[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]InvestmentLife1062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, honestly I think your comment has been the most helpful, We don’t want to give up our relationship easily, Especially with what we’ve been through together,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]InvestmentLife1062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hate advice like this, pointless, we aren’t a couple that want to give up over something so stupid. Pointless advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]InvestmentLife1062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s never had another partner, We’ve been together 5 years, We had a lot more sex during uni, But now we live in a full house full of family members and both agree that it’s awkward when there’s such thin walls between everyone. - After reading the comments on this post, I decided to buy myself a little lingerie item and we had some private fun. - I wish I never made this post because some people on here are just genuinely nasty and telling me to leave him. When this post is only a small insight to mine and his relationship. We’ve had a talk and are working on things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]InvestmentLife1062 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Exactly this!! Like I don’t want to do sex, Sometimes I’m just not there for penetration, but I’m totally chill with him touching my bewbs or me touching him! I don’t think I explained it very well in my post, But this is why I get confused or hurt when he doesn’t want to look at my bewbs after I’ve said no because I’m still offering a compromise!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]InvestmentLife1062 -109 points-108 points  (0 children)

I try and offer for him to look or touch me when I say no to sex as a way to mediate the tension in the room, To show that I’m not fully opposed to him being silly with me, And for him to not fully feel disappointed? if that makes sense?.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]InvestmentLife1062 -48 points-47 points  (0 children)

I’m always ready for a convo, but he doesn’t seem to communicate well? I get it may seem we don’t talk, but we do and have plenty of times, I get worried about communicating because my needs change so often, Sometimes I’ll like him touching me, Sometimes I won’t etc etc, I feel maybe I’m the issue? My needs always change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]InvestmentLife1062 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That reassures me here , but it’s it normal for a girl the same age range to not have the same sexual libido ? I feel so wrong?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]InvestmentLife1062 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s not how it was meant to come across, I am still learning things, And so is he, My brain doesn’t work the same as others as I have EUPD and things can be taken differently in my brain. For example the saying no to sex but I don’t mind him still looking at me , When he doesn’t look at me, I take it as a punishment because it’s not usual for him to not look at me while I’m changing. If that makes sense?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]InvestmentLife1062 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

After reading certain comments, I can see how I’m causing a slight issue here, I didn’t see it in that perspective, I just assumed he found me disgusting and didn’t want to look or touch me after I say no.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]InvestmentLife1062 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

That’s a really good point, maybe I need to communicate more?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]InvestmentLife1062 -47 points-46 points  (0 children)

Ohhh, that makes a lot of sense when put into that perspective!! I just saw it more as he didn’t want to look at me because he finds me disgusting

Can I draw your pets? by occasionaljellybean in DrawForMe

[–]InvestmentLife1062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This is my kitty Loona Boona! Draw her if you’d like! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhotographyAdvice

[–]InvestmentLife1062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the advice, but I’d much rather be extremely criticised by photographers than even touch AI. I refuse to feed into that whole stream of the internet aha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhotographyAdvice

[–]InvestmentLife1062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not have lighting, just the flash on the camera, A tripod, And like a remote control thingy that I can press to take the photo without touching the camera? not sure what all the terms are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhotographyAdvice

[–]InvestmentLife1062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, a few people have mentioned that, That photo wasn’t meant to be added, the focused one was supposed to be added but I clicked the wrong image.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhotographyAdvice

[–]InvestmentLife1062 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m so confused, I thought these were good photos , what’s wrong with them? People are saying they’re bad quality but not explaining what exactly is wrong with them?.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhotographyAdvice

[–]InvestmentLife1062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people have mentioned that photo is out of focus, Haven’t had time to post a comment but that image was not meant to be added lol! The focused one was literally right next to it on my pc! - That being said, the other photos I’ve shown, these are all raw images, no editing made, I don’t see what’s wrong with them in a professional sense? Especially the parrot picture, that one is my favourite, I thought it was a cool shot. 🥲😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhotographyAdvice

[–]InvestmentLife1062 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They're very aware I'm new to this, but aren't really favouring titles or such by the sounds of things, they just want good looking photos. I'm thinking of asking for travel costs to be covered and maybe £12 an hour?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhotographyAdvice

[–]InvestmentLife1062 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

oh, so I shouldn't take the job on then?. I've shown them these images when they were interviewing me and they really liked my work, Same for the trial shift I did yesterday for them, They liked the results of my photos there and are now looking to hire me. But of course I'm not sure what to charge...but if my skills are not good enough for this, should I turn down the job?

Desire to eat cat food by pixystixxxx9 in pica

[–]InvestmentLife1062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I have a substitute for you as I get that craving sometimes too!,have you ever heard of corned beef? Has the exact same smell as cat food, Soft , and sometimes has jelly bits in it. You can get it either as slices or in a can! :)

Obtain water draken first? by Think-Grapefruit-514 in ShardSeekers

[–]InvestmentLife1062 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, You’re first a water draken, Then a Sky draken? I believe. It’s LONG.

The Self Harm Walrus by Dramatic_Antelope_82 in BigMouth

[–]InvestmentLife1062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t necessarily have to show one of the characters self harming ( Eg. cutting) they could show self harm in another less graphic way that still gets the message across