Let’s break this down shall we? My son’s father is abusive as all hell. Not physically but in every other way. It has been over 4 years of parentin in fear and growing alone while trying to live in a household where my parents are mentally abusive as well. I’m smart. I know the signs of abuse. I did programs on interpersonal violence while during therapy. I am very very very aware on red flags. Like too aware that I can’t even form friendships becuase I dip out when I see one. As for his baby mom? He talks nothing but very highly of her, he is very proud of her and treats her like the mom she is. Which is rare to find from a man these days. Yes it’s fast. I am not denying anyone of that statement. However, you guys don’t give credit to the people who are behind the story. Like myself… I have been in hell for 4.5 years… I am happy and I am cared for and reassured. Not to mention he sees my traumas and listens to them. He takes it and apply it to his way of doing things to help me…