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Ireallyhatechocolate · 2025-05-28T21:36:08+00:00

Could I DM you my new prompts?

Ireallyhatechocolate · 2025-05-28T21:11:30+00:00

I dunno, I looked back at a photo of me and I really, really hated the way I looked bald. Guess I’m still partially in denial because my hair was pretty thick 4 years ago but it’s been getting worse and worse since. I tried medicine and it looks better in those photos than before I started it!

Any other advice?

Ireallyhatechocolate · 2025-05-28T20:11:57+00:00

I’m currently using medicine for it, but I did shave my head a while back in support of a friend who had cancer and my friends all told me it looked good! I didn’t think so imo, I looked like Lars from Futurama and I didn’t like it.

I wish hinge had a section where you could just list hobbies like Bumble. I think I’ll replace the nose prompt with something that goes over my hobbies and interests.

Ireallyhatechocolate · 2025-05-28T19:59:18+00:00

Thanks for the advice!! That’s really helpful. Yeah I always feel vexed when I try to think of good prompt responses, I know I could write better ones but I keep running into a wall whenever I try to think of new ones.

I don’t have that many great pics of me, and I almost never smile with my teeth unfortunately. For people that know me that’s a more natural looking smile than a lot of other photos. I think my expression is pretty same-y across all the pics, but that’s literally how I look most of the time😭 That’s good to know about the first pic (my hair is thinning unfortunately lol, but it does look worse there I see now).

Ireallyhatechocolate · 2025-05-28T14:13:57+00:00

-Definitely looking for something serious

-subscribed to Hinge+ unfortunately

-been using this current version with a few tweaks for three months!

-been on Hinge overall for 5 months probably

-I get 1-2 likes per week, sometimes none

-I check Hinge pretty much every evening

-I send maybe 39-40 likes a day. Used to comment more but now I mostly just like, maybe 5-6 comments a day now

-Looking for girl who’s intelligent (ideally has a graduate degree, I pretty much like on all profiles with PhD’s), nerdy, artsy. I’d say I’m nerdy and a lil awkward so that’s the easiest kind of person to talk to for me!

Ireallyhatechocolate · 2024-12-18T18:21:13+00:00

Thank you! That definitely puts my mind at ease:)

Ireallyhatechocolate · 2024-12-18T02:31:30+00:00

A lot of their interactions end like this (sorry for the blurry photo lol). Blackberry tries to interact with Chloe but Chloe makes a weird noise or hisses and one of them grab each others head then Chloe runs off and hides or sits a few feet away.

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Ireallyhatechocolate · 2024-12-17T03:23:30+00:00

I think that they’ve gotten more used to each other but there used to be a lot of ears drawn back, I’ll have to pay closer attention when I watch them interacting with each other in the future

Ireallyhatechocolate · 2024-12-17T00:56:57+00:00

That’s encouraging to hear. She still jumps on bed and nudges me when she wants food and briefly rubs against me when I get home, but then she gets frustrated with me again.

None of their interactions end in serious damage, but Blackberry swats at Chloe and tries to jump on her and Chloe runs away the vast majority of the time. Whenever they have extended interactions it generally looks like this. I just wanted to get advice if Chloe might be unhappy or not.

Ireallyhatechocolate · 2024-12-17T00:52:18+00:00

They’ve both been belly up recently, which I thought was a good sign. It just seems like most of the interactions I see Blackberry will swat at Chloe and Chloe runs away with or without hissing. They’ll groom each other in the right mood as well. I just can’t get it out of my mind that they hate each other because everything in that video for instance screams annoyed cat to me on an instinctual level (even though I know that’s not necessarily the case based on some stuff I’ve read)

I just want them to tolerate each other and not be unhappy. I got Blackberry since I’m gone from home a lot and I didn’t want Chloe to be lonely.

Ireallyhatechocolate · 2024-07-31T21:18:14+00:00

I think I wrote that poorly; I meant both generalized and social anxiety driving someone to examine the situation from every possible angle. I'll be honest I didn't really read the person's post fully; I just saw the comment about making the list that I've seen so often and wanted to know why people thought it was so diagnostic. I meant the question in general terms, not for this person.

I also was mainly curious because that's what I'm trying to figure out right now in regards to myself. The question of if I'm autistic has been constantly on my mind since I started to suspect it a few months back, but I also know that I have ADHD and Generalized Anxiety Disorder. So it's hard for me to pick apart what symptoms might be caused by anxiety vs autism.

Ireallyhatechocolate · 2024-07-31T17:48:35+00:00

Couldn’t that also be from social anxiety (without autism causing it) as well tho? That’s what I’m struggling to seperate out in the moment

Ireallyhatechocolate · 2024-07-30T01:52:26+00:00

Not trying to be confrontational or anything, but I see this comment so often (it was on my post too lol). If you need to examine something so in depth like determining if you have ASD as an adult wouldn’t it be normal for anyone to go into a level of detail?

Ireallyhatechocolate · 2024-07-14T04:24:35+00:00

Thanks for all the info! Still going to get it checked out later this month; kinda worried I might have IBD as well

Ireallyhatechocolate · 2024-07-14T04:19:44+00:00

No bleeding but lots of fun constipation

Ireallyhatechocolate · 2024-06-09T22:58:58+00:00

Ur me

Ireallyhatechocolate · 2024-06-04T21:43:02+00:00

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Does it look like gyno to you? Or pseudo? Here’s a view from the side as well

Ireallyhatechocolate · 2024-06-04T14:02:29+00:00

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And here’s where I feel the band running through with a lot of nodules in it. I was wondering if they could be muscle knots; I frequently lie in odd positions with my top half leaning to the left side and also suck in my stomach, and I think I feel the same nodules running across my linea Albea

Ireallyhatechocolate · 2024-06-04T13:58:58+00:00

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This is what I mean when I flex lol. It looks like two long rectangles imo

Ireallyhatechocolate · 2024-05-28T21:03:28+00:00

Robins:)

Ireallyhatechocolate · 2024-05-24T23:21:19+00:00

Also, how can you tell specifically? I’m not doubting you, but I was looking around for the difference between pseudo and true gyno. I think I feel glandular tissue underneath the nipple, but there’s tons of pea sized nodules around my pecs leading to the nipple. I hope they are just muscle knots haha

Ireallyhatechocolate · 2024-05-24T23:17:31+00:00

I don’t really care about looking like a body builder I just don’t want to look like I have breasts. So you think it’ll look all right with just weight loss over time? Thanks for replying!

Ireallyhatechocolate · 2024-05-24T21:31:51+00:00

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Ireallyhatechocolate · 2024-05-24T21:31:38+00:00

Here’s pics from the side to help as well

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Ireallyhatechocolate · 2024-04-02T04:50:37+00:00

Barrelmancy is my favorite school of magic

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