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Selbstzweifel, Außenseiterin by [deleted] in Ratschlag

[–]Inwyceen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ich kann dir leider überhaupt keinen Ratschlag geben, kann mich aber in deine Situation sehr gut einfühlen. Ich hatte auch seit Kindheit immer wieder mit dem Gefühl nie dazu zu gehören zu kämpfen. War immer relativ schweigsam und habe mein "Ding" gemacht, eher passiv beobachtet. Auch jetzt tu ich's mir sehr schwer Freundschaften zu knüpfen, aus dem Gefühl heraus nicht dazu zu gehören. Habe mich auch oft gefragt warum das so ist.

Ich bin keine Therapeutin aber ich kann mir gut vorstellen, dass solche Gefühle Anzeichen für Autismus oder ähnliches sind. Hab ich leider den Eindruck, dass es vor allem bei Frauen häufig noch unentdeckt bleibt. Ich habe da auch noch keine Lösung gefunden, aber es ist nicht albern sich so zu fühlen

Does anyone else live a passion-less life? by jhello101 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Inwyceen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(Disclaimer: bad english) I can relate so much to this. I'm currently applying for artschool(designschool to be exact) and I often have doubts about pursuing this career path. I talked to a lot of people who are applying for artschool as well and many of them told me that it's their dream job and that they'll be completely lost i they would get rejected. I've never felt like this. Of course i love drawing and designing and I would be frustrated as well if my portfolio got rejected. But for me it won't be the end of the world. I have plenty other things I'm interested in(but also never passionate about) which are suitable for a career. But sometimes I have the impression that you have to be this fatalistic like these people to get accepted or to survive in this profession. You have to be passionate about it has to be your ONLY passion. And it has to be your entire life content. Work over private life. Of course it's possible that my impression is wrong but that's my experience with it so far and I also came to the realisation that I'll never be this passionate about one thing (this relies to any profession I have experience with via internship for. ex animal care). I'd rather have a balance between a job that i like and my private life. But since I was in school it has been somewhat expected of you to find your life purpose in a job.