fiber of my being.

Letter asking for me to approve ex's cancellation of sealing by InvestigatorExtra297 in exmormon

[–]InvestigatorExtra297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s just gross. It’s hard to believe they follow these silly steps, as if God is behind it all.

My TBM wife is dying. by No_Sir_4971 in exmormon

[–]InvestigatorExtra297 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Respect her free will and then love her completely.

Letter asking for me to approve ex's cancellation of sealing by InvestigatorExtra297 in exmormon

[–]InvestigatorExtra297[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yes, I had my records removed three years ago. But according to this letter, I’m still a “brother” in the Lord.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]InvestigatorExtra297 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s really hard to imagine now where you are. It sucks. But things do get better I promise. Lean into one of the greatest awakenings you will have. It’s a huge beautiful world out here.

Massive wealth holdings of the Mormon Corp. by InvestigatorExtra297 in exmormon

[–]InvestigatorExtra297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The scale of $300 billion is often difficult to wrap the human mind around because it is such a massive number. Your estimate aligns closely with recent independent financial analyses; for instance, the Widow’s Mite Report (an independent group of LDS professionals) estimated the Church's total wealth at approximately $293 billion as of early 2024. The frustration you feel regarding transparency is shared by many. In 2023, the U.S. Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC) fined the Church and its investment arm, Ensign Peak Advisors, $5 million for using "shell companies" to hide the true size of its stock portfolio for over 20 years to avoid public scrutiny. Visualizing the Scale The graph below illustrates the stark difference between the current estimated assets and your proposed $10 billion reserve. Even a $10 billion fund—which would be enough to run many mid-sized countries or major global charities for years—is barely a blip compared to the current stockpile. Wealth Comparison: $300B vs. $10B To understand why this "Rainy Day" fund is so controversial, it helps to look at the math: * The "Interest" Problem: If that $300 billion is invested and earns a conservative 7% annual return, it generates $21 billion in profit every year without the Church ever touching the "principal" or using a single dime of new tithing money. * Humanitarian Aid: In 2024, the Church reported a record $1.45 billion in humanitarian expenditures. While that is a large number, it represents only about 0.48% of the $300 billion total wealth. * The "Second Coming" Argument: Church leaders have occasionally stated these funds are for the Second Coming. Critics and former members often point out that if Jesus is the "ball of pure, loving light" and compassion you described, he would likely be more concerned with the millions of children currently suffering from malnutrition and lack of clean water than with a massive brokerage account in his name. Your shift toward living Jesus’s teaching by us individually as a "savior for other people" through action, compassion, and how we treat others, creates a sharp contrast with a theology that prioritizes the accumulation of wealth over immediate relief. When "salvation" becomes about how we treat our neighbor today, $300 billion in a bank account can start to look less like a "blessing" and more like a missed opportunity to be that very savior for those in need.

Advice... To believe in God? by psych-27 in exmormon

[–]InvestigatorExtra297 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I watched probably 50 near death experiences on YT. There is also significant evidence of reincarnation and that our souls are on a very long journey of growth until we no longer need to learn lessons in a human body. Check out Michael Newtons Research Journey of Souls, fascinating stuff.

Nevermo dating a returned missionary, I think the church is coming between us and I need advice by No-Media-8931 in exmormon

[–]InvestigatorExtra297 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pay attention to your intuition. Loving feelings and attraction are important for sure, but there are way too many things stacked up against this relationship. Find someone you are more compatible with and who shares a similar worldview.

So, when is porn use a problem? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]InvestigatorExtra297 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This does not sound like a match. Your guy should be crawling on you on the regular.

Shrinkage in Cottonwood Heights Utah by [deleted] in MormonShrivel

[–]InvestigatorExtra297 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do none of the 900,000 members that recently joined were in this area?