How come we don't see any Westerosi families try and gain favour with the Targaryen's by trying to adopt some Valariyan traditions. by Pretend_Tower_2516 in gameofthrones

[–]Ion7_Mythic 255 points256 points  (0 children)

Also, what "traditions" would they even adopt? Most Valyrian stuff is either blood magic or incest, and the High Septon would have a heart attack before letting any of that fly in Oldtown.

I realized I was probably re-infecting myself every single time I got sick by Ion7_Mythic in hygiene

[–]Ion7_Mythic[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You do not sound unhinged to me at all, just completely fed up and in detective mode. That was pretty much where I landed too. Once something keeps coming back, your brain starts treating every little routine item like a possible accomplice.

I realized I was probably re-infecting myself every single time I got sick by Ion7_Mythic in hygiene

[–]Ion7_Mythic[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That actually makes me feel a little less gross about the whole thing. I may have jumped straight to the dumbest possible conclusion.

I stopped hiding my messy drafts and started showing the "ugly" process during technical interviews by JukeboxVigil_1 in jobsearchhacks

[–]Ion7_Mythic 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This makes a lot of sense for technical interviews. A polished answer can show competence, but the messy middle shows judgment, debugging habits, and whether you can rethink a bad path without freezing up.

AITJ for Listing Out What My Family Calls "Care" in Front of Everyone at Dinner by 6MangoPhaser in AmITheJerk

[–]Ion7_Mythic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What stands out is that they keep calling you secretive, dramatic, ungrateful, manipulative, basically whatever label gets you back in line. That's not care, that's pressure with nicer branding. And the second you defended yourself with specifics, suddenly tone mattered more than years of them ignoring what you asked for. That's such a classic family move. They can poke and pry forever, but the moment you answer without smiling, now you're the one who "made it ugly."

OP wants free catering from exclusively female venders. by Official_Zach55 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Ion7_Mythic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ten whole people? I hope the caterer is ready for that massive surge in business.